We're traveling with our 2 yr.old daughter. Which would be better, St. Martin or Bahamas? How's the all-inclusive in Nassau, Bahamas?? I'm concerned whether it will be too much with a toddler to do st. martin. People have also commented that you can't find "luxury" hotels in st. martin (that it's a different standard).

I don't think that is true about St. Martin. Here's a couple luxury hotels, the first one is a member of Leading Hotels of the World:

http://www.lasamanna.com/web/omar/omar_a1a_splash.jsp
http://www.lemeridien.com/west_indie...l_sm1694.shtml

Considering you have a 2 year old, why not consider a condo with a living room and kitchen, which would make life a lot easier than doing restaurants for every meal. Nassau is a zoo and your baby won't get anything out of it. St. Martin would probably be more restful for mom and dad.

http://www.princessheights.com/
http://www.wiol.com/st-martin-st-maarten/deals.html

One thing to consider about your trip is whether you will be spending most of your time at the resort, or out and about. When my boyfriend and I were in the bahamas we were offered drugs and were felt hassled a lot. That may be something to consider when you've got a kid. St. Martin we never had a problem though.