Do you give money to beggars?
#22
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I rarely give money to beggars but I will buy them food if they're hungary.
The other day I saw a young college student counting change to buy gas and I threw in a few bucks. He didn't ask and I got the instant reward to see his face go from worry to great relief. That was money well spent.
The other day I saw a young college student counting change to buy gas and I threw in a few bucks. He didn't ask and I got the instant reward to see his face go from worry to great relief. That was money well spent.
#24
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This same question was posed on the xpats.com forum (geared toward expats in Belgium) and here were the respondents' views:
http://www.xpats.com/polls/polls_dis...on&id=MzYx
http://www.xpats.com/polls/polls_dis...on&id=MzYx
#25
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No, never, not at all. The same goes for those unknown charities that have people with cans going up to stopped cars at traffic lights.
I only give money through my church or charities I know well, such as the Salvation Army.
Keith
I only give money through my church or charities I know well, such as the Salvation Army.
Keith
#26

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At home in San Francisco area, when I go into town I always buy a copy of the "Street Sheet," a small newspaper put out by homless or down and out folks and sold for a dollar. It encourages productive activity and legal entrepreneurship. (It's also my "get out of jail free" card for the rest of the evening.)
Beyond that I don't give cash; I worked in the community mental health system long enough to suspect where the money was going. I have bought meals for people begging, however, when that's what they wanted.
When traveling, I am less inclined to do so for reasons mentioned above, i.e., I don't know the scams from the ones genuinely in need, And I agree that it has the potential to encourage the practice. I will generally give to what look like legitimate causes campaigning on the streets (diseases, local charity drives) in other countries and we do donate pretty extensively at home to local groups.
Beyond that I don't give cash; I worked in the community mental health system long enough to suspect where the money was going. I have bought meals for people begging, however, when that's what they wanted.
When traveling, I am less inclined to do so for reasons mentioned above, i.e., I don't know the scams from the ones genuinely in need, And I agree that it has the potential to encourage the practice. I will generally give to what look like legitimate causes campaigning on the streets (diseases, local charity drives) in other countries and we do donate pretty extensively at home to local groups.
#27
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I would never give to those who follow you around and get in your face about it. I was moved by someone I saw in Prague. She was kneeling by the door of a church. She was very old, her head bowed in a very uncomfortable position and wasn't moving at all. She never made eye contact or made a sound. Her palms were raised to receive anything we felt we could part with. Her poverty seemed very sincere.
#28
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I'm inconsistent on this one, I admit. I normally give to charities I know. If some one is pestering me for money? No, never. But the ones who simply hold out a cup? If I have spare change quickly available, I sometimes toss it in. What the heck, I figure.
#31
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Living in San Francisco, I see a lot of different types of begging, from sidewalk performers to old people in wheelchairs. Who get out of those wheelchairs at the end of their shift to walk home.
Generally, I send checks to charities. Also volunteer.
Generally, I send checks to charities. Also volunteer.
#32
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On the home turf: I will only give food and drinks, hardly money. This weeds out those who ask for money under the guise of getting food.
Now, call me a cynical NYer, but I see the begging everyday since I was little. I know most of us are fortunate to have the money to travel, let alone the basic necessities to survive, and I'm thankful for that. And I also know that there are some who just have endless bad luck, and constantly compounded it could lead you down the homeless and hungry road.
I feel sad for them during extreme weather conditions, but there's only so much I can do for them before I go broke myself, and I only have so much time to volunteer as work has sucked away any trace of my social life. I will never hesitate to ask them what they want to eat and drink, and would rather spend my money providing them the basic necessity than give money to someone who might spend it on other things.
As for beggars abroad...I'm not sure, but the elderly melt my cold NY heart.
Now, call me a cynical NYer, but I see the begging everyday since I was little. I know most of us are fortunate to have the money to travel, let alone the basic necessities to survive, and I'm thankful for that. And I also know that there are some who just have endless bad luck, and constantly compounded it could lead you down the homeless and hungry road.
I feel sad for them during extreme weather conditions, but there's only so much I can do for them before I go broke myself, and I only have so much time to volunteer as work has sucked away any trace of my social life. I will never hesitate to ask them what they want to eat and drink, and would rather spend my money providing them the basic necessity than give money to someone who might spend it on other things.
As for beggars abroad...I'm not sure, but the elderly melt my cold NY heart.
#34
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Miami had a lot of begging in the streets, especially 'window washers' who would jump to your car and wash the window when you exited the highway, without asking, then ask for a dollar in payment. I ignored these, as I never asked for the service.
I have frequently given away food I had (a banana, a sandwich, a soda) to those on the side of the road. I rarely, if ever, give cash. I will give whatever change i have on hand (usually a big handful) to firefighters and the like collecting for charities.
In foreign climes, I will toss a donation to anyone who is performing street music, as I love music and consider that an addition to the ambience, and my travel experience. Much better to encourage people to work for the money by adding to the beauty of the world!
I won't give in to anyone who actively accosts me, though. To me, that's downright rude, uncalled for, and probably a scam.
I have frequently given away food I had (a banana, a sandwich, a soda) to those on the side of the road. I rarely, if ever, give cash. I will give whatever change i have on hand (usually a big handful) to firefighters and the like collecting for charities.
In foreign climes, I will toss a donation to anyone who is performing street music, as I love music and consider that an addition to the ambience, and my travel experience. Much better to encourage people to work for the money by adding to the beauty of the world!
I won't give in to anyone who actively accosts me, though. To me, that's downright rude, uncalled for, and probably a scam.
#35
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Several people have mentioned street performers in this thread. I almost invariably give these people money.
However, I don't see them as beggars but rather as people offering a legitimate service for which one may choose to pay or not.
However, I don't see them as beggars but rather as people offering a legitimate service for which one may choose to pay or not.
#36
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It depends on the situation. Across the street there is an pedestrian underpass. On weekends there are always one or two people playing (awfully poor!) music. They're always where most people have to pass. Right under one big! sign "No begging, loitering, or playing music, this area is designated to public traffic. City of Munich"
Now would you leave money in such a situation?
Now would you leave money in such a situation?
#37
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Nope, not if it is specifically against the law there. Only law-abiding beggars, please!
And yes, I consider 'busking' to be on a much higher level than 'begging'. Also, begging for a cause (like the firefighters) are on a higher level than begging for yourself (because they are much more likely to be doing so honestly).
And yes, I consider 'busking' to be on a much higher level than 'begging'. Also, begging for a cause (like the firefighters) are on a higher level than begging for yourself (because they are much more likely to be doing so honestly).
#38
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My rule of thumb with beggars in general:
Yes to veterans, women or children or obviously physically handicapped people.
No, to healthy adult males (except veterans).
In Europe, I am more careful and wary of scams and threats of robbery.
Yes to veterans, women or children or obviously physically handicapped people.
No, to healthy adult males (except veterans).
In Europe, I am more careful and wary of scams and threats of robbery.
#39
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Never and my son walks by and says "get a job."
Powell- as for women and children, in Nice there are several women holding small kids who are totally passed out on their lap. I watched as a women with a boy about 3 years old changed his nice shirt to a torn dirty one. Then she put a scarf on her head and changed her facial expression to total pitiful. It is a scam.
Powell- as for women and children, in Nice there are several women holding small kids who are totally passed out on their lap. I watched as a women with a boy about 3 years old changed his nice shirt to a torn dirty one. Then she put a scarf on her head and changed her facial expression to total pitiful. It is a scam.

