Hey cindy

Just booked a condo right next to the kaanapoli shores called the papakea resort, for new years for a week. Did you see it? What did you think? I still have time to cancel, but places are filling up fast for when we want to go. My wife and I are bringing our 22 month old son. Are any of the restaurants that you went to child friendly?

Cindy-I can't believe you had the nerve to post here after all the s*** you caused with your thread prior to leaving. Do yourself a favor and get some pyshological help--you need it!

By the way Cindy forgot to mention she paid for her loser boyfriend to go with her. THIS is the same guy that dumps her every couple of weeks and then she posted all her tales of woe on another thread. Cindy is a loser...

For all those who think Cindy is so wonderful read her other thread..She is a pathetic twisted person!

Now it's Hawaii alone or not atall, don't know what to do...


Author: cindy ([email protected])
Date: 5/09/2001, 3:40 pm ET

Message: no doubt I'm going to sound like a horrible selfish person. so better to
talk to strangers on a board than people who actually know me.
My BF and I are supposed to leave on Sat for Maui. It's been unbelievably
amazing to think of us alone on Maui for 8 days, it has been my dream for so
long. Yesterday he told me his mother may need surgery during that time so he
probably can't go. I can't tell you how I feel -- it's hard for us to ever get time off
(me especially) and I've felt like having a mental breakdown for the past six
months....desperately need a vacation, preferably with him. He broke up with
me before at Christmas, we spent NYE apart, the holidays were the absolute
worst. It's amazing how you can go from totally completely happy to the lowest
place possible. I don't know whether to go without him (certainly the romance
was a MAJOR part of this trip) I just don't know what to do...I am horribly
selfish, huh..

Boy you people are crazy. You have nothing else better to do than to pick on Cindy and her problems. Grow up and get a LIFE!

Cindy asked for it by posting her pathetic life on this forum. By the way, her so called trip report was lifted from someone else here.

You people (probably one individual, 2 @ the most) are "pathetic". I've been on other boards where people were really friendly, kind and enjoyed each other enough to plan a meet with over 150 in Vegas for a board party. Also on a Springsteen board where posters/board members had parties before the concerts on the tour. I've never, not even in cyberspace met the hostility and nastiness as here.
Think what you want. And bytheway, find the trip report I supposedly stole. I read a ton of stuff here, learned alot before my trip and took some of the suggestions. Some of my observations were the same as a select few (for example, I didn't think Mama's Fish house was worth the price, and yes, you really should get a convertible) I personally wouldn't choose the Hyatt or the Sheraton because I prefer the casual condo style of the Shores. Go ahead, find a trip report (or make one up for that matter) that I supposedly took.
I'm sure there are some nice people on this board who are here because they want to share/ask travel adventures. But, after reading several other travel boards -- this is the ONLY one where there is this kind of really ugly and nasty stuff going on.
And to those of you who feel so inclined to give me advice on my relationships and life-- I'd like to see yours. All of my relationships have been long term, you know virtually nothing about me or guy -- so your opinions and advice mean absolutely nothing to me. You must be really sad, little people to do what you do. Seems to me the Hawaii posts bring out the real nuts here, and I don't really get why that would be so..
Anyway, I've seen good and bad places to be on message boards -- and this definitely was a trip into hell.
I'm frankly surprised that a company like Fodors would allow such derisive attacks.

Duh Cindy if you would not have posted your pathetic soap opera life here maybe you would not have been attacked. Do us all a favor and see a shrink, you sure as hell need it. And in the future don't post your pathetic life on a travel board for heaven's sake....

cindy, i've been following your saga from probably your first post on a compeletely unrelated thread. in the beginning, i was sympathetic to your cause, and even defended you in one instance when i felt you were being unfairly attacked. but after the last couple of weeks, i've begun to believe that you thrive on the recent confrontations and being the center of attention, as evidenced by your constant responses to this board. i just don't understand how a supposed mature woman with a good head on her shoulders would find it necessary to defend herself against written assaults by people she doesn't even know, whom she probably will never meet. you're the only person to whom you should be held accountable for your actions and decisions. what do you care what people think about you and your life? please show us that you are not a troll and are, in fact, a mature person as you claim, by ending this useless diatribe. it's really not doing anyone any good, especially not you. if you have something topically relevant to say, then by all means post it, but if your posting just to see your name up on the board, please, just give us a break and end it.

to hell with you. Sounds like a great travel destination for someone of your quality.
My so called "pathetic" life story involved a preplanned about to be interrupted vacation with the man I've loved for 4 yrs whose mother was about to have emergency surgery. I stated we had had a really rough few months (probably because we needed the vacation a long time ago). His mother has been in emergency twice since we returned and is finally getting surgery tomorrow. We had a fabulous time in Maui. How pathetic is that? My question had been should I go alone or not if he couldn't make it. You people are more than stupid.

You are just jealous because I won the state lottery powerball in Hawaii and now Don Ho and I are getting married. My BF is really jealous too.

Come on Cindy you have had 2 failed marriages and by all accounts this relationship in not the healthiest, in fact it sounds like your bf is abusive and you are a classic enabler. I agree with the above poster, I think you get a big kick out of seeing your name come up. Why else would you keep responding? My advice get some help and get your act together, when you do, you will find happiness and peace.

Cindy you are truly funny calling us stupid! ROTFLMAO. You are the one that posted your b/f and you broke up before (several times if I remember) he was being a complete rot to you, you had 2 failed marriages and you lied about your age a couple of times. You kept whining on and on how you disliked his mother etc. Why on earth did you post all of this stuff? Go back and read it. Your life sounds like a bad made for tv movie and your lies kept tripping themselves up. Your bf is a loser and you are naive. Now who is really stupid?? IMO, you need HELP! Instead of posting here all day why don't you call your EAP program or find a competent psyhologist who takes your insureance and make an appointment? Why don't you print out your tales of woe and take it with you and see what a trained doctor will say?

You people leave Cindy alone. She had a GREAT time on her vacation with the love of her life. This is Cindy's life and we have no right to be so abusive/ aggresive towards her because she went to Maui with her boyfriend. As long as she is happy that's all that matters. She obviously loves her boyfriend. We are not in Cindy's shoes. And who's to say she didn't really go to Hawaii? You don't know that. Who's to say other people on this board really and truly went to there destination.

Yea UGH Cindy's boyfriend is the love of her love, so were her 2 ex husbands. The gal is a nutcase....

I don't know where you all come from. I also live in S. Cal and I can tell you two ex husbands are not extreme grounds for mental illness. What right do you have to judge her because she's been married twice at over 40? Perhaps we should start a new thread where ya'll can confess how many years/times you've been married, divorced, cheated, etc. And whether or not you are still making love to the love of your lives?
As far as I can tell, the only real mistake this poor girl made was asking advice from a bunch of judgemental, closed minded, losers.

you all voted for Bush, didn't you?

I wondered the same thing.
If Cindy were married once and her husband cheated on and left her so she was afraid to date....she'd be sick, right?
If C married once, husband hurt her and she switched to women, sick right?
If she were 40+ and never been married, sick again, ???
If she dated only rich guys who took her to Maui, sick?
I also would like to hear about all your little lives.
Still with the first person you married-- still faithful? married at all? can you even get a date or do you just spend your time running down other people on message boards?

I see Cindy has her friends posting on here now defending her. Cindy is a nutcase because she posted her pathetic, soap opera life on here and she is a pathological liar. Has nothing to do with politics, believe me. She is a couple of bricks short of a full load.

And just because some people think differently than you they must be friends of Cindy's?
hah!