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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 09:28 AM
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Etiquette advice, please

My husband & I are going to Barbados Oct 15. Can one wear white after Labor Day in the Caribbean?
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 09:36 AM
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i believe you may
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 09:38 AM
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One may wear white, but the other may not.

(Sorry, I couldn't resist.)
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 09:49 AM
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I was wondering how long it would take for someone to be tempted!
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 09:49 AM
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 10:31 AM
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Sorry, but can someone please explain the question?

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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 10:37 AM
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In Caribbean, because it's always hot, it's always appropriate to wear white.
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 10:56 AM
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OT,

It's one of those *rules* passed on, through the generations, to some Americans. Probably so Europeans would think that we are fashion conscious and care about social graces ;-)

The rule says no white dresses, /trousers before Memorial Day.

And no white (same as above) worn after Labor Day.

White shirts and blouses ar appropriate always.

And my Grandmother had an added rule about white shoes....NEVER

Are you more confused ;-) ?

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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 01:26 PM
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Marion,

Thanks for the explanation.

As the old *rules* seems to disappear more and more, it's nice that some people still stick to the traditions.

Barbados is a British island, so white is acceptable.
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 04:44 PM
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my mom - an oh so proper lady - said that white shoes could be worn between memorial and labor. marionck did your gram not approve of white bucks ???
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 04:53 PM
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I have followed that tradition for as long as I can remember!! That said, in the Caribbean, I have worn whatever color I wanted to as the temps just beg you to dress cool and carefree. However, DH is certainly not running around in an Elvis suit and white bucks
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 04:57 PM
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Thanks for the smile Virginia !

My gram passed away over 25 years ago, at the age of 97

So white bucks were after her time...although she did approve of Pat Boone, his music and his family values

She also approved of *off* white shoes during the summer season, and they usually had those *ventilation* panels. She just didn't like stark white. It may have had something to do with her height and shoe size. She was 5'8"...and in her generation that was one TALL lady ! I think she preferred for people to look at her face, not her feet ;-) !

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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 04:57 PM
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I've followed that tradition forever as well. And I'm with MarionCK's grandmother - white shoes - never. That's just my personal preference, however. :0)
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 05:11 PM
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I personally, am another stickler for "The Rule."

No white shoes for me after Labor Day anywhere, and the one pair of white sandals I have don't see much use even during the season.

(White pumps are for Minnie Mouse only.)

After traveling the region extensively, I don't recall seeing many people of either sex wearing white shoes in the Caribbean.

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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 05:36 PM
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Now that the talk has turned mainly to shoes, I haven't even owned a pair of white shoes for as long as I can remember, nor has DH. I thought the original question referred more to shorts,slacks/capris or dresses etc. I got a little off track with the white bucks comment.
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 05:39 PM
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Brenda,

I thought Elvis was "blue suede shoes" and Pat Boone was "white bucks ;-)

And I wonder if anyone is old enough to remember Rudy Vallee (sp ?) who also had trademark shoes. I think they might have been the "saddle shoes" with the brown saddle, and of course his megaphone.

Virginia, wasn't he from Maine ? Or at least I think had some connection with the state ?

Just to keep this travel related

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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 05:41 PM
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Brenda,

You were right on track with the original question. I'm the one who brought up shoes...wouldn't you just expect that from me ;-) ?

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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 08:05 PM
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Gee, I guess Denim for Dinner is out of the question?
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 08:24 PM
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I guess I'll leave my Saturday Night Fever John Travolta getup in the closet in November when we travel to Negril. Shucks.
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Old Sep 14th, 2005 | 08:38 PM
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Caribbeansoul,

you might start a new trend
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