I am looking for a special two nights with my husband..should we stay at The Beverly Hills Hote,The Pennunsula at Beverly Hills. or The Four Seasons?

The Peninsula BH is the ne plus ultra of luxury hotels in Beverly Hills, so I'd put that at the top of your list if you want the over-the-top experience.

Having said that, the Beverly Hills Hotel has such wonderful history.... I would choose it just out of Hollywood royalty nostalgia.

How about Hotel Bel Air?

I've stayed at the BHH in a deluxe room, and was incredibly happy with it in every way. It really is a luxurious hotel, and surprisingly unpretentious. Great room, great service.
I know the Peninsula's ranked higher by the travel mags., so it must be something else.
(I think the Four Seasons BH is not in the same league, by the way.)

Hotel Bel-Air is my reco. A five star hotel..and youfeel like your at a country estate just minutes from Beverly Hills. It gets better every time we stay there.
If you wamt LA glitz Bev Hills or The Penn. ALL$$$$

Another vote for Hotel Bel-Air.

Bill