Need insight into where to go to relax beach side, topless, night life w/o frenzied party scene. Do like to have fun, but not 20 anymore. Ibiza, Mallorca or the coast? Need hotel info too. Thanks

Any of them..depending on budget I mean, both Ibiza and Mallorca have good spots , not very touristy or party focused..but they usually are far more expensive than the others
I think the mainland coast would work better for you. When do you plan to travel ? It can make a big differente.

Ibiza esp is a very young, party hardy crowd.

I too think you would be better in one of the resorts on the coast. Everyplace we found around Marbella was topless. Assume the same is true of the Costa Brava.

You can do topless in every beach..there are no special places for that.

Personally I like the north coast from San Sebastian westwards.

While SS itself might be a bit too trendy for this activity I'm sure the beaches further along will be accustomed to it.

Be aware though that this coastline is not as warm as down south and only August and early September are comfortable for sunbathing there.

Hasta luega, pasta fuegs

Harzer

Thanks, budget is good, do you recommend a specific hotel? Would want beach side with a view. Not needing half board either