Bed & Breakfast Etiquette - Does one tip?
Sep 6th, 2013, 05:15 AM
#41
Perhaps they think I appreciate their work.
And they certainly could leave it where placed - if tipping is so rare in the UK, wouldn't they assume the money had been left inadvertently and to take it would be inappropriate?
And they certainly could leave it where placed - if tipping is so rare in the UK, wouldn't they assume the money had been left inadvertently and to take it would be inappropriate?
Sep 6th, 2013, 06:22 AM
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Nothing to do with tipping "money", but the other day at one of the ibis hotels near Gare de Lyon in Paris, when I was checking out, there was a couple of business men ( wearing suite and tie) from Ethiopia chekcing in. They gave a recepetion guy a bag of coffee beans, saying "for you from Ethiopia". When he did not understand, I told him it was a gift for you ! He looked surprised. Oh, ok, he said. I thought he could have shown a little more appreciation. I'm not sure whether he even said thank you or not. Perhaps he was that surpirse so forgot to say it... But I did think it was a nice ( and a bit funny )gesture. Ok, maybe the Ethiopian guest wanted to get rid of the bag of beans, I don't know.
Sep 6th, 2013, 07:35 AM
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It's not about the money it is about imposing your customs on others. Do you refuse to cover your shoulders when you go in churches in Italy because in the US you don't? Of course not, you respect the culture and act as an Italian would. How is the culture of tipping any different other than it makes you (not directed at anyone I mean in general) feel good because in your culture it is showing appreciation. That doesn't mean the person that accepts it not insulted because of how their culture perceived a tip..
Sep 6th, 2013, 07:45 AM
#49
I don't think leaving a small token of appreciation is a sign of disrespect as being uncovered in a church would be. I think the analogy is a weak one and I suspect the recipients of these small expressions appreciate it despite all the fuss being made over it here.
Sep 6th, 2013, 08:14 AM
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There is also the problem that if you tip you change expectations. Not necessarily for locals (although this may be a long term effect), but for other tourists. Then you get people like my taxi driver in Amman, Jordan, who when I handed him the previously agreed fare, said (somewhat aggressively) "but Americans tip". (I replied that I was British - I have dual citizenship.)
I am still awaiting an explanation of why it is so necessary for an American to tip in a non-tipping country. I am not holding my breath, as we run into the same issue on the Asian board, with Americans who insist on tipping in China, where tipping is called "the stupid foreigner tax".
I am still awaiting an explanation of why it is so necessary for an American to tip in a non-tipping country. I am not holding my breath, as we run into the same issue on the Asian board, with Americans who insist on tipping in China, where tipping is called "the stupid foreigner tax".
Sep 6th, 2013, 08:36 AM
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Thursday I think you are right - many pubs in London will set up the debit machine at the tip screen for North Americans but not for locals. Happens all the time when I am out with friends.
Anyways clearly people will do as they please regardless of what locals tell them is the social norm.
Anyways clearly people will do as they please regardless of what locals tell them is the social norm.
Sep 6th, 2013, 09:14 AM
#58
"If so many get 'angry' about a few coins shouldn't that tell you something?"
Yes, it tells me there are angry people posting on this thread. My English houseguest is shaking her head that anyone cares so much about such a small thing. Well, small to me.
Thank you, Kate, for injecting a bit of sense into what has largely been yet another excuse for abuse.
Yes, it tells me there are angry people posting on this thread. My English houseguest is shaking her head that anyone cares so much about such a small thing. Well, small to me.
Thank you, Kate, for injecting a bit of sense into what has largely been yet another excuse for abuse.
