Having trouble narrowing down my itinerary
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Having trouble narrowing down my itinerary
Hi everyone,
I recently learned I’ll be doing a work trip in 2 weeks and then I’ll be taking 16 nights to explore Europe.
I’m having a tough time narrowing down if I want to go to:
A) Venice/Florence/Rome
B) Just Spain (Seville, Barcelona, Madrid)
C) Country mix (Berlin, Amsterdam, Budapest)
D) A mix of Portugal and maybe a little Spain
I’m 23 and this would be my first solo trip. I like going to museums, looking at beautiful architecture, and just getting lost exploring. I think a social aspect to this trip would be nice, but not totally required. I’m planning on staying in hostels.
Originally I wanted to explore Southern Europe as all the places I’ve been (Prague, Vienna, Paris, London) have been basically western/Central Europe. But I learned I also have a friend who I can visit briefly in Berlin.
To make things more complicated, most likely I’ll be going to Europe twice (I’m switching jobs so I have an extra break in between). One 2 week vacation for work trip in June, and then another 4 week trip in July. This isn’t 100% however since I’m waiting for my start date of the next job.
These all sound like cool destinations. Here are some pros and cons:
Italy:
Pros:
- June is probably better for Italy crowds and heat wise
- LOTS of sightseeing and museums and history
Cons:
- Italy might be less social than the other destinations
Spain:
Pros: Has a mix of sights, good socializing, history
Cons: I’m going in June, so temps in Seville would be high (idk if I should skip Seville just for that reason).
Portugal:
Pros: I have heard amazing things about being a solo traveler in Portugal. Really pretty architecture and castles and cool beaches
Cons: I feel like I should visit Italy or Spain before Portugal but typing that out loud sounds kind of dumb. Also for my tastes, 16 nights might be too much
Berlin/Amsterdam/Budapest:
Pros: Lots of sights and ruin pubs look so cool. Great socializing.
Cons: I wanted to see Southern Europe and maybe swim, but I guess it’s not the biggest deal. Also Anne Frank house tickets are sold out
Im having analysis paralysis and don’t know how to narrow things down.
I recently learned I’ll be doing a work trip in 2 weeks and then I’ll be taking 16 nights to explore Europe.
I’m having a tough time narrowing down if I want to go to:
A) Venice/Florence/Rome
B) Just Spain (Seville, Barcelona, Madrid)
C) Country mix (Berlin, Amsterdam, Budapest)
D) A mix of Portugal and maybe a little Spain
I’m 23 and this would be my first solo trip. I like going to museums, looking at beautiful architecture, and just getting lost exploring. I think a social aspect to this trip would be nice, but not totally required. I’m planning on staying in hostels.
Originally I wanted to explore Southern Europe as all the places I’ve been (Prague, Vienna, Paris, London) have been basically western/Central Europe. But I learned I also have a friend who I can visit briefly in Berlin.
To make things more complicated, most likely I’ll be going to Europe twice (I’m switching jobs so I have an extra break in between). One 2 week vacation for work trip in June, and then another 4 week trip in July. This isn’t 100% however since I’m waiting for my start date of the next job.
These all sound like cool destinations. Here are some pros and cons:
Italy:
Pros:
- June is probably better for Italy crowds and heat wise
- LOTS of sightseeing and museums and history
Cons:
- Italy might be less social than the other destinations
Spain:
Pros: Has a mix of sights, good socializing, history
Cons: I’m going in June, so temps in Seville would be high (idk if I should skip Seville just for that reason).
Portugal:
Pros: I have heard amazing things about being a solo traveler in Portugal. Really pretty architecture and castles and cool beaches
Cons: I feel like I should visit Italy or Spain before Portugal but typing that out loud sounds kind of dumb. Also for my tastes, 16 nights might be too much
Berlin/Amsterdam/Budapest:
Pros: Lots of sights and ruin pubs look so cool. Great socializing.
Cons: I wanted to see Southern Europe and maybe swim, but I guess it’s not the biggest deal. Also Anne Frank house tickets are sold out

Im having analysis paralysis and don’t know how to narrow things down.
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For a first trip, I would go for Italy - one of the most amazing places ever! While it’s been a long time since I’ve been 23, I was there in my early 20s and loved it. Lots of museums, great food, easy transportation. We’ve been back a number of times and there’s always more to see.
We’re currently in Portugal, but I think a number of the places that are great to see are best seen with a car. I know it’s manageable with public transportation, but not quite as easy to get to the smaller places.
We’re currently in Portugal, but I think a number of the places that are great to see are best seen with a car. I know it’s manageable with public transportation, but not quite as easy to get to the smaller places.
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For a first trip, I would go for Italy - one of the most amazing places ever! While it’s been a long time since I’ve been 23, I was there in my early 20s and loved it. Lots of museums, great food, easy transportation. We’ve been back a number of times and there’s always more to see.
We’re currently in Portugal, but I think a number of the places that are great to see are best seen with a car. I know it’s manageable with public transportation, but not quite as easy to get to the smaller places.
We’re currently in Portugal, but I think a number of the places that are great to see are best seen with a car. I know it’s manageable with public transportation, but not quite as easy to get to the smaller places.
I’d keep the other places you mention for your probable trip in July, with a month you can travel to a couple of different countries.
Enjoy planning the first of many more such trips in the years ahead…
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Appreciate the advice everyone! This is what my gut was actually telling me.
Since I have 16 nights, would this be a good itinerary? I am not sure if it’s preferable to visit Lake Como + Cinque Terre or visit Amalfi coast. Amalfi coast looks really nice as does CT!
And is Venice a good starting point?
Day 1: Land in Venice Marco Polo international
Day 2: Full day in Venice
Day 3: partial day in Venice and leave for Lago Como. Stay in Bellagio or Varenna
Day 4: Varenna/Lake Como
Day 5: Cinque Terre (partial)
Day 6: Cinque Terre
Day 7: Florence/Pisa en route
Day 8: Florence
Day 9: Florence
Day 10: Florence/Siena day trip
Day 11: Florence/Maybe Bologna day trip?
Day 12: Rome
Day 13: Rome
Day 14: Rome
Day 15: Rome
Day 16: Rome
Day 17: Leave
Other option is to skip Cinque Terre and Lago Como, and visit the Amalfi coast after Rome.
If I did the other option I could also visit Pompeii
Since I have 16 nights, would this be a good itinerary? I am not sure if it’s preferable to visit Lake Como + Cinque Terre or visit Amalfi coast. Amalfi coast looks really nice as does CT!
And is Venice a good starting point?
Day 1: Land in Venice Marco Polo international
Day 2: Full day in Venice
Day 3: partial day in Venice and leave for Lago Como. Stay in Bellagio or Varenna
Day 4: Varenna/Lake Como
Day 5: Cinque Terre (partial)
Day 6: Cinque Terre
Day 7: Florence/Pisa en route
Day 8: Florence
Day 9: Florence
Day 10: Florence/Siena day trip
Day 11: Florence/Maybe Bologna day trip?
Day 12: Rome
Day 13: Rome
Day 14: Rome
Day 15: Rome
Day 16: Rome
Day 17: Leave
Other option is to skip Cinque Terre and Lago Como, and visit the Amalfi coast after Rome.
If I did the other option I could also visit Pompeii
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Your itin looks fine. June is still early in the italian holiday period
Given your age (and given that Italian students tend to be older, first graduation average age is 25+) I might look at a stopping in Bologna a fair bit more.
So start in Venice, Padova, (just because they are such amazing towns), then down to Bologna (big university town), then Florence and finally Rome. You'll see from the train system there are loads of other exciting places to stop along the way. Maybe even take a slow train rather than rush about like a tourist.
seat61.com explains train system
Given your age (and given that Italian students tend to be older, first graduation average age is 25+) I might look at a stopping in Bologna a fair bit more.
So start in Venice, Padova, (just because they are such amazing towns), then down to Bologna (big university town), then Florence and finally Rome. You'll see from the train system there are loads of other exciting places to stop along the way. Maybe even take a slow train rather than rush about like a tourist.
seat61.com explains train system
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It’s kind of hard to just come there without a plan for when I’ll be at each city because I do want to book ahead for things that may sell out like the Vatican
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I'd go to Italy since you expressed an interest in museums and architecture. I think you are trying to do too much. Even with 16 days you want to be in Italy (not in a train station).
You might consider Venice-Florence-Rome (give up Lake Como and Cinque Terre). One gem between Florence and Rome is Orvieto . The Amalfi Coast is spectacular but not inexpensive and you will spend more time getting there.
There are great day trips from Rome although you could spend 16 days in Rome and never see it all. Two day trips from Rome - Ostia Antica and Tivoli (Hadrian's Villa and Villa d'Este) Villa d'Este is one of my favorite places. In summer, they are open at night and seeing the fountains lit up is magic (and refreshing after a hot day).
You will see a lot in Italy and you don't have to go looking for it (I promise).
You might consider Venice-Florence-Rome (give up Lake Como and Cinque Terre). One gem between Florence and Rome is Orvieto . The Amalfi Coast is spectacular but not inexpensive and you will spend more time getting there.
There are great day trips from Rome although you could spend 16 days in Rome and never see it all. Two day trips from Rome - Ostia Antica and Tivoli (Hadrian's Villa and Villa d'Este) Villa d'Este is one of my favorite places. In summer, they are open at night and seeing the fountains lit up is magic (and refreshing after a hot day).
You will see a lot in Italy and you don't have to go looking for it (I promise).
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I'd go to Italy since you expressed an interest in museums and architecture. I think you are trying to do too much. Even with 16 days you want to be in Italy (not in a train station).
You might consider Venice-Florence-Rome (give up Lake Como and Cinque Terre). One gem between Florence and Rome is Orvieto . The Amalfi Coast is spectacular but not inexpensive and you will spend more time getting there.
There are great day trips from Rome although you could spend 16 days in Rome and never see it all. Two day trips from Rome - Ostia Antica and Tivoli (Hadrian's Villa and Villa d'Este) Villa d'Este is one of my favorite places. In summer, they are open at night and seeing the fountains lit up is magic (and refreshing after a hot day).
You will see a lot in Italy and you don't have to go looking for it (I promise).
You might consider Venice-Florence-Rome (give up Lake Como and Cinque Terre). One gem between Florence and Rome is Orvieto . The Amalfi Coast is spectacular but not inexpensive and you will spend more time getting there.
There are great day trips from Rome although you could spend 16 days in Rome and never see it all. Two day trips from Rome - Ostia Antica and Tivoli (Hadrian's Villa and Villa d'Este) Villa d'Este is one of my favorite places. In summer, they are open at night and seeing the fountains lit up is magic (and refreshing after a hot day).
You will see a lot in Italy and you don't have to go looking for it (I promise).
Also budget isn’t an issue for me. I really wanted to see the Blue Grotto in the Amalfi Coast. I’m doing hostels for the social aspect.
I will take a look at these day trips!
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The Blue Grotto is on the island of Capri, not the Amalfi Coast. Whether or not boats can go in there is dependent upon the conditions of the sea. I would not build an itinerary around seeing it. An overtouristed
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Well - there is a ton to see and while you will likely never see it all, you do have to take travel time and waiting time (as in line/queue) to get in places that are of interest to you. We spent 9 nights in Rome a few years ago and didn't scratch the surface of what there is to see. But that's me. Given that you are going in June, you will have more crowds and post-covid potentially more than usual.
Amalfi Coast is gorgeous but not particularly easy to get to from Rome, Venice or Florence. And the post on the Blue Grotto being at Capri is correct, so all of those places take travel time (trains, boats, automobiles). It sounds a bit more exhausting than exhilarating.
It's your trip - so do what you think you would enjoy. I'll just say that in my experience, I feel like I see more and enjoy more of the experience when I am not trying to cover too much distance in one trip. There isn't a right or wrong but I do always look back at our trips to see what we could have done differently or better - even on our best trips. Whatever you decide, enjoy your trip. Italy is wonderful and would be if you went to a cafe everyday and just sipped wine and watched people.
Amalfi Coast is gorgeous but not particularly easy to get to from Rome, Venice or Florence. And the post on the Blue Grotto being at Capri is correct, so all of those places take travel time (trains, boats, automobiles). It sounds a bit more exhausting than exhilarating.
It's your trip - so do what you think you would enjoy. I'll just say that in my experience, I feel like I see more and enjoy more of the experience when I am not trying to cover too much distance in one trip. There isn't a right or wrong but I do always look back at our trips to see what we could have done differently or better - even on our best trips. Whatever you decide, enjoy your trip. Italy is wonderful and would be if you went to a cafe everyday and just sipped wine and watched people.
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I love Venice and Rome, so I think you're shortchanging Venice. Venice has a LOT of art & architecture to see way beyond running the gauntlet from Rialto to San Marco. The city is also much more pleasant in the quieter, less-visited areas.
If you like contemporary art, the Venice Biennale Arte is currently on.
https://www.labiennale.org/en/art/2022
If you like contemporary art, the Venice Biennale Arte is currently on.
https://www.labiennale.org/en/art/2022
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I have to chime in....definitely Italy. I agree with the posters above. You don't want to be running from one train station to another. My rule of thumb is 3 full days in one place. If I get sick of it or feel the need to wander, I do a day trip. For example : Venice 3 days and one day Burano and Murano. It is a vacay, so you want to relax. If you stay in hostels, you give yourself some time to socialize. If not, why not do some walking tours. The "free" ones are great and attract a lot of younger people (always give them a big tip). As a side note, if it is in your budget, you can do some foodie tours. There are great guides in Venice.
Having said all that, some people enjoy the journey more than the place. If that is the case, then stick with the itinerary you made above.
Having said all that, some people enjoy the journey more than the place. If that is the case, then stick with the itinerary you made above.
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If you are interested in Bologna, you could visit there after Venice as it is about an hour away by train. If it were my trip, I would cut out Lake Como and stay longer in Venice and add a day or two in Bologna. You could cut a day from Rome. You could consider:
Day 1, 2 and 3 Venice (Visit Burano & Murano one of those days. Be sure to go to the Piazza Marco Polo at night when the crowds have left and listen to the orchestras.)
Day 4 & 5 Bologna
Day 6, 7 & 8 CT
Day 9 ,10 & 11 Florence
Day 12 Day trip to Siena (or stay in Siena)
Day 13+ Rome
Day 1, 2 and 3 Venice (Visit Burano & Murano one of those days. Be sure to go to the Piazza Marco Polo at night when the crowds have left and listen to the orchestras.)
Day 4 & 5 Bologna
Day 6, 7 & 8 CT
Day 9 ,10 & 11 Florence
Day 12 Day trip to Siena (or stay in Siena)
Day 13+ Rome
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