Go Back  Fodor's Travel Talk Forums > Destinations > Caribbean Islands
Reload this Page >

help needed for husband who will not fly.

Search

help needed for husband who will not fly.

Thread Tools
 
Search this Thread
 
Old Apr 8th, 2013, 11:11 AM
  #1  
Original Poster
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Posts: 2
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
help needed for husband who will not fly.

We live in the Dallas area and my husband will not fly airplanes willingly. I want to go to an island for our 19 year anniversary. We took a cruise from Galveston once, it was okay, but I'd love him to experience a real Caribbean island, like the Virgins in a great resort. I may be able to get him to drive to Florida.
marydaddy is offline  
Old Apr 8th, 2013, 11:33 AM
  #2  
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 5,967
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
There is no way to get to any Caribbean island fr the US without flying unless you go by cruise ship and most cruise ships departing from US Ports will not allow you to disembark and remain on any island without special permission. If you were granted permission you'd still have to pay the full fare for the cruise for the both of you. You would then have to go through a similar procedure and pay for a "second" cruise to get back to the US. So in effect you will be paying for 2 cruises plus your stay at a resort on the specific island you choose.

Your only other option would be to charter a private yacht to sail you from a US Port to the island of your choice. That will be even more expensive ( think in terms of tens of thousands of dollars),take about a week to 10 days each way (assuming you have a perfect weather window) to the Virgin Islands - even longer if you go to an island further south and you will be crossing a lot of open water - a trip best left to experienced "blue water sailors".

What don't you skip the idea of an island resort stay and just book a cruise through the Caribbean. There are plenty that leave from Florida ports.
RoamsAround is offline  
Old Apr 8th, 2013, 11:33 AM
  #3  
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 228
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
There is a ferry where you can get to the Bahamas from Florida. That is about the only island close enough to make this possible, everywhere else is too far. The Caribbean is a big sea. As far as I can see, your options are:

1. Drive to Florida then:
A. Ferry to Bahamas, or
B. Cruise out of Florida
2. Find a cruise departing from TX

What is your husband's issue with flying, is it paralyzing anxiety? If so, would he be open to taking a Xanax before a flight? It isn't uncommon for people to get a prescription from their doctor just for this purpose.
Mazey is offline  
Old Apr 9th, 2013, 09:48 AM
  #4  
 
Join Date: Oct 2012
Posts: 110
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
Have him go to the doctor and have them prescribe him some xanax or something similar. My mom has extreme flight anxiety so that’s what her doctor prescribes for her.
dontcallmecass is offline  
Old Apr 9th, 2013, 01:49 PM
  #5  
Original Poster
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Posts: 2
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
Thank you Mazey and RoamsAround! I really didn't think there would be an easy way. I'll start working on the Xanax idea since we're going to have to fly!
Have a blessed day.
marydaddy is offline  
Old Apr 10th, 2013, 10:50 AM
  #6  
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Posts: 97,185
Received 12 Likes on 11 Posts
Why couldn't you drive to a cruiseport city, and catch the ship from there? That wouldn't require a plane trip.
suze is offline  
Related Topics
Thread
Original Poster
Forum
Replies
Last Post
caryndubrow
Cruises
6
Jan 2nd, 2019 09:22 AM
brandonmd
Cruises
6
Dec 29th, 2009 05:09 PM
Tim_and_Liz
Australia & the Pacific
3
Feb 13th, 2008 10:30 AM
sby2
Caribbean Islands
6
Jan 7th, 2007 03:52 PM
MNAL
Cruises
8
Apr 3rd, 2003 04:12 PM

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are On



Contact Us - Manage Preferences - Archive - Advertising - Cookie Policy - Privacy Statement - Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information -