Momof1

Looking for an all inclusive in Jamaica for myself and my mature-acting 20 year old son for March '08. Would prefer to stay away from the kiddie type of resort and college age get totally drunk scene. We like water sports and beach/pool time. Fighting for lounge chairs is not our idea of fun. Would like to have casual options for dinner unlike the cruise we took this year with sit down dinners. May end up taking another 20 year old with us so will need option of a hide-a-bed. Understand that most "adult only" all inclusive resorts offer nude beaches. I'm sure my son wouldn't mind but I'm not too thrilled with the idea. Are most of these beaches hidden from the pool and general beach area? Any recommendations on a resort would be greatly appreciated.