What essentials do I really need for first time trip
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What essentials do I really need for first time trip
My husband and I will be traveling to Europe for the first time next month. We will be in London, Paris, and Rome. I have read alot to try to prepare but am still unsure what exactly to take. A couple of things I am specifically wondering: Can I wear my wedding set (rings), purse or no purse, and items of clothing that are absolute must haves. I feel like I should be able to just take some of what I already have, basically capris and plain crew neck tees, one empire waist dress, a sweater, walking shoes, flip flops, etc but I am just not sure. I think I would rather save my money to spend on the trip than purchasing a new travel wardrobe. I would really appreciate suggestions. Thanks.
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It depends mostly on how light you are trying to go. People who go in one carryon each (like us) really need clothes that are quite thin (not bulky) and sometimes it necessitates picking up a few new things that pack really well. If you're not trying to do this, they you can probably take the things you already own. Depending on what you mean by flip flops, they might not be the best idea if you mean to wear them in London, Rome, and Paris. I have never left my wedding rings at home, and I always have a relatively small crossbody purse with me. Others will no doubt give you their opinions.
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This should get quite a few responses because it's a forum favorite topic. I've done three trips to Europe and am planning a fourth next summer, so I have some experience but I'm still learning. My ideas:
...keep a single color scheme, like black as a neutral for pants, jackets, shoes, purse and pair with print/solid color tops
...for me, one pair of very comfortable and moderately stylish black sandals and one pair of closed toe walking flats are a perfect combo for summer in Europe. I don't think flip-flops are fun on European cobbled streets, and your feet are more likely to get dirty traipsing around cities all day.
...choose wash and hang-dry fabrics. chances are you will do some sink laundry at some point. A travel clothesline is good to have.
...I like to have one small black purse with a long enough strap to go over my head and shoulders so I can walk hands free, but still have something to carry money, sunglasses, chapstick, etc. in the evening.
...Capris are versatile and can go anywhere.
...bring hand sanitizer or wipes for travel days. Earplugs are good for city hotels.
...I wear my wedding ring, but I keep jewelry in general simple and non-valuable.
Have a great time!
...keep a single color scheme, like black as a neutral for pants, jackets, shoes, purse and pair with print/solid color tops
...for me, one pair of very comfortable and moderately stylish black sandals and one pair of closed toe walking flats are a perfect combo for summer in Europe. I don't think flip-flops are fun on European cobbled streets, and your feet are more likely to get dirty traipsing around cities all day.
...choose wash and hang-dry fabrics. chances are you will do some sink laundry at some point. A travel clothesline is good to have.
...I like to have one small black purse with a long enough strap to go over my head and shoulders so I can walk hands free, but still have something to carry money, sunglasses, chapstick, etc. in the evening.
...Capris are versatile and can go anywhere.
...bring hand sanitizer or wipes for travel days. Earplugs are good for city hotels.
...I wear my wedding ring, but I keep jewelry in general simple and non-valuable.
Have a great time!
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Thin clothes that pack well...Chico's on-line has a line of clothing called Zenergy that is lightweight and packs and dries well. Travelsmith on-line has some options. Most large department stores carry lightweight nylon tops for summer. REI on-line has a few wash n dry capri styles.
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I also like to travel with a basic color to build on, not black for me but kakhi or navy, with enough different tops not to have to wear one more than twice. Be sure your shoes are comfortable, and take a couple of pairs, one of which is suitable for wearing to dinner but not high heels. You don't need to buy new clothes. If you have new shoes, wear them from now until you leave and take some moleskin with you in case of blisters.
Take a small bottle of spray-on wrinkle release (Downy is good).
Don't take expensive jewelry or leave extra cash in your room, but wearing your wedding and engagement rings is fine. You should be aware of your surroundings, but you don't need to worry about being in big cities. The only time I've ever felt uncomfortable about my purse was once in New Orleans, and my husband saw what was about to happen and quickly stepped very close to me.
Relax and have a really good time. You will be making memories for a lifetime.
Take a small bottle of spray-on wrinkle release (Downy is good).
Don't take expensive jewelry or leave extra cash in your room, but wearing your wedding and engagement rings is fine. You should be aware of your surroundings, but you don't need to worry about being in big cities. The only time I've ever felt uncomfortable about my purse was once in New Orleans, and my husband saw what was about to happen and quickly stepped very close to me.
Relax and have a really good time. You will be making memories for a lifetime.
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To answer your question, I like Citiknits from QVC, which are like Chico's travel knits. HSN also has a similar brand, Slinky, but I have never tried that. I don't think you really need a special brand tho. A relatively thin knit that looks like it won't wrinkle when packed. If you have any already, you could try folding them and packing them and see how it works. Again, this seems necessary only if you are going to go with only one suitcase. We only go this way, for various reasons, but many people think it is way too restricting.
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Haven't been to Rome, but I find I'm more comfortable in Paris or London dressing up just a bit more than I would in the states, to blend in more and look less like a tourist. I know you will have a glorious time -- hope its not too hot. I always wear my wedding ring and always carry a purse. My husband often puts our cash in a deep front pants pocket -- not in the back in his wallet.
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You don;t need a new wardrobe - normal clothes shold be fine.
But a couple of notes:
You must have a sturdy folding umbrella - since it will rain
Rome will be HOT and humid - so count on wearing each item only once before sending to the laundry
I would not reco flip flops - since you will be doing a LOT of walking on cobblestones and uneven pavements and stairway - and something sturdy (and closed when it rains) is more useful.
Be prepared for Paris to be very hot - or just warm
Be prepared for London to be warm - or coolish and rainy
How many nicer outfits you take depends on where you will be eating. If primarily casual places - then day clothes are fine (although in italy in summer we usually go back to the hotel and shower/change before dinner). If you plan on eating in more nicer restaurants you will need more than one nicer outfit - whether a dress or silk pantsuit or whatever
Generally the Italians are quite stylish and don;t wear very casuale clothes in big cities once past the student age - but you are obviously free to wear what you want.
But a couple of notes:
You must have a sturdy folding umbrella - since it will rain
Rome will be HOT and humid - so count on wearing each item only once before sending to the laundry
I would not reco flip flops - since you will be doing a LOT of walking on cobblestones and uneven pavements and stairway - and something sturdy (and closed when it rains) is more useful.
Be prepared for Paris to be very hot - or just warm
Be prepared for London to be warm - or coolish and rainy
How many nicer outfits you take depends on where you will be eating. If primarily casual places - then day clothes are fine (although in italy in summer we usually go back to the hotel and shower/change before dinner). If you plan on eating in more nicer restaurants you will need more than one nicer outfit - whether a dress or silk pantsuit or whatever
Generally the Italians are quite stylish and don;t wear very casuale clothes in big cities once past the student age - but you are obviously free to wear what you want.
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Don't forget rain gear of some sort--I hate umbrellas and would rather wear my rather unfashionable but newish and serviceble Eddie Bauer lightweight Goretex-like rainjacket with a hood.
Not clothing but don't forget wash/face clothes if you want for showering/bathing.
Layers--including something warm, as weather MIGHT be coolish in London.We all agree to wear stuff multiple times (in different combinations and in different layering combos) except for socks and undies!
Definitely have your shoes broken in and I think not flip-flops of any sort for much walking you will be doing (might want them for around rooms but that just means something else to pack and traveling light is way to go) not because they are inappropriate style-wise but probably not best for amount of walking you'll probably be doing--and type of city terrains.
People do wear jeans and capris in London but I feel more comfortable in dark pants to go with variety of tops, so I would include at least one pair.
Not clothing but don't forget wash/face clothes if you want for showering/bathing.
Layers--including something warm, as weather MIGHT be coolish in London.We all agree to wear stuff multiple times (in different combinations and in different layering combos) except for socks and undies!
Definitely have your shoes broken in and I think not flip-flops of any sort for much walking you will be doing (might want them for around rooms but that just means something else to pack and traveling light is way to go) not because they are inappropriate style-wise but probably not best for amount of walking you'll probably be doing--and type of city terrains.
People do wear jeans and capris in London but I feel more comfortable in dark pants to go with variety of tops, so I would include at least one pair.
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This is always a "hot topic" on Fodor's, but it seems that you already have a pretty good handle on things and you sound pretty smart, so I wouldn't worry about it too much. The above advice is very good. I realize you were mainly referring to clothing items, but for toiletries, etc. there is an excellent Fodor's thread with additional tips that I thought was good enough to print for future reference. You can find it here: http://www.fodors.com/community/euro...ck-and-how.cfm
Have fun with your trip!
Have fun with your trip!
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Hello mrswillie, if you don't want to walk around your hotel room barefoot or in your walking shoes a very lightweight inexpensive flipflops is so handy to use and take up very little room in your luggage. Or a pair of slippers of course. But I find flipflops the better choice.
I would certainly wear your wedding ring set unless your engagement ring has a very outstanding diamond, something that would really catch "someone's" eye. And I would take a purse.
Do take clothes that you feel wonderful in and as others have said coordinate your colors so that you tops will go with the various bottoms etc. Will you be going to all casual eating places or will you go to a few upscale restaurants? If a few upscales you might want to pack a long pair of pants or a skirt. A lot of women like to take a few pretty scarves to wear in the evening when eating out to dress up whatever top they are wearing.
Do you remove your wedding ring set when taking a shower, going to bed etc? If so here is something I learned from an older woman who was a constant world traveller when I was a young woman. Never, ever ever, place your wedding ring set or any piece of jewelry on a bathroom sink counter, a nightstand, a dresser etc. When removed immediately put the item(s) in the zippered pocket inside your purse. No if and or buts, no exceptions. I followed her good advice and to this day I still do. Even at home when a piece of jewelry is taken off I immediately put it in the proper place in my jewelry drawer. This lovely woman told me if she wants to remove any ring to put on hand cream she carries the cream to her purse or brings the purse to where the cream is and again the ring(s) went into her purse before she put on the hand cream. A lesson she learned after losing her beautiful engagement ring in a hotel room when she left it on a bathroom sink counter.
Wishing you two a beautiful trip! I always think the first trip to Europe is the most splendid of all! And if you do forget to bring something you can of course purchase it in Europe. Best regards.
I would certainly wear your wedding ring set unless your engagement ring has a very outstanding diamond, something that would really catch "someone's" eye. And I would take a purse.
Do take clothes that you feel wonderful in and as others have said coordinate your colors so that you tops will go with the various bottoms etc. Will you be going to all casual eating places or will you go to a few upscale restaurants? If a few upscales you might want to pack a long pair of pants or a skirt. A lot of women like to take a few pretty scarves to wear in the evening when eating out to dress up whatever top they are wearing.
Do you remove your wedding ring set when taking a shower, going to bed etc? If so here is something I learned from an older woman who was a constant world traveller when I was a young woman. Never, ever ever, place your wedding ring set or any piece of jewelry on a bathroom sink counter, a nightstand, a dresser etc. When removed immediately put the item(s) in the zippered pocket inside your purse. No if and or buts, no exceptions. I followed her good advice and to this day I still do. Even at home when a piece of jewelry is taken off I immediately put it in the proper place in my jewelry drawer. This lovely woman told me if she wants to remove any ring to put on hand cream she carries the cream to her purse or brings the purse to where the cream is and again the ring(s) went into her purse before she put on the hand cream. A lesson she learned after losing her beautiful engagement ring in a hotel room when she left it on a bathroom sink counter.
Wishing you two a beautiful trip! I always think the first trip to Europe is the most splendid of all! And if you do forget to bring something you can of course purchase it in Europe. Best regards.
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I think you have a good idea, although I agree with others that flip flops are generally not the most comfortable thing to wear when doing lots and lots of walking. I prefer a shoe with arch support etc.
I wear my wedding ring but I leave my engagement ring at home, because I do tend to take it off while showering and sleeping. I'm afraid I would leave it behind somewhere, not particularly afraid of it being ripped of my finger by a thief. Any other jewellery I take is inexpensive bits and pieces that I wouldn't heartbroken over if it was lost.
A fold up umbrella is a great idea as nytraveller has said - good for rain and the sun which can be merciless in European summers. I like to take a few accessories - scarves etc, but don't bother with them if you aren't used to them. I also take a flat black leather purse with several compartments - I wear it across my body which I find less tiring than carrying a handbag all day.
The one item I always like to take is a pair of yoga pants (or similar) which are lovely to change into back in our hotel/apartment at the end of a long day.
I wear my wedding ring but I leave my engagement ring at home, because I do tend to take it off while showering and sleeping. I'm afraid I would leave it behind somewhere, not particularly afraid of it being ripped of my finger by a thief. Any other jewellery I take is inexpensive bits and pieces that I wouldn't heartbroken over if it was lost.
A fold up umbrella is a great idea as nytraveller has said - good for rain and the sun which can be merciless in European summers. I like to take a few accessories - scarves etc, but don't bother with them if you aren't used to them. I also take a flat black leather purse with several compartments - I wear it across my body which I find less tiring than carrying a handbag all day.
The one item I always like to take is a pair of yoga pants (or similar) which are lovely to change into back in our hotel/apartment at the end of a long day.
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You are wise to wear the clothes that you love. I would never wear anything on vacation that I wouldn't wear at home. Many people spend time thinking and choosing the clothes that they usually wear because that the clothing that suits them the best. I do have pieces of "travel" clothing in my wardrobe because I like to wear it at home too.
Take a purse for your camera and little things. It's a good idea. I use a bag that I use at home. I believe in taking a couple of pairs of shoes but the only flip flops I carry are waterproof. If you search for travel light or packing lists here on fodors you'll find some useful info.
Learn how to use the search button here so you'll be well prepared to ask good questions. People on this forum have a wealth of information.
Have a great trip.
Take a purse for your camera and little things. It's a good idea. I use a bag that I use at home. I believe in taking a couple of pairs of shoes but the only flip flops I carry are waterproof. If you search for travel light or packing lists here on fodors you'll find some useful info.
Learn how to use the search button here so you'll be well prepared to ask good questions. People on this forum have a wealth of information.
Have a great trip.
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Thanks for all of the good ideas! I need to clarify the flip flops--I like to wear flip flops on the plane so I can easily take them on and off. I then use them in the hotel like slippers and they are available for showers if needed. I do not wear them for walking. I have a tan pair of walkers/hikers for sightseeing and I will bring a black pair of flats for more dressier times.
I read so many things on travel sites advising that colorful clothing was absolutely out for a trip to Europe and alot of the crews I have and wear are colorful, no words, but some are prints. They all match with my capris because those are all neutral. I am so gald to hear you mostly all bring a purse because I have been reading that is another thing not recommended but I will feel much better having one along. I have a baggalinni bag that I wear crossbody all the time and I will bring that I think. I was planning on brining one dress to wear but I may throw in a skirt and top as well. My husband and I are more casual types but I expect maybe one nice dressy evening out activity in each city. Heck, the dress might work for all of that since it will be 3 different cities and it is not like anyone will know us!
I also read that I should not wear my engagement ring. Since mine are soldered together that would be a problem so I am also glad to hear you all don't really have a problem with this. Somehow it seemed wrong to me to leave them at home, especially for an anniversary trip!
I will pack an umbrella and I appreciate the tip about the face cloths I will have to pack some of those as well.
I am going to look at some of the knit tops you all mentioned. Maybe a couple of those wouldn't be a bad idea. Some neutral ones, just for the ease of washing on really hot days. I really appreciate your suggestions and if you all think of others please add them on. Thanks!!
I read so many things on travel sites advising that colorful clothing was absolutely out for a trip to Europe and alot of the crews I have and wear are colorful, no words, but some are prints. They all match with my capris because those are all neutral. I am so gald to hear you mostly all bring a purse because I have been reading that is another thing not recommended but I will feel much better having one along. I have a baggalinni bag that I wear crossbody all the time and I will bring that I think. I was planning on brining one dress to wear but I may throw in a skirt and top as well. My husband and I are more casual types but I expect maybe one nice dressy evening out activity in each city. Heck, the dress might work for all of that since it will be 3 different cities and it is not like anyone will know us!
I also read that I should not wear my engagement ring. Since mine are soldered together that would be a problem so I am also glad to hear you all don't really have a problem with this. Somehow it seemed wrong to me to leave them at home, especially for an anniversary trip!
I will pack an umbrella and I appreciate the tip about the face cloths I will have to pack some of those as well.
I am going to look at some of the knit tops you all mentioned. Maybe a couple of those wouldn't be a bad idea. Some neutral ones, just for the ease of washing on really hot days. I really appreciate your suggestions and if you all think of others please add them on. Thanks!!
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Hangers, put a few on the outside zipper section of your suitcase. I find so many places have too few, or ones I can't use to hang my laundry to dry. Throw them out for the return.
Sanitizing wipes better than liquid, you can use to wipe areas clean when needed, as well as hands.
Don't forget sunglasses and plenty of reading material for flights and rest time, as English books would be expensive abroad.
Carry small sizes of cosmetics and hairspray,etc to conserve room.
Sanitizing wipes better than liquid, you can use to wipe areas clean when needed, as well as hands.
Don't forget sunglasses and plenty of reading material for flights and rest time, as English books would be expensive abroad.
Carry small sizes of cosmetics and hairspray,etc to conserve room.
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Be sure to make a couple of copies of your passport--one to keep in your suitcases--one to leave with someone at home--just in case.
I always keep my wedding rings on...if you don't take them off, you need not be worried.
We usually put a couple of plastic bags in our suitcases in case we need to pack shoes that are not too clean.
I use flip flops as bedroom slippers.
You will see all kinds of clothing--even colorful--if you wear what you like and looks good on you, and also packs well, you can't go wrong! (you are a tourist and you will have lots of company in all 3 cities!)
I always keep my wedding rings on...if you don't take them off, you need not be worried.
We usually put a couple of plastic bags in our suitcases in case we need to pack shoes that are not too clean.
I use flip flops as bedroom slippers.
You will see all kinds of clothing--even colorful--if you wear what you like and looks good on you, and also packs well, you can't go wrong! (you are a tourist and you will have lots of company in all 3 cities!)

