Spouse and I want to celebrate 37 years in Kauai. Looking for all inclusive. Live in Arizona so don’t need sunny all the time. Quiet, relaxing, any recommendations?

If you mean AI resorts like the ones in the Caribbean and Mexico (all food, alcohol) you won't find that in Hawaii. Sorry.

On the good side, you can enjoy trying different restaurants and bars.

Is there a nice not geared for families hotel you'd recommend? We don't need the super sunny side as we live in Arizona and get a lot of sun. Beauty and some sun would be ideal.

I can't really say what's geared for families, I'm sure that depends on the season. We stayed at Mariott Kauai Beach Club which has a beautiful pool, but swimming on the beach is not usually recommended. This hotel can be reached by shuttle from the airport. We were there in mid September and we saw very few families, probably because school had started.

On the north shore we stayed at the Princeville Westin. This place was more like a bunch of condos with kitchens and washer/dryer. Again, not a great beach but some good ones are a short drive.

It's on another island but you should check out the Four Seasons Lanai - it's the lap of luxury.