What's a good 4-5 Star resort for special occasion? 7 - 10 days. Do any have all-inclusive?

Which island ?

The only all-inclusive I'm aware of in Hawaii is the Kona Village Resort on the "Big Island" (Island of Hawaii), they've sent brochures but I've never been there.

I'm sorry, Maui.

You had better pin it down a bit more. Lots of options, though not much in all-inclusives, that I am aware of.... but quite a few places will include breakfasts, or a small meal credit. Do you want busy (Ka'anapali), or more laid back (Wailea). Or "isolated", like Hana? It's tough to offer good recommendations, unless we know a bit more about you, and what it will take to make your Special Occasion, a perfect one!

Probably laid back. With a car rental I can make trips to the busy. NIce beach with swimming capabilities.
Beautiful grounds, pool, bar with other
ammenities also.

I would highly recommend the Four Seasons in Wailea. Best service, wonderful rooms, beautiful property on a great beach. I would return in a heartbeat!