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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:17 PM
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just got dumped !!!

WHEN IT RAINS IT POURS!! I HAD PLANNED ON MEETING BOYFRIEND IN LONDON AND STAYING WITH FRIENDS; BUT NOW HES NO LONGER IN THE PICTURE AND I HAVE TO MAKE NEW PLANS. I WILL BE IN LONDON FOR 20 DAYS. I WOULD APPRECITATE ANY SUGGESTIONS AND WHERE TO STAY ON A BUDGET AND ANY OTHER IDEAS AND HOW TO MAKE THE BEST OF THIS TRIP. THANKS NICEGAL
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:21 PM
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Sorry, that is a bummer !!
You can go to Paris or Amsterdam from there. I wouldnt stay in London 20 days. Is your ticket round trip? Change it to multi leg if you can.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:27 PM
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thanks for ur reply JandaO..my ticket is non-refundable and non-transferable and yes it is round-trip.thanks nicegal
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:27 PM
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You could always take me along as a sub
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:29 PM
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Or hop aroung on the cheap airlines like Ryan Air. You can even go down to Florence, take the train to Brugges, There's a whole world out there from London. Show that guy you don't need him to have a great time.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:33 PM
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Nicegal:
I second the flight to another city. Try Ryanair or Easy Jet.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:34 PM
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I agree with Ann1.
Go and have yourself a great time. There are several places within a easy train ride of London.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:37 PM
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Check out independent Hostels in London on the web. There are lots of them. Low priced and lots of other solo travelers.
You will not miss dumb ass boyfriend!
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:39 PM
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Check out www.easyjet.com -- it's so easy to get regular flights to Amsterdam, Paris, and other European destinations for CHEAP! Europe for Dummies Book has extensive listings of places to stay ultra cheap but safe--catering to college crowd. Have fun meeting plenty more fish in the sea!
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:40 PM
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So sorry to hear that you got dumped, but you never know who you'll meet traveling...
I agree with the other posters. You can see a lot of other places in 20 days. I'd get out of the rain, grab a cheap flight and head to Barcelona or Nice.

You can still have a great time!
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:42 PM
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Sorry about what happened but at least maybe this will turn into a positive. Here is my 2 cents..
Try St. Margarets Hotel on Bedford Place You can access their website at www.stmargaretshotel.co.uk. The entire block that this particular hotel is located on is filled with hotels that are for the budget minded. The location is good in my opinion especially for the rate you are paying.
Another hotel on the same street is Haddon Hall Hotel. I have stayed there and it was adequate. Nothing fancy. Clean. Staff was pleasant. My room reminded me of my college dorm room. The St. Margarets is very popular and books fast. There are two other hotels on that same street which I have not heard good things about..The Reston and The Lonsdale...perhaps things may have improved I am not sure.
Anyway this area I like because I find it convenient to a lot of popular tourist destinations. The site for St. Margaret's gives pretty detailed information about the location etc...
Anyway I wish you the best. Of course you could also try Priceline and get a much nicer property possibly for the same amount or less. There is a website www.biddingfortravel.com that explains Priceline. Also of course there are tons of Fodorites that may have a better suggestion.
Good luck..hope this helps.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 02:52 PM
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oh also check out www.lonelyplanet.com another good resource.. HTH
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 03:09 PM
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nicegal,
Use this opportunity to find out how much you enjoy solo travelling. And definitely check out the some of the other countries in Europe - think of it as a chance to do what you want, without having to consider anyone else's preferences!
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 04:17 PM
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If you have 20 days why not see southern England and Wales? Or even go up to Scotland.. 3 weeks is a long time.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 06:05 PM
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personally i like to really get the feel for any neighborhood i'm staying in... i often travel solo. am sorry for your unwanted change of plans.

just fly yourself in, get a hotel, and wander around checking thing out. i'm no expert on london, but generally do fine getting set up & picking up local publications for what's going on in the neighborhood. you'll be fine!
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 07:38 PM
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You'll get over it, Nicegal. Afterall, I am on my 14th husband and I have never looked back. I am sure you will meet someone new soon. But, that person will surely not be Armand.

Armand is a fat, bald person's name. Try and meet someone rich and thin.
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 07:49 PM
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Nicegal,consider yourself fortunate to have found out in time what a jerk he Was!!!There are a LOTS of Fish in the Seas.. Go to Europe, have fun.. but 20 days in London is way too much.. You need to stay in lively atmosphere, with great weather and friendly people.. Take a train to Sunny Italy and spend some time there!!Believe me is the best way to forget anybody...
Ciao,
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 08:03 PM
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Nicegal-well to hell with him.How about taking the chunnel to Paris and then train it to Amsterdam.You should be able to get a cheapo flight bak to London.Log on to www.ricksteves.com for inexpensive hotel suggestions, or get his book.
Again remember if he does not know he'd be lucky to have you then... bye bye
Best of luck
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 08:04 PM
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Go! Have fun.
You'll meet lots of friendly people in the pubs who will chat you up as they say.
"the best way to get over a broken heart is to have it broken by the next one" You're young, enjoy yourself. see the world as much as you can before settling down.
Gee, I wish I had me for me , when I was young!
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Old May 19th, 2003 | 09:22 PM
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I've had a lot of fun traveling solo in Europe, and as people have said it's much easier to meet new people that way.

I'd suggest making the most of England (including the Lakes District and the Dales), perhaps pop up to Edinburgh, and check out Wales. I've spent 3 weeks in the UK and left wishing I had more time. Of course a long weekend or so in Paris would be fun too, or you can save that for the next 'good' boyfriend!
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