The Point Resort on Lake Saranac in Upstate New York. Only 22 people, everyone eats together at two tables. Complete seclusion (no phones, TV, etc), your ever wish is granted, everyone gets a "code name" and they don't give you directions until you pay in full! Top quality food & drink whenever requested! The ultimate luxury "camp" experience!

Ditto on the Rusty Parrot Lodge in Jackson. Just stayed there--service is excellent, rooms comfy--down pillows and comforter, large baths, breakfasts are to die for.

Would LOVE to stay at the Point, especially in the fall. Casa de las Chimineas, in Taos, is fantastic also.

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Ventana Inn at Big Sur, California
Soniat House in New Orleans
Twin Farms in Vermont
The Point in Upstate NY

Oops, forgot:

Mohonk Mountain House near New Platz, NY
Sherman House in San Francisco

And, another enthusiastic vote for Sooke Harbour House up the coast from Victoria on Vancouver Island.

http://www.sanjosehotel.com/

Hotel San Jose in Austin Texas. Funky, cool, great area. Check out the website!

Benbow Inn at Garberville, Ca.

The Inn at Blackberry Farms, near Townsend, TN. Nice rooms, good food, great pampering.