martinezj

I'm in my 3rd year of uni and have never been in a relationship. I have tried joining societies to meet people and that didn't work. I have tried getting to know people from my course and nothing happened. I have tried going on nights out with friends and even though I managed to kiss someone, when I messaged her to meet up and go for a drink sometime, which she said she wanted me to do, she just said she thinks we should be friends. I don't know what else there is for me to do. Does anyone have any ideas?

Christina

find a dating website? Don't give up just because one person didn't like you.

martinezj

hello Christina thanks for your advice. can you suggest a good website

scdreamer

If this is a serious inquiry, here is my advice:

Confide in a woman with whom you do not wish to have a relationship - maybe a friend or classmate or a sister. Or even the girlfriend of one of your friends. Someone you like and trust and who has is kind and has a good heart.

Ask her what you can do to make yourself more attractive to other women. Maybe she can give you some pointers - it's possible you have grooming issues you are unaware of. Or maybe you are overbearing or too shy in social situations.

Sometimes it's good to see from another point of view what you might be doing that isn't working. Best of luck to you.

(And remember, sometimes it's just a matter of waiting for the right person to come along. Enjoy your student life, work hard, be kind, and be patient!)

greg

My two cents on this matter:
You are focusing on the verb "to do."
The relationship is more about the verb "to be."