Now how do you come to the opinion that the woman walking down the street is a slut wannabe? <BR>Because of her looks that don't meet your standards. You know nothing about the woman's morals.<BR><BR>Louise,<BR><BR>Someone posted this earlier and I agree.<BR><BR>"slutty=too high heels, cheeks hanging out of shorts, pants so tight , you can see the outline of her pudenda. Top cut so low that breasts ask to be sucked,skirt so tight her panties pop through, any one to add more???"<BR><BR>Now I'm not a rocket scientist, but I'd say dressing like this indicates about 9 to 10 on the slut meter!<BR><BR>US

Stop.

<BR>"so think twice about your own prudery before you have a fit about what other people are wearing"<BR><BR>Amen, E! <BR><BR>"Too high" heels, and "top cut so low" = "slutty"? What's "too" high? What's "so" low? <BR><BR>"Sluttiness" is in the eye of the beholder and the more of a prude you are, the more likely you are to see someone as "slutty".

So Sammy, if you're wife is so sexy and all why are you posting on this board day and night?<BR><BR>Also, didn't you make a big statement about leaving this site last weekend? You sure are a man of principles, aren't you?<BR><BR>I think you are so starved for attention that you don't care if it is negative, and that is sad. I also don't believe you are 6'3, your writings sound like someone with short man's complex.<BR><BR>Now back to the girl talk about sexy clothing!

Well, I asked about travel clothes with sex appeal and with some shape to them. <BR>Sluttiness is not a factor. Sexiness and sluttiness, if there are such words are not co-existent. One is the extreme of the other. A grown woman can look sexy and still have style and class, I assumed everyone knew that when I asked originally.<BR>I have not seen tourist or any traveling women (adults) dress to such extremes as you suggest.

Now, please, Uncle Sam, stay off of this thread before you get it deleted.<BR> <BR><BR><BR>

Perhaps Sammy posts because he's figured out that it doesn't take much for you girls to get your panties in a wad.<BR><BR>

Leanore,<BR><BR>"Sexiness and sluttiness, if there are such words are not co-existent. One is the extreme of the other. A grown woman can look sexy and still have style and class, I assumed everyone knew that when I asked originally."<BR><BR><BR>If you read my posts you will find that is exactly what I have said as well!<BR><BR>US

OK Leanore, I'll take the bait and post...<BR><BR>I'll assume that you're not the type of person who wears pink nylon "activewear" that makes that "phftt phftt phftt" sound when you walk.<BR><BR>Therefore, here's my advice:<BR><BR>-Wear whatever you want or think is sexy (some good suggestions posted here)<BR><BR>-Keep an open mind on your trip, and see the humor in things, even when something goes wrong, because...<BR><BR>-That will make you smile.<BR><BR>And nothing is sexier than a woman with a great smile.

There once was a man named Sam.<BR>His wit fit in a wee can.<BR>"Uncle Sam to you!<BR>For I have a superior view"<BR>And his life was a dull unsexy sham!

<BR>For sexiness, nothing beats a short skirt, nice legs and high heels. I understand high heels are not comfortable but the way they make the leg muscles more taut and give the illusion of longer legs is oooh-la-la sexy.

Yes that is fine until you trip on the cobblestones and fall flat on your rear end and end up with cobblestone impressions on your bum. Or maybe that could be sexy too, no?

Sexy. <BR><BR>Sexy is, in my opinion, when I feel good about what I am wearing. What I am wearing is not as telling as how I feel in it.<BR><BR>Black, white and red are all around sexy colors to me. Black skirt, black slacks or pants, small tank tops or spaghetti strap tops (depending on how you feel about your upper body image) can be layered with sheer tops for great sexy results.<BR><BR>Also, get a great pair of cute lower-heeled black sandals that you can feel sexy in but don't make you curse your decision. They do exist!<BR><BR>Also, I find that a blouse that exposes the clavicles with a slight gold/silver chain is as sexy as anything. <BR><BR>Dress for your definition of sexy and it will come across in spades.

Anti Sam,<BR><BR>Nice prose!<BR><BR>US

<BR>Pleine, I have yet to see any European woman who was wearing high heels trip on cobblestones and fall flat on her rear end. Not to say it does not happen, but I have not seen it. <BR><BR>Comfort and sexiness does not always go together. Many women find nooses around a man's neck (also known as ties) to be sexy on men, just as many men find high heels to be sexy on women.

I was just trying to be funny and light. I truely don't know how the European women can walk in heels on those cobblestones though. I wish I could, believe me I would.<BR>I do like ties with white shirts on men, to me that is sexy. But at least men can walk wearing ties!

Khaki or Black!!! Only things to pack. I spent almost a month in Europe in the spring and of course has cute springy outfits in pink and colors. My friends were dressed similarly and we stood out from Everyone!!!

How about what is sexy for men to wear? I find a polo shirt open at the neck, revealing a good strong neck is sexy. Also the short sleeves revealing good strong muscles.<BR>A narrow belt with a narrow waist is something else on a man!<BR>Is it getting warm in here?

Rita,<BR>You must be a suburban American woman, as their men always seem to be the ones in the polo shirts. I find them the antithesis of sexy. Especially those silly print ones that seem so popular right now with middle aged golfers.

No I live in a city, that is why polo shirts are not a common sight for me.<BR>I like the pastel ones on certain men, not all, of course.<BR>And you?