Ben Haines
#181
Joined: May 2005
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Tim,
It is a tribute to both you and your uncle that you knew to come here to advise his many unmet friends of his passing.
There are many people out here in cyberspace, as you are finding out, who, although we never met Ben Haines, always felt we had "a friend in London."
I have not read or posted at Fodors in a very long time, and I read of Ben's passing on another travel message board.
I came here because Ben Haines was a Fodors poster I always admired and loved to read. He was unfailingly helpful, cheerful, and polite.
Happy travels, Ben.
Thank you, Tim.
Juju
It is a tribute to both you and your uncle that you knew to come here to advise his many unmet friends of his passing.
There are many people out here in cyberspace, as you are finding out, who, although we never met Ben Haines, always felt we had "a friend in London."
I have not read or posted at Fodors in a very long time, and I read of Ben's passing on another travel message board.
I came here because Ben Haines was a Fodors poster I always admired and loved to read. He was unfailingly helpful, cheerful, and polite.
Happy travels, Ben.
Thank you, Tim.
Juju
#182
Joined: Jan 2003
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My condolences to Ben's family and friends.
He was a wonderful guy who probably helped thousands of fellow travelers over the years.
And he will likely help thousands more in the future, as all his advice and knowledge is archived just waiting to be brought-up in a Search.
Tim, I also posted this thread and the funeral details thread on the UseNet group rec.travel.europe
Your uncle was a regular poster there in the past (it very likely was the 1st travel newsgroup he posted on) and I'm sure many of the old regulars still remember him fondly.
Regards, Walter
He was a wonderful guy who probably helped thousands of fellow travelers over the years.
And he will likely help thousands more in the future, as all his advice and knowledge is archived just waiting to be brought-up in a Search.
Tim, I also posted this thread and the funeral details thread on the UseNet group rec.travel.europe
Your uncle was a regular poster there in the past (it very likely was the 1st travel newsgroup he posted on) and I'm sure many of the old regulars still remember him fondly.
Regards, Walter
#183
Joined: Jan 2003
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I've been gone from this forum for years until a few weeks ago. I'm so glad that I came back in time to chime in with the hundreds who felt so warmly about the online Ben Haines we knew. I'm so sorry that I missed the chance to share this space with him again.
As another poster mentioned, I love to think of him and Wes finally catching up with each other.
Tim, may I add my condolences to the chorus. The best to you and your family during this time.
As another poster mentioned, I love to think of him and Wes finally catching up with each other.
Tim, may I add my condolences to the chorus. The best to you and your family during this time.
#185
Joined: Mar 2005
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Tim
You and your family have my condolences on your loss.
I am surprised by my own sense of loss since I never met Ben in person but only knew him through his posts on this forum. I was always impressed not only by his knowledge and ability to impart that knowledge but also by a sense of Ben's kindness, generosity and enthusiasm.
He was truly a gentleman and a scholar and the world is a poorer place for his absence.
The highlight of my recent trip to London was going on one of Ben's walks (from Blackfriars to Brick Lane)
I will return to London and plan to go on many more of Ben's wonderful walks.
Leonard Callow
You and your family have my condolences on your loss.
I am surprised by my own sense of loss since I never met Ben in person but only knew him through his posts on this forum. I was always impressed not only by his knowledge and ability to impart that knowledge but also by a sense of Ben's kindness, generosity and enthusiasm.
He was truly a gentleman and a scholar and the world is a poorer place for his absence.
The highlight of my recent trip to London was going on one of Ben's walks (from Blackfriars to Brick Lane)
I will return to London and plan to go on many more of Ben's wonderful walks.
Leonard Callow
#187
Joined: Feb 2003
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Dear Tim,
May I join the hordes of Fodorites in extending my deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your uncle.
I must confess that when I saw this thread, I opened it with great anticipation for another round of great advice from him that I could clip and keep for future use. I can't tell you how saddened I am to hear of his demise.
It takes a real gentleman to make the effort to share his insights and knowledge in such a detailed way with others and Ben was the very best representative of the breed. And there is no better proof than to see this outpouring of well wishes from whole hosts of people such as myself who probably never even had the good fortune of meeting him in person.
Our thoughts will be with him and you. I'd like to think that he is charting out new trails wherever he is.
Happy journeys Ben.
May I join the hordes of Fodorites in extending my deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your uncle.
I must confess that when I saw this thread, I opened it with great anticipation for another round of great advice from him that I could clip and keep for future use. I can't tell you how saddened I am to hear of his demise.
It takes a real gentleman to make the effort to share his insights and knowledge in such a detailed way with others and Ben was the very best representative of the breed. And there is no better proof than to see this outpouring of well wishes from whole hosts of people such as myself who probably never even had the good fortune of meeting him in person.
Our thoughts will be with him and you. I'd like to think that he is charting out new trails wherever he is.
Happy journeys Ben.
#188
Joined: Dec 2004
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I like many others, assumed this thread was filled with alot of helpful advice from Mr Haines that I should be storing for future reference. I have always enjoyed reading his informative
pieces and realised very early on what a valuable contribution he made to this fabulous site. Even though I never met Mr Haines I viewed him as an "elder" respected statesman,with tremendous knowledge.
What a unique man to be able to unite so many people from all parts of the world. My deepest sympathies from "the land down under".
pieces and realised very early on what a valuable contribution he made to this fabulous site. Even though I never met Mr Haines I viewed him as an "elder" respected statesman,with tremendous knowledge.
What a unique man to be able to unite so many people from all parts of the world. My deepest sympathies from "the land down under".
#189
Joined: Mar 2004
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It was always wonderful to return to this site and find Ben's thoughtful and kindly replies. I will miss him. My condolences to your family. I know his memorial service will celebrate his life on this little planet, and rejoice in the knowledge that his journey has just begun.
#190

Joined: Apr 2006
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Thank you, Tim, for posting this sad news. Your uncle was very helpful to me when I was planning our trip to London last summer.
Clearly, your uncle was an extraordinary person and we were fortunate to get to know him even if just by message boards and emails.
My condolences to you and your family.
Clearly, your uncle was an extraordinary person and we were fortunate to get to know him even if just by message boards and emails.
My condolences to you and your family.
#192
Joined: Jul 2004
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Tim, I am so sad to hear about the passing of your uncle, Ben Haines. He was truly a gentlemen and so generous to pass on his travel knowledge to those who asked. I am another one who used his pub list and places to go with children when I made a trip to London 3 years ago.
Thank you also for sharing some of his life story. It is comforting to know that he lived a full life and truly followed his passion of traveling.
My condolences to you and your family. He will be missed but he has left a legacy here on Fodors with his many wonderful postings.
Thank you also for sharing some of his life story. It is comforting to know that he lived a full life and truly followed his passion of traveling.
My condolences to you and your family. He will be missed but he has left a legacy here on Fodors with his many wonderful postings.
#197
Joined: Jan 2007
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My most sincere condolences to you and your family. Your uncle will be sorely missed and mourned by many who appreciated and enjoyed his vast knowledge and gentlemanly kindness.
That in your sorrow you troubled to let us know of his passing continues his tradition of thoughtful consideration. Thank you and God bless.
That in your sorrow you troubled to let us know of his passing continues his tradition of thoughtful consideration. Thank you and God bless.

