Does anyone know anywhere in SF or nearby to have a quickie wedding in mid February? or a website that could help. google only comes up with Las Vegas places.

The local book that folks use here in the SF Bay area is "Here Comes the Guide". You could check for it on Amazon.
As far as where to have it, what are you looking for? You could try searching the SFGate web site. I don't know what the rules are in parks, but there are plenty of nice ones with great views for photos. also, do you need a liscence here? Call the "City and County of San Francisco" if you do and find out ahead of time what they require. As you likely know, lots of great couples have taken their vows at the handsome SF City Hall (Hey, you could do it there and have a party in a great restaurant afterwards!)

I would start with the City Hall and the religious institution of your denomination if you are a believer.

Their city hall is gorgeous and you can make an appointment easily online.

Fly to Colorado. When you get the license, the clerk can put a check in box on the form and voila! you're married. No need to find a judge or minister.

You can do a quickie in Reno, Nevada, an hour's flight from SF.

That reminds me of the riddle.

Q. Why do divorces cost so much?

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A. Because they're worth it!!!

Try www.theknot.com as a reference. They have forums divided by geographic area, and the brides there tend to be very helpful.

As someone already said, City Hall is stunning, and is available for civil ceremonies. I think Rosie got hitched there.