Planning a romantic getaway in November to Niagara on the Lake and would appreciate recommendations for place to stay. Price not a consideration. Prefer romantic setting, large room, fireplace, whirlpool/jacuzzi, and refrigerator. Ideally room has separate entrance but recognize this might be a stretch. On premise dining not required. Appreciate your recommendations.

Is there a particular reason why you want to go to NOTL? If not, and you're looking for a weekend away, you might consider instead Langdon Hall (near Cambridge, Ontario). I think it would deliver the kind of room you want and it also has a great restaurant and spa.

While Langdon Hall is an amazing property that I too would recommend, if you want to go to Niagara on the Lake, I would say Inn on the Twenty in the village of Jordan would be perfect.

Close to wineries, with romantic rooms, a spa and a wonderful dining room (even just for breakfast) we've always enjoyed our stay there.
http://www.innonthetwenty.com/premiumsuites.html
http://www.jordanvillage.com/

The ultimate stay in Niagara on the Lake is the Prince of Wales... several of their rooms and suites meet your list and they offer cottage accomodations also... Escabesche offers fine French dining and you are in the heart of the village, just a short walk from the theatres and restaurants...

Although On the Twenty offers beautiful accomodations in a great setting, it is several miles from the village and requires lots of driving...

You can also take a wonderful carriage ride through the village from the Prince or Wine tour via bus or Limo.... have fun!

I think this poster has already booked:
http://www.fodors.com/forums/threadselect.jsp?fid=29

Good work irecommend... you get a fodors "neighbourhood watch" "attaposter"!

Why thanks Gary
I just new I had suggested something before.