I personally think that the so-called "intimidation factor" for some may stem, in part, from how folks feel about themselves in the first place and the whole idea of eating by themselves.

Somehow I have periodically gotten the impression from sone who post here that almost automatically the solo diner is not going to get as good a table as others; that they'll be hurried along; that they'll be treated somehow with less respect than non-solo diners.

I have personally never had that problem, particularly in Europe where the norm seems to be to linger over a meal...even over a single glass of wine.

I think it helps if you walk into an establishment with the mental attitude that you belong there just as much as anyone else and that the staff are happy to see you...whether you show up early or late.

and more!

http://paris.city-discovery.com/pari...ght_tours.html

http://www.france-hotels.net/english/parisnight.asp

I would like information on vacations, places, tours for older senior singles. Golf is the pastime of choice. Thanks.

Try doing an internet search of Elderhostels. They have lots of group trips for seniors, both married and single.

D. Gordon,

My friend, a single woman, took an Elderhostel trip and just loved it. ( She was reluctant to take it as she is an experienced traveler and thought it might not be for her). Also, Arthur Frommer has a special section on Senior Travel on his website that might help you.

Michele

Topping - somebody asked about senior travel.