I'm a proud tourist!
Sep 8th, 2008, 06:33 PM
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I'm a proud tourist!
And feeling brave enough on the Fodors forum to say so! I keep reading about the importance of "not looking like a tourist" in appearance and I'm amazed by the great amounts of money people spend to "blend in."
I say, what's wrong with "looking like a tourist"? In no way am I advocating we all wear shorts in the dead of winter with black socks and sandals (You know who you are!) BUT perhaps it's OK to wear a backpack, if you enjoy photography and have a very large camera you haul around.
I'm going to Paris in December and while I would love to be the chic Parisian fashionista, I know we're going to be doing a lot of walking (rain willing) so I probably should leave my cute high-heeled boots at home. I will pack my waterproof parka instead of my classic black wool coat because it might rain. All day. Every day.
As much money as I've spent on airfare and hotel and/or apartment rent, I would hate the trip to be ruined because of aching feet or not wanting to carry a guidebook around!
After all, everyone figures out you're not from "here" the second you open your mouth.
My mantra: Better to "look like a tourist" than "act like a tourist."
Please give me the arguments against this!
I say, what's wrong with "looking like a tourist"? In no way am I advocating we all wear shorts in the dead of winter with black socks and sandals (You know who you are!) BUT perhaps it's OK to wear a backpack, if you enjoy photography and have a very large camera you haul around.
I'm going to Paris in December and while I would love to be the chic Parisian fashionista, I know we're going to be doing a lot of walking (rain willing) so I probably should leave my cute high-heeled boots at home. I will pack my waterproof parka instead of my classic black wool coat because it might rain. All day. Every day.
As much money as I've spent on airfare and hotel and/or apartment rent, I would hate the trip to be ruined because of aching feet or not wanting to carry a guidebook around!
After all, everyone figures out you're not from "here" the second you open your mouth.
My mantra: Better to "look like a tourist" than "act like a tourist."
Please give me the arguments against this!
Sep 8th, 2008, 06:41 PM
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There has been some anti american sentiments in Europe since the Iraq war so you may occassionally get some negative treatment from the local as soon as you approach them. You'd understand what I'm saying if you've been caught in some anti american protests as I have in France, Italy, Austria & Germany.
On the other hand in other cities/places it is cool to be american, so it just depends where you're travelling.
On the other hand in other cities/places it is cool to be american, so it just depends where you're travelling.
Sep 8th, 2008, 06:49 PM
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"<i>I keep reading about the importance of "not looking like a tourist" </i>"
Huh?? You may read all sorts of threads asking "How do I avoid looking like a tourist". But that vast majority of answers say basically "wear what you want."
Huh?? You may read all sorts of threads asking "How do I avoid looking like a tourist". But that vast majority of answers say basically "wear what you want."
Sep 8th, 2008, 06:54 PM
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Dax,, I am shocked( and frankly am sceptical that you stumbled into Anti American protests in FOUR different countries, how unlucky is that!!!??,, I sure didn't notice any anti American anything in Europe this summer, so I think you must have been just really unlucky.. or perhaps you miscontrued some comments as anti American when they were anti tourist , and America was not even mentioned.
Back2Sabi I totally agree with you, go and have fun.. its the novice tourists that worry too much about what to wear, some of us who have been around just don't care anymore( within limits of course, dressing neatly and appropriately to venue, no tube tops in churches, etc)
Back2Sabi I totally agree with you, go and have fun.. its the novice tourists that worry too much about what to wear, some of us who have been around just don't care anymore( within limits of course, dressing neatly and appropriately to venue, no tube tops in churches, etc)
Sep 8th, 2008, 07:00 PM
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interesting you assumed I was an American... I never said so. (Do only Americans have the monopoly on parkas? or are they the only ones who would dare "stick out"?) I'm not suggesting wearing a flag coat or anything. (Lord knows I haven't been the happiest patriotic camper these last eight years...) Just want to some comfy walking shoes. Is that so wrong?
Sep 8th, 2008, 07:50 PM
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Bosama: I don't think I was unlucky, it was just an eye opener.
The first one happened in downtown Vienna where I suddenly was faced by a group of protesters yelling and carrying a banner protesting american invasion of Iraq right after we took control of Iraq.
On another trip we had to break through a human wall of protesters to enter a McDonalds in Nurgnberg with the local police escorting us. It was somewhat exciting, my daughter & I didn't feel as threatened because the protesters seemed to be organized highschool students. I figure if we don't break the chain nobody else would since it was on the news at that time that many american businesses were being boycotted in Germany.
In Rome there was a sea of protesters on the day that Bush landed. That's probably the scariest situation because there were thousands of angry people and they were not just anti Bush, they were loud & clear anti american.
In Paris it was my wife who ran into a large group of protesters while I was at the hotel. She was quite affected that she decided to go back to the hotel immediately.
The first one happened in downtown Vienna where I suddenly was faced by a group of protesters yelling and carrying a banner protesting american invasion of Iraq right after we took control of Iraq.
On another trip we had to break through a human wall of protesters to enter a McDonalds in Nurgnberg with the local police escorting us. It was somewhat exciting, my daughter & I didn't feel as threatened because the protesters seemed to be organized highschool students. I figure if we don't break the chain nobody else would since it was on the news at that time that many american businesses were being boycotted in Germany.
In Rome there was a sea of protesters on the day that Bush landed. That's probably the scariest situation because there were thousands of angry people and they were not just anti Bush, they were loud & clear anti american.
In Paris it was my wife who ran into a large group of protesters while I was at the hotel. She was quite affected that she decided to go back to the hotel immediately.
Sep 8th, 2008, 10:06 PM
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DAX,
Wow. You were unlucky. Protests against the US don't happen that often. There were more right after the Iraq invasion but less now.
Switzerland usually has one during the WEF but it rarely gets out of hand.
A calm protest is a good thing that shows freedom of speech. And protests against the US are usually about politics or capitalism and not towards US citizens themselves.
Wow. You were unlucky. Protests against the US don't happen that often. There were more right after the Iraq invasion but less now.
Switzerland usually has one during the WEF but it rarely gets out of hand.
A calm protest is a good thing that shows freedom of speech. And protests against the US are usually about politics or capitalism and not towards US citizens themselves.
Sep 8th, 2008, 10:20 PM
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Hi Back2Sabi
I am guessing from your name that you are a South African. I agree that there's nothing wrong with looking like a tourist. Comfort is everything!!! Besides, the economies of the countries that we visit benefit from the fact that we are tourists, so we have a lot to be proud of.
We'll be in Paris in December too and we'll be dressed just like you - you'll recognise us because we'll have our maps and cameras out and we'll be looking very confused, absolutely delighted and in total awe of everything around us.
Enjoy!
I am guessing from your name that you are a South African. I agree that there's nothing wrong with looking like a tourist. Comfort is everything!!! Besides, the economies of the countries that we visit benefit from the fact that we are tourists, so we have a lot to be proud of.
We'll be in Paris in December too and we'll be dressed just like you - you'll recognise us because we'll have our maps and cameras out and we'll be looking very confused, absolutely delighted and in total awe of everything around us.
Enjoy!
Sep 9th, 2008, 01:28 AM
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DAX wrote: "On another trip we had to break through a human wall of protesters to enter a McDonalds in Nurgnberg with the local police escorting us."
Why did you have to do that?
"I'm going in there; it's the patriotic thing to do; we'll show them that America means business."
Why did you have to do that?
"I'm going in there; it's the patriotic thing to do; we'll show them that America means business."
Sep 9th, 2008, 03:03 AM
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Yes I'm a tourist, loud and proud. Here is my prayer:
The Tourist Prayer
Heavenly Father, look down on us, your humble tourist servants who are doomed to travel this earth, taking photographs, mailing postcards, buying souvenirs and walking around in drip-dry underwear.
We beseech You, Oh Lord, to see that our plane is not hijacked, our luggage is not lost and our overweight baggage goes unnoticed. Protect us from surly and unscrupulous taxi drivers, avaricious porters and unlicensed English-speaking guides.
Give us this day divine guidance in the selection of our hotels, that we may find our reservations honoured, our rooms made up and the hot water running from the correct tap if at all. We pray that the telephone works, that the operator speaks our tongue and that there is no telegram waiting from our children which would force us to cancel the rest of the trip.
Lead us, Dear Lord, to good inexpensive restaurants where the food is superb, the waiters friendly and the wine included in the price of the meal. Give us the wisdom to tip correctly in currencies we do not understand. Forgive us for undertipping out of ignorance and overtipping out of fear. Make the natives love us for who we are and not for what they can screw out of us.
Grant us the strength to visit museums, cathedrals, palaces and castles listed as "musts" in guidebooks, and if perchance we skip a historic monument to take a
nap after lunch, have mercy on us, for our flesh is weak.
For husbands only:
Dear God, keep our wives from shopping sprees and protect them from bargains which they neither need nor can afford. Lead them not into temptation for they
know not what they do.
For wives only:
Almighty Father, keep our husbands from looking at foreign women and comparing them with us. Save them from making fools of themselves in cafes and nightclubs. Above all please do not forgive them their trespasses for they know exactly what they do.
Together:
And when our voyage is over and we return to our loved ones, grant us the favour of finding willing audiences and a sympathetic ear for our stories, so that our lives as tourists shall not have been in vain.
Amen
The Tourist Prayer
Heavenly Father, look down on us, your humble tourist servants who are doomed to travel this earth, taking photographs, mailing postcards, buying souvenirs and walking around in drip-dry underwear.
We beseech You, Oh Lord, to see that our plane is not hijacked, our luggage is not lost and our overweight baggage goes unnoticed. Protect us from surly and unscrupulous taxi drivers, avaricious porters and unlicensed English-speaking guides.
Give us this day divine guidance in the selection of our hotels, that we may find our reservations honoured, our rooms made up and the hot water running from the correct tap if at all. We pray that the telephone works, that the operator speaks our tongue and that there is no telegram waiting from our children which would force us to cancel the rest of the trip.
Lead us, Dear Lord, to good inexpensive restaurants where the food is superb, the waiters friendly and the wine included in the price of the meal. Give us the wisdom to tip correctly in currencies we do not understand. Forgive us for undertipping out of ignorance and overtipping out of fear. Make the natives love us for who we are and not for what they can screw out of us.
Grant us the strength to visit museums, cathedrals, palaces and castles listed as "musts" in guidebooks, and if perchance we skip a historic monument to take a
nap after lunch, have mercy on us, for our flesh is weak.
For husbands only:
Dear God, keep our wives from shopping sprees and protect them from bargains which they neither need nor can afford. Lead them not into temptation for they
know not what they do.
For wives only:
Almighty Father, keep our husbands from looking at foreign women and comparing them with us. Save them from making fools of themselves in cafes and nightclubs. Above all please do not forgive them their trespasses for they know exactly what they do.
Together:
And when our voyage is over and we return to our loved ones, grant us the favour of finding willing audiences and a sympathetic ear for our stories, so that our lives as tourists shall not have been in vain.
Amen
Sep 9th, 2008, 04:55 AM
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But the Op just said "looking like a tourist" and the thread has been hijacked by people who assume he/she is American and therefore sees the world with American eyes.
Could be American for all I care.
But Back2, I agree absolutely with what you are saying. If you are going to say in a few luxe places and travel between them in a similar style, and carry mega amounts of luggage, then maybe you can look perfectly groomed and well dressed all the time. Whether the style will be that of the country you are visiting is another matter.
But we ordinary people take stuff we are not too bothered about. It could be lost in transit, or destroyed by laundry services. We also wear travel pants which are a dead giveaway I reckon. And we take SENSIBLE SHOES - because it is far more important to be able to get out there and walk than it is to get out of the door looking smart.
Who cares? The locals will know you're not a local pretty much whatever you do.
Especially when you open your mouth.
Ha Ha.
Cheers
Could be American for all I care.
But Back2, I agree absolutely with what you are saying. If you are going to say in a few luxe places and travel between them in a similar style, and carry mega amounts of luggage, then maybe you can look perfectly groomed and well dressed all the time. Whether the style will be that of the country you are visiting is another matter.
But we ordinary people take stuff we are not too bothered about. It could be lost in transit, or destroyed by laundry services. We also wear travel pants which are a dead giveaway I reckon. And we take SENSIBLE SHOES - because it is far more important to be able to get out there and walk than it is to get out of the door looking smart.
Who cares? The locals will know you're not a local pretty much whatever you do.
Especially when you open your mouth.
Ha Ha.
Cheers
Sep 9th, 2008, 05:15 AM
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<<I'm amazed by the great amounts of money people spend to "blend in.">>
Really? I've been reading these boards for years and years and don't recall any posts about folks spending a lot of money to "blend in." Can you cite your sources?
<<After all, everyone figures out you're not from "here" the second you open your mouth.>>
Kindly speak for yourself.
<<My mantra: Better to "look like a tourist" than "act like a tourist.">>
So yours is a snobbism of a different kind, eh? Is that because it costs less to act like a tourist than to dress like one?
Really? I've been reading these boards for years and years and don't recall any posts about folks spending a lot of money to "blend in." Can you cite your sources?
<<After all, everyone figures out you're not from "here" the second you open your mouth.>>
Kindly speak for yourself.
<<My mantra: Better to "look like a tourist" than "act like a tourist.">>
So yours is a snobbism of a different kind, eh? Is that because it costs less to act like a tourist than to dress like one?
Sep 9th, 2008, 05:48 AM
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I think the reason "tourist" is a dirty word is not because of maps and comfortable shoes. I think it comes from a lack of respect for a culture if your tourist comforts insult the culture.
Wearing comfortable clothes into a restaurant where everyone else has spent the time and effort to dress nicely is a tourist insult. Possibly even being the only one on a Paris street in shorts and tennis shoes is also an insult. You are taking away from everyone's view of what Paris should look like.
But I think you've found a happy medium between practicality and not insulting a culture.
Wearing comfortable clothes into a restaurant where everyone else has spent the time and effort to dress nicely is a tourist insult. Possibly even being the only one on a Paris street in shorts and tennis shoes is also an insult. You are taking away from everyone's view of what Paris should look like.
But I think you've found a happy medium between practicality and not insulting a culture.
Sep 9th, 2008, 06:01 AM
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I usually look like me. I was actually in Paris when the current war broke out, & in my many trips to Europe have had only one instance of any type of bad behaviour towards me. I think DAX either a) exaggerates a bit or b) may cause some reaction based on what his own actions. By the same token, I am not 'advertising' that I am a tourist by wandering around lost, map in hand, etc. as it can make you a target. As a person who is constantly approached by persons abroad for directions and such, it would appear to some that I (at the very least) appear to know what I am doing...Looking like a tourist w/a big bag of photography equipment will draw attention, that you don't want, or need. I also very much doubt that you'll need a parka. After all, if it is raining, it can't be all that cold, can it ??
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When I travel I like to be comfortable and to wear appropriate clothing for the weather. I also would like to be treated respectfully and respect is gained by looking presentable and behaving decently.
Take the common safety precautions - don't be an easy target for criminals.
So enjoy being a tourist, respect the country you are in and their customs and be aware of your surroundings.
When you travel you are a representative of your country whether you like it or not.
Take the common safety precautions - don't be an easy target for criminals.
So enjoy being a tourist, respect the country you are in and their customs and be aware of your surroundings.
When you travel you are a representative of your country whether you like it or not.
