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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 05:05 PM
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Water Closet or Loo?

Hi there,

What is the correct terminology for a US citizen like myself, to inquire about a restroom in London? Shall I ask for the "loo" or the "water closet?" I'm not sure if one is considered slang or inappropriate if I'm in a nice restaurant.

Thanks! Dana
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 05:08 PM
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The term I heard most was "toilet," which seemed to refer to the room and not the porcelain object.
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 05:10 PM
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ask for what you need - a "toilet"

Of course loo and WC are heard too - but it is the "gentlemens' toilet" or the "ladies' toilet"
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You should ask for 'the Ladies' or 'the toilets'. Nobody ever says water closet.
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 05:14 PM
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Oh great, good to know! I will ask for the "ladies" or "toilet" when referring to the room.

Cheers!
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 05:18 PM
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I always liked calling The Ladies ~
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 05:34 PM
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I just wander around looking confused and someome always points the way!

Why ever do they still refer to the toilts as the "cloakroom"? I haven't worn a claok in all my years...the pashmina room , maybe!!!!!!!!!!
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 06:20 PM
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About as silly as calling it a bathroom -- like I'm going to take a bath between courses? Or the restroom -- think I'll take a nap. Most Brits I know ask for the Gents or the Ladies. I don't think I ever hear the term water closet -- but w.c., yes.
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 06:45 PM
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A few hundred years ago it was common practice to move from the table to the wall of the room and...........

Has it changed?
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 06:47 PM
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If you want to be archaic, you can say you've got to go "spend a penny." This is more or less the equivalent of going to "powder your nose." (It used to cost an English penny to enter the stall.)
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 09:39 PM
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What happened to that quaint old euphemism "lavatory"?

30 years ago it was considered very non-U to say "toilet" and most certainly very U to say "lavatory". Does this change in U-sage indicate that the class differences in the UK are being flattened out?
Haven't I read in this forum that Queen EII's English has moved from the far right towards the centre, likewise indicating some erosion of traditional class barriers?
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 09:43 PM
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It is still U to say lavatory. But far fewer people care.
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 09:56 PM
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"Toilet" was considered non-U by one member of the Mitford family (who hadn't lived in England for decades), one otherwise unheard-of academic who joined Ms Mitford in making money out of the idea, and a few irrelevant old fogeys, who spoke a bizarre dialect of English that was simply incomprehensible to the rest of us.

The other 50-odd million Brits said "toilet". And "mirror" and "serviette" and all the other perfectly normal words this batty woman repaired her finances by spuriously castigating.
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Old Feb 5th, 2004, 11:45 PM
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Try, "Ladies? or ladies room?." Or..inquire as to the correct/preferred appellation. Try more than one source. Report back, please.Polish system.."WC?", acronym for water closet.
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Old Feb 6th, 2004, 03:01 AM
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Posh restaurant: "Toilet" (NEVER "lavatory&quot or "Ladies"

Not posh reataurant: "Khazi".
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Old Feb 6th, 2004, 03:27 AM
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very un-posh restaurant: "The Bogs"
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Old Feb 6th, 2004, 03:30 AM
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LOL!

Dana, practice saying
'Sorry, where's the ladies please?"

Just don't call it a bathroom or restroom. HTH!
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Old Feb 6th, 2004, 03:39 AM
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Don't worry about it. "loo" is a generally-accepted term without much in the way of inherited cultural associations, but anyone will know what you mean if you say what you say at home (we do see quite a lot of American films and TV, you know). They might tease you a little by pretending they think you do want to take a bath or a rest, but if you put on a sufficiently agonised look as you frantically search the cupboard doors at the back, your need should become clear....

A restaurant that takes offence at your choice of terminology is not, in my book, a nice restaurant and not worthy of your custom.

Of course you could always ask to be shown 'the geography of the house'....
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Old Feb 6th, 2004, 03:43 AM
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Come to think of it, I had a fearsome Edwardian great-aunt who lived in Australia for some years. When she came home she told a tale about being in a hotel somewhere when a real "ocker" Aussie asked her where the dunny was. According to her, she fixed him with a look and said 'Over there, there's a door marked 'Gentlemen', but you just ignore that and go through.'

I don't think people will say that sort of thing any more.......
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Old Feb 6th, 2004, 04:47 AM
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actually - "loo" is a more acceptable term than "toilet" in a posh restaurant, as it's short for lavatory. "Toilet" is more frequently used by the lower class.

(if you don't believe me - this website on etiquette backs me up! http://www.imagecounts.co.uk/etiquette.htm)

also worth noting is that you should say "napkin" rather than "serviette".
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