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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 05:07 AM
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When traveling in the US, I must admit that I tend to have a soft spot for somewhat quirky motels, especially those independent ones left over from the 1950s/1960s. Or those "cottage motels" (not even sure if that is a category).
Sometimes quirky means a bit run-down or dated.
Sometimes more like living in a perfectly restored or maintained 1950s environment.
Like this one in Santa Fe, NM: https://santafesilversaddlemotel.com/
Or this one in Helena, MT: https://www.helenalamplightermotel.com/
Or this one in Key West, FL: Welcome to El Patio Motel
Or this one in Old Forge, NY: https://countryclubmotel.com/
The photo with the deer is no fake. There were deer each morning and late afternoon, grazing on the motel lawns.

Otherwise, it's a mix of "still okay" hotels in very expensive locations, and more of a splurge in areas where hotels and motels don't cost that much.
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Schlegal, do you know about the amazing restaurant Hell’s Backbone Grill?
This is an article about the owners who are trying to save Grand Escalante.

https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt...lante-monument
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 05:21 AM
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Oh no, Jubi, now I really need to get a trip there planned. Those owners are amazing and the restaurant looks incredible. I am so mad that the Monument is threatened.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 05:23 AM
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Originally Posted by swandav2000
I wonder if the difference might be that I am a single woman, travelling alone?? Many folks may see that as a lonely situation and may be trying to take care of me. Which is of course irritating and insulting . . .

I could see many hosts treating a couple or family differently than a solo traveller, especially a solo woman ("poor dearie...." lol).

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I've gotten that reaction from people restaurant hosts and the like before as well. I’m not sure it’s about self presentation—that’s just how some people think. I do think hosts (like a b&b) tend to be a little more solicitous possibly? I don’t know if that’s the right word, but I mean more “fussy”. If I’m with a date, or a friend, the reaction is more chatty and brisk. But I don’t get “Poor dearie” from that—more like “keep paying customer happy”.

I have a mixed experience with b&bs. Stayed at a lovely professional one in a tiny U.K. town that I enjoyed. Genuinely helpful, willing to let me be. I was pleasantly surprised. But my preference is definitely anonymity at a hotel. Every time I’ve stayed in a B&B in the states, usually at the high recommendation of a relation, the experience has been marred somewhat by the host’s personality. And it’s odd, because in both cases, they were high end more “inn” than the one in UK. You’d expect the professionalism aspect to be there, but perhaps it’s that element of “ownership” that occasionally ruins mom and pop shops too.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 05:24 AM
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cowboy, I think those too. We stayed in one in Hyde Park, NY that I loved. There's one I want to visit in Cherokee, NC = the Pink Motel.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 05:31 AM
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I've had some wonderful interactions with AirBnB/homestay/BnB hosts in New Zealand, Ecuador and South Africa. Sometimes the highlight of the trip. Maybe has more to do with the country and the individuals involved than any blanket statement. I have not yet used them in the US, though.

Have been invited along on golf excursions, given tours of their gardens and farms, accurate advice on weather, restaurants and safety tips.

Not to mention, a few of those home-cooked breakfasts were pretty spectacular. I like a little interaction interspersed with some traditional hotel/motel lock the door and veg out stays.

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Oops, my husband reminded me, they were Portlandia sketches:

Overly helpful hotel staff:

Bed and Breakfast Inspector:
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schegal1 - that is so funny. I've never seen Portlandia but it seems to be my kind of humor.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 06:21 AM
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tom, one of my faves:


Whenever we eat at a restaurant with locally sourced food, we always ask each other if the chicken had friends.
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so ridiculous!
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 06:33 AM
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kureiff, I love that clip, too! I've only seen a few Portlandia clips, tom. I'm not sure about the overall quality. For instance, I think the "locally sourced" sketch loses steam once they are on the farm.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 06:35 AM
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And since we're sharing clips, this one from Corporate probably belongs on a different thread but I feel like we all can relate:
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you guys are making me laugh this morning
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The Escalante is in threat? What?
I am done. I am done.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted by starrs
cowboy, I think those too. We stayed in one in Hyde Park, NY that I loved. There's one I want to visit in Cherokee, NC = the Pink Motel.
Oh, that would be on my list, too.
"Unfortunately" I can stay with friends who live less than 20mls from there.. but I'll keep it in mind if there is ever the need to find accomodation in that beautiful part of North Carolina.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 07:38 AM
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That's the reason I've not stayed there!
Give me a shout if when you are back this way and want to meet up! Another (former) Fodorite who loves Germany may want to ride his bike over to meet up too.
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Yeah, Portlandia is funny in short doses. I haven't seen the Corporate sketch.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 07:55 AM
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I don't need luxury but I like hotels that are clean, in a good location and have a lot of natural sunlight. I hate feeling like I'm in a cave. B&Bs aren't really my thing, but we stayed at one in Key West earlier this year and loved it. I felt like we had a lot of privacy and there wasn't a chatty host.

I'm struggling with a lot of the signature scents, many that smell like cheap cologne, that are being used in hotels. It's frustrating walking into a lobby and getting a headache or sometimes migraine from the smell. Last year we stayed at a Hampton Inn near Acadia National Park and we were able to open the windows. It was wonderful sleeping with the windows open and breathing the fresh air.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 08:14 AM
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Btw, some B&Bs also offer vacation apartments for rent in the same building/complex. In some parts of France, these are called gites or 'cottages', which proves the differences in culture and terminology (where we come from 'cottage' means a whole different thing).

I am done. The link to the Who song about an 'otel worker.
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Old Sep 4th, 2019, 08:17 AM
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The lyrics from 1:20 onwards.......


I am done. The moon.
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