Where would your ideal destination wedding be if you were:
- age 29 (well will be 30 when married ;-) )
-Liked the beach, but like activities too (Like off roading in Aruba)
-Liked nightlife, but not a club atmosphere (think martini/tiki bar)
-an upscale traveler (can't say NO budget, but will pay for something fantastic/unique)
-also thinking of inviting family/friends to come

Seems like St. John is popular, but possibly not much else to do?
TIA!

Try St.Lucia, very popular for weddings and lots to do on the island.

Mazel Tov on your upcoming nuptuals.

St. John would be so lovely for your wedding with much to do on the island. However I would also suggest One and Only Ocean CLub on Paradise Island if you were including others. Ocean CLub is gorgeous and several great settings for wedding there-we have watched them set up before. PI is quite a varied place with lodgings so that several price points could be managed. Good luck!

St. barth can be pricey but is really charming with fun things to do. Shopping, restaurants, sailing, scuba/snorkeling are all really easily accesible. THe other thing i like is the landscape.. very hilly but with stunning beaches.

Definitely st. Kitts!! Beautiful island with friendly locals.

There are a variety of activities to keep you busy. (rainforest hike, catamaran to sister island of Nevis, Brimstone Hill Fortress, kayaking & snorkeling and golf.

Lime with the locals at Turtle Beach Bar & Grill, Shiggidy Shack, Monkey Bar or party at the Marriott disco.

For an upscale traveler you can stay at the Marriott or Ottley's Plantation in St. Kitts. In Nevis definitely The Four Seasons or Nisbett Plantation.

For more information visit http://www.myislands.myeyez.net or www.islandimage.com

Lovely, uncrowded beaches (Turtle Beach, Frigate Bay, Cockleshell, South Friars) located in St. Kitts.

Pinney's Beach in Nevis is popular.