Urgent- Pleaseee HELP - Spain, Italy or France for Xmass and New years
#324
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We had a really nice visit. Didn't get to see as much as on the itinerary due to the busy time and long lines, but overall I Loved what I saw and definitely hope to return to both London and Paris one day. Thank you again for those of you that genuinely helped me... I was clueless and you really helped guide me throughout the last min journey.
#328

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Welcome back Lilly! I didn't see this thread until recently, but I recognize so much of my mom in your mom (my dad died six months ago and he was the calm, logical one who took care of everything) so I fully sympathize. You're a good daughter and I hope you get to experience Europe again very soon...on your own terms!
#329
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Thanks everyone.
PegS... I LOVE your comment, you spoke to my heart. YES, I feel like I can't handle my mom without my dad. He was so logical and took care of everything, she is a total mess. She was not that appreciative of the trip either, she was very depressed and seemed to be so unhappy. I guess I shouldn't have taken her on his one year anniversary. Its as if the whole death had just occurred. I miss my Dad soooo much. It sucks that I am an only child too. I do hope I can go back to Europe on my own terms, however, with a small child and the high expense of visiting there, it won't be anytime soon.. .
My little guy is begging me to take him to Madrid to Meet Ronaldo (soccer player) and see Portugal where he grew up. I wasn't able to find a way to have him meet Ronaldo yet. So we will see.
I am so sorry for your father's loss too.. I pray we get through all this. Sending you Hugs.
PegS... I LOVE your comment, you spoke to my heart. YES, I feel like I can't handle my mom without my dad. He was so logical and took care of everything, she is a total mess. She was not that appreciative of the trip either, she was very depressed and seemed to be so unhappy. I guess I shouldn't have taken her on his one year anniversary. Its as if the whole death had just occurred. I miss my Dad soooo much. It sucks that I am an only child too. I do hope I can go back to Europe on my own terms, however, with a small child and the high expense of visiting there, it won't be anytime soon.. .
My little guy is begging me to take him to Madrid to Meet Ronaldo (soccer player) and see Portugal where he grew up. I wasn't able to find a way to have him meet Ronaldo yet. So we will see.
I am so sorry for your father's loss too.. I pray we get through all this. Sending you Hugs.
#330

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Awww, many hugs to you too, Lilly. Oh, the stories I can tell you about all the frustrations with my mom. I love her to death, and I always knew my dad was the rock of the family, but I didn't quite realize what a buffer he was until he got sick.
Unlike you, I do have a sister and throughout my dad's illness and since his death I've been thanking my lucky stars that I had her to shoulder the burden. I don't know how you do it, but I'm sending you much moral support. Best to you and your little boy, who will no doubt someday get to Portugal!
Unlike you, I do have a sister and throughout my dad's illness and since his death I've been thanking my lucky stars that I had her to shoulder the burden. I don't know how you do it, but I'm sending you much moral support. Best to you and your little boy, who will no doubt someday get to Portugal!




