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Old Feb 8th, 2011, 07:26 AM
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Packing for teenage boys in London and Paris

Our 16 year old grandsons will be spending the summer with us, and my husband and I are taking them to London and Paris in June as a late birthday gift. I've read some of the other comments here about packing for teens, but I have a few questions. The boys are both always nicely dressed to begin with (no baggy or ripped jeans, etc.) but when I mentioned that they'll need to start thinking about what they want to pack in the next few months, they asked for advice. I have to admit I've never really paid really close attention to teens there, plus it's been quite awhile since we've been there ourselves. This will be their first trip. Their standard wardrobe in the summer is usually long khaki shorts and dressier logo tee shirts (they shop quite a bit at American Eagle and Hollister) or a polo, and vans--I occasionally take them shopping, so I have a little bit of an idea. I know we need to plan for the possibility of much cooler weather than home. Most of our trip will be casual/sightseeing, but we will have some evenings where nicer dress is appropriate. We'll also do some shopping for fun during the trip. Any suggestions?
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YOur thoughts are correct, teens there dress pretty much the same as anywhere and their usual clothing will be fine. It can be much cooler, sure, so make sure they have some kind of lightweight jacket or pullover or something, and some long pants (jeans would be good).

It really depends what you are meaning by some evenings with nicer dress -- is that just a decent restaurant or concert or theatre, or some top-end place? Expected dress varies a lot depending on what you are planning. In most of those places, just some decent twill pants will do, rather than jeans. I suppose khakis are okay, but they aren't worn that much over there, although some guys do wear them, also, if that is their only decent pair of pants (rather than a dress suit). At least it will be summer, so that will work.
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I think that what they normally wear would be perfectly fine for day to day sightseeing. Teenaged boys have it so easy when it comes to packing
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And some khakis for going out at night to a restaurant.
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I wouldn't worry much about day-to-day sightseeing clothing - no point in buying a whole new wardrobe. They do need long pants (jeans or whatever they usually wear in cooler weather) and decent shoes for walking, along with a rain jacket.

Khaki in general isn't worn nearly as much in the UK as it is in the US. If they're worried about blending in, they might lean more toward jeans. My younger UK friends all like Abercrombie shirts and the like, so they should be good there. But honestly, they'll stick out as tourists anyway, so whatever they would wear in the same circumstances at home would be fine.

If you're going to the theatre, a nice button-down shirt and either a nice dark pair of jeans or dress pants (and non-Van shoes ) would be good. You'll see people dressed in all sorts of ways.
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Teens dress the same everywhere. You might want to think about tearing some of their jeans before arriving in Paris.
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Thank you so much.

Since we're traveling with the boys, we're going to keep things casual, but we will be taking them to the theater in London and to decent restaurants at night. If they take nicer dark jeans, dark twill pants, and shorts, with a nice looking fleece jacket or dressier hoodies, would that work? If khaki isn't common with younger people, would darker shorts (like olive or brown twill cargo shorts) be appropriate as well? I know they wear those here. I've never had to worry about the dress requirements for churches before--should they have a pair of those zip off pants just in case they need long pants there if the weather is warm?

I think they'll be fine dressing exactly like they do at home, but they might be uncomfortable if they stand out a great deal from local kids. It's better to ask than not know. This is very helpful.
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My boys are now 16 and 22. They have traveled to Europe with me for about the past 5 years. Both wear khaki pants and neither wear shorts over there. Regarding the shorts- we are usually not there in very hot weather (mid-June being the latest). One packs a light brown courdoroy jacket that looks very nice with jeans. The other has a blue blazer that looks good with polo shirts and khakis.
Local kids do dress like kids at home, lots of jeans. However, for decent restuarants I don't like shorts.
Both bring long sleeve nice-button down shirts. These are perfect for dinner or theater.
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Old Feb 8th, 2011, 10:39 AM
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Definitely khakis or darker shorts are fine!

At the theeatre you will get all types - from jeans (some not so nice) and tshirts, to suits, to tuxes and more. They will be fine in nice jeans and shirts, or even nice shorts. If they want to dress up a bit a shirt and khakis would be more than acceptable.
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Oh, this sounds just like little girls dressing their dolls.

How about letting the kids dress themselves? If they get in trouble, they will learn.
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Remember--they asked me what to bring. I can give them a list of suggestions, but the choices will be up to them.
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Depending on how long you'll be gone, I'd have them pack a couple pairs of jeans, a pair or two of shorts, and a nicer pair of trousers. Check the weather before you go to decide on the shorts-to-jeans ratio. Some t-shirts, a couple polos and a couple of button-down shirts will do nicely, plus a jacket (I wouldn't worry about how nice it is) and good shoes.

If they do want to fit in, they can buy some football (soccer) gear when they're there or whatever else they see. I don't think my brothers would have cared when they were 16, but they didn't turn into fashion icons till they got to college.
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Old Feb 8th, 2011, 11:21 AM
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I would tell them to bring an absolute minimum of items and buy a few more when they arrive. Nothing is cooler than foreign gear, and even if things are more expensive in Europe, there will always be reasonable t-shirts and other such items.
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No, it doesn't sound like little girls "dressing their dolls". It's advice and suggestions. Why be mean in a response?
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Leave the hoodies at home. They carry a poor reputation in London, quite accurately when you consider what "hoodie" derives from.
A day or two before departure, get the guys to pack their bags, then insist they carry them around a couple of blocks. It's the best argument for lightening up.
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I'm curious - where does hoodie derive from? I honestly thought it was derived from the hood on the sweatshirt...really just curious...
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A hoodie is a sweatshirt with a hood. Don't know why they would have a poor reputation in London. My two sons, 19 and 21 now, have taken their hoodies to London several times without incident.
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jamikins, that was always my understanding too!

I've seen lots of people wear hoodies in London without incident. The boys sound like they're not apt to look like gangsters or anything.
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Dress them like this and they'll be fine:

http://waynerooneyonline.com/photos/...n-wayne-rooney
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Don't know if it still applies, but a few years ago many shopping centres banned hoodies.
I think it's because they hide the face. It's probably groups of youths that are the problem
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