Everything you wrote screamed Las Vegas to me!

emcash, one point about coming to Naples, is I can't imagine doing so without renting a car. Taxis are far and few between and VERY expensive. Car rentals are very cheap. For a three or four day stay, you are likely able to rent a car for the full stay for less than you'd pay just for the ride to and from the airport to your hotel.

Unless you want to sit at the Ritz or another resort 24/7 and only use their facilities, I'd strongly recommend getting a car.

The fairmont southampton in bermuda is currently advertising a special geared to "Girls' weekends". Here is the link:

http://www.fairmont.com/promo/shpspring

There are direct flights from Boston on several airlines.

oooops- sorry I just realized that the promotion is for a specific weekend in April or october. On first glance it looked like april through october

Atlantic City!
lots of fun there and you can hit the other shore towns near by.

I am familar with the Seagrove/Destin area. If you want to email me, I can recommend houses,condos, and restaurants in the area.

My vote will always be St. John,USVI. In fact we loved it so much we got married there 3 years ago. You simply can't beat it for scenery and short plane ride. Caneel Bay would be a great place for you girls to stay and it's a short cab ride into Cruz Bay, the social hub of St. John. Very casual and islandy restaurants await you!

AC ?! I hope your are joking, seriously. They said late 30's, not late 70's.

Jacksonville Florida. Bars, shopping, beaches. The Ponte Vedra hotel is amazing and they have a wonderful spa. You WILL be pampered.