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Old Feb 22nd, 2004 | 05:42 PM
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You do realize that m_kingdom gets a kick out of causing the rest of us to react to his demeaning barbs. The best we could do is not to rise to his bait. He would soon get fed up with being ignored.
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 12:55 AM
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clgarbas:

To return to your subject, which might interest you more than who's morally superior to mkingdom:

- we've established getting a job in Britain isn't really the problem: living on the salary might be. Property prices, and their relation to average earnings, are a serious problem in London (where in most other respects the cost of living isn't seriously different from the rest of the UK, though there are localised pockets of exceptionally expensive local taxes, or exceptionally cheap petrol). It's a problem that seems to hit people in your position most - youngish people moving in from areas where property's cheaper.
- for identical jobs, London salaries aren't proportionately higher (though there are more high-salary jobs in London, which is one of the reasons property's so costly). So living elsewhere makes a lot of sense. Ny note above might sound as if I meant "like Toronto". I didn't. Apart from the bigger towns some distance away, ROSEland (=Rest Of the South East) may work for you.
I live in a 4-bedroom house in a tiny town 80 mins by reliable, hourly train from London. The house is 10 mins' walk through a medieval churchyard from the station. We rent it, while superintending the nearby reconstruction of our own house, for about £1000 a month - the going rate round here. This small town is 15 mins by train or car from a city that (reasonably, though smugly) regards itself as one of the world's intellectual capitals, with a cultural life that, while not matching the city's judgement of itself (nothing could) is about as good as you'd expect. Unemployment within a 25 radius is effectively zero.
Take a map of Britain's rail network from www.nationalrail.co.uk and look for the many similarly idyllic out-of-London locations. For local property prices, www.primrelocation.com is useful.

- cost of living. There's a very odd paradox here. Americans frequently complain about UK prices: Brits rarely get excited about how cheap it is to live in apartments in New York or LA. I've long suspected this is partly because Americans are bizarrely tolerant of US retailers' deceitful habit of hiding sales tax, but also because living abroad can always be pricey, if you're comparing what you normally do with the cost of doing that in a country where they do different things. As a Torontonian, for example, you probably share the UK habit of regarding manufacturers' grocery brands as things bought only by the most feckless, when supermarkets' own brands are generally better. So relative prices of, say, Crisco are irrelevant when what you want to compare is President's Choice at Loblaws with Tesco Finest.
The most accurate source of real, as opposed to anecdotal, cost of living data is the EIU Index. It costs serious money to access it on the Web, but if the Canadian or Ontarian Government has an Exporters' Information Centre in Toronto, they will probably have a copy or free web access. Its London equivalent does (see www.tradepartners.gov.uk) and it's worth using it on your reconnaissance trips here.
Incidentally, the web sites of the major UK supermarkets, especially Tesco and Sainsbury, give line-by-line prices for the whole of their range, so you can construct a real analysis of your weekly shopping bill.

- about mkingdom. Living for any period of time in a new country can be stressful. Look carefully at mkindom, because this thread is a valuable lesson. He (I assume) first gave a characteristic British reply: civil, erring on the side of negativity, but not excessively so.
Then Englishone interjects good wishes. That part of the message was quite irrelevant to your question. In an ordinary conversation in Britain, many would see that as gratuitous niceness. Glances would be exchanged, eyebrows raised, side grins could be visible. And mkingdom performed the cyber equivalent of those gestures. Often in Britain, unnecessary niceness can be almost as great a social gaffe as unnecessary unpleasantness.
Doubtless life should be different - and may well be different in better-ordered societies. And even in our yobbish society, mkingdom overstepped the bounds of etiquette. But in Britain, many of us have a very low toleration threshold indeed for saccharin: mkingdom was expressing what many would think (and gossip, privately, over later). In a straight conversation Britishone could well have the piss taken out of her in public.
It may not be nice, but such behaviour isn't personal. Brits have a way of perpetual deflation and mutual ribbing. Browsing through the UK and Australia sections of the Lonely Planet/Thorn Tree site provides a very good introduction to what can dismay many North Americans (British and Australian cultures are very close in this area, though not in many others).
- do browse heavily through the American Expatriates site, to see more about the culture shock stuff - aiming off for the fact that a large proportion of contributors are trailing spouses, rather than working migrants.

Good luck. 60 million of us manage to live perfectly happily here, and more people move here every year. Jobs are generally easy to find, and the property price problem causes relatively few of us to live in tents. You might just have to workl at it a bit
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 01:52 AM
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60 million Brits live perfectly happily/60 million Brits make the best of their lot.

There are race wars, there are high taxes, there is widespread poverty and as a consequence poor standards of living. About 600 000 (0.1%) live at a relatively high standard. As I always say, one can live in a warm country, say southern Italy or Spain, have nothing, yet have the sun. However naff that may sound, I feel it is very true. If you don't have money, London life simply isn't fun, and even if you do it's much more pleasureable to be able to wake up to sun, sea, blue skys and any other clichés.

I admire you for taking such an huge leap of faith into the relative unknown, once again I offer you my best wishes.
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 04:01 AM
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Add to that the department of trade and industry recognises our workforce as low-paid, easy to hire and fire and you see why us insecure Brits work the longest hours in Europe, have dysfunctional families with both parents *having* to work 60 hrs a week (unless your a fat cat or politician who can grease the wheels enough to get child help). Normally then the children are left to scavenge for high fat food and turn feral. In fact three young boys were discovered walking on all fours with fish-heads in their mouths only last week in central London.
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 04:26 AM
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After reading this post, I have started to have second thoughts about doing a 3 month stay in London(my dream). The financial aspect does not concern us as much as the culture shock. We are retired and income is not a problem. Flanneruk talked about "gratuitous niceness" (a very big aspect of the American character IMO) considered to be not the thing over there! We probably make up our mind after our 2 trips to UK this year. Of course, it may just be "the grass is always greener" effect! I think it is amazing that I could consider living in London, but never NYC....very curious! Judy ;-)
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 05:21 AM
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I think FlannerUK has overstated the 'gratuitous' niceness. He talks of me 'getting the piss taken' over offering congratulations to a newly wed couple. Flanner, my perception of this greeting was different from yours, evidently. I myself, see this as a normal social habit, but what I think you are missing here is that I am talking from a woman's viewpoint. Hard as it may seem to a man (and that may sound Un-PC (which, in my point of view, has become ridiculous and the social scurge of this society) women enjoy congratulating each other on occasions such as birthdays, engagements etc. etc. which men would probably see as being 'cissy'. Do you understand now??
Please don't be put off by FlannerUK's appraisal of this conversation. Many of us Brits have been raised correctly and have the necessary social skills to interact with others. As demonstrated here, some do not.
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 06:18 AM
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Hi

If I was wanting to live in the UK, well I wouldn't choose London.... how about somewhere like Southampton ... 1 hour south of London ... good rail links to central London, but also near the international airports of Heathrow/Gatwick, so friends/family from Canada don't have too far to travel.

Good nightlife, excellent resturants, good shops, near the countryside & the sea ... good beaches half-hour drive away.

Also if you wanting to travel Southampton now has FlyBe a low cost airline ... fly to many destinations in Europe.

I live in Eastleigh (about 6 miles north of there) ... you can buy a 3-bed semi house for under 200000 pounds or rent 750-800 monthly.
http://property.msn.co.uk/msn/lettings/index.jsp

The above website has a number of properties to rent for 750-800 in area SO50 (postcode of where I live). You could check that for London as well.

Hope that helps.

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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 06:22 AM
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Englishone, I still want to come! I won't be put off by this thread either. I read enough Brit chic lit and other female UK writers, to know we women have more in common than not ;-)! I think, clgarbas you will have some serious issues to ponder ;-). Judy
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 06:43 AM
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Hi clgarbas,
I agree with isplumm.
The UK does consist of places other than London.
Firstly nothing is ever going to be more expensive than London and many many places will be equally as interesting and a darne sight safer, less stressful and subsequently healthier places to live.

Salaries are higher for many people in London, but Teachers, nurses and many similar people have no possibility of buying a house as they are far too expensive. This is a major problem.
Therefore most places within your price range to buy or rent in London won't be very nice in comparrison to Toronto IMO.

But you can rent or buy reasonably comfortably with that amount in Cities like Southampton or Cardiff in Wales. There is a good chance you can find work there too.

There really is more to UK than London.

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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 06:50 AM
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Anyone who is considering this sort of move and relies mainly on information from a bunch ofv anyonymous posters, including myself, "charming" or not, is a fool!
 
Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 08:28 AM
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Good on you, Judy
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 12:28 PM
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Thank you all for the lively conversation while I was logged off. (My apologies if that's gratuitous.)

I appreciate all the information. To clarify, 1000GBP isn't my budget for letting--just what I had seen some online apartments going for. I suspected it was a little low (although, of course, the pictures on the Web sites all look great) so I wanted my suspicions confirmed. Which I've certainly had.

Relocating to London (or elsewhere in the UK) is about experiencing another culture--it's not about making the most profitable financial decision. Toronto is one of the most affordable world-class cities in which to live. We know we won't find better, in that regard. And that isn't the point.

I'm definitely interested in cities other than London. Southampton and Cardiff are now on the list. Any other recommendations?

BTilke--thank you for your advice. My husband does qualify for UK Rite of Abode. We hadn't considered a lawyer until reading your post--great idea.

JonJon, fear not. My fate is not in your hands.

And, EnglishOne, I do appreciate the congratulations. My husband proposed in Paris. m_kingom, I hope that's okay with you.

Again, great thanks to all.
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Old Feb 23rd, 2004 | 03:18 PM
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Congratulations and good luck (frivolous and off-topic maybe, but I would say just good manners).

I would add Bristol to the list of possible extra-London options.
Interesting city with good restaurants and transport links.

Britain isn't as bad as some of my compatriates make out.

"There are race wars, there are high taxes, there is widespread poverty and as a consequence poor standards of living."

Britain's approach to a multi-racial society may not be perfect but it is being used by other countries as a model for how to develop their own approach.

Britain's taxes expressed as a proportion of GDP are below those of Sweden, France, Germany, and Italy + many others. Yes taxes are higher than in the US, but more public services are provided. Personally I would rather pay lower taxes and make my own choices regarding healthcare and education - but I am happy to abide by the will of the majority as is traditional in a democracy.

Poverty is not as widespread as even the official statistics would imply. The governments stated aim of eliminating child poverty applies to "relative poverty". This strange statistic includes all those living in households where the income is less than 60% of the national average. This makes no allowance for whether this results in absolute poverty. For instance, it may be possible to feed, house, and clothe yourselves and your family perfectly well, and take a foreign vacation each year - is this poverty ? It seems very difficult to reach a moving target for poverty - to me it would make more sense to set a level which allows living with dignity, and the purchase of all necessities and aim for that.

Anyway, enough of the politics/economics - off-topic again.

Good luck with the move, and may you meet many charming Brits on your travels.
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 03:31 AM
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What I do not think people realise is that you can get a Brisith Passport if you are Canadian...Is this correct clgarbas? My work colleague here in Dublin is Canadian with a UK Passport. So everyone try not to gang up too much before you know the story.

Have you considered sharing a flat initially with others. My friend in her late 30's did initially when moving to London and there it was in a huge older apt and 1-2 rooms had ensuite so its a priate room for you. This would be good for a few months to get your feet wet and possibly socialise a bit with the others. You will get a tiny place for 1,000 but remember Flats are much smaller in europe than U.S. Standards. As for jobs forget trying to have one before you go...I tried as well and it is really better to be there and look as people do not feel confident about a candidate that is still 3,000 miles away. What if you accept the job and dont show up. Go through employment agencies and try Monster.co.uk and similar sites.

As for easy or not easy to get a job...I ALWAYS get a job, but you have to realise that you will not necessairly get the one you want.. I did admin work, secretarial, Bar work, restaurant/catering work everything to make ends meet. I never had trouble finding jobs just one that I liked and wanted. (and paid well!)

I moved to Ireland with no job no flat etc. I was on a stopover to London awaiting the result of an Interview which never happened. I stayed and built a life. Its fun and better when you have someone with you to share and support eachother.

Take the plunge you have little to lose. You can always go home if you don't like it


Let me know what you do, I would like to see what you are planning!
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 04:32 AM
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Hey there -

Have you considered upping sticks to Paris? The greater Paris metro area has hundreds of thousands of anglophones (& anglophone jobs), I know several Yanks who have survived years without properly learning French (but I suspect that as good Canadians you can already get by) . . .

The Canadian govn. is actively targeting young French to emigrate to Quebec - I bet it'd be doable to get residency in la belle France, if you're professional people.

Me? After 14 years in Blighty, it's soon to be bye bye West London. I've made my professional mark here, but cost of living is simply astronomical (no, really - you simply cannot imagine) . . . we're probably back Stateside soon.

Property is driving this upward spiral. I bought a 1-bed flat near Ealing for £64k a few years ago, and it's now on the market for £212.5k. No joke. This same apartment I've been renting out for pushing £1000/mo. You'll get more bang for your Canadian buck in France; transport links are excellent to the rest of Europe and the World; you'll master an important world language; and, you'll pick up some killer culinary skills
; )
HTH and let us know about your decision-making process. This might also be useful:
http://www.expatica.com/source/site_...bchannel_id=25
Bye for now!
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 04:53 AM
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Relatively few Canadians are eligible for British citizenship and hence British passports. Only those with some connection to Britain through birth or parentage can obtain one. This has been true since 1947 when Canadians ceased to be "British subjects" and became Canadian citizens. Of course, Canada ceased to be a British colony long before that vestige was removed.
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 04:56 AM
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I should have added, of course, that any Canadian, like anyone else, can apply for residence, and eventually British citizenship, through the normal channels. The illustrious Lord Black of Crossharbour is one example, although I doubt that Conrad would ever have gone through "normal" channels.
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 05:41 AM
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laverendrye,

I did not realise you needed UK parentage/ralations for a passport. My colleague does have a British mother.

Something that people also need to be aware of coming over is that the E.U is enlarged from the beginning of May and many eastern European countries will be able to come to western Europe and work (with some constraints in different countries) so realise there may initially be some competition.
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 06:00 AM
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I would move to France in a heart beat. My French is not too shabby, but my husband doesn't speak a word. I'm fairly certain I couldn't talk him into that move (in either language). Although, for fun, I will look into the anglophone job market. Thanks for that tip.

Right now, we're in the "pie in the sky" phase of our research. Any ideas and suggestions are welcome.
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Old Feb 24th, 2004 | 06:31 AM
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Getting a job as a Canadian maybe hard and it maybe easy. You need to say more about your experience, age, qualifacations, aspirations etc.

For instance, if you have four years experience in corporate finance with RBC it should not be too difficult to get a job in the City of London. But if you work in McDonalds in Toronto employment prospects will be less rosy.

£1,000 a month will get you a one bedroomed flat quite easily in an OKish part of town. In some parts you will get a three or four bedroomed house at that price. But you won't get much in a trendy part like M_K says. But he is talking about Chelsea and Mayfair where few British people live (it is mainly wealthy foreigners and celebrities round these parts). These places are like the upper east side. If you come from Canada you aren't going to be able to afford a place on the upper east side, unless youi are that guy, Ross? the CEO, from RJR Nabisco.

You should budget £100 a month council tax, £50 a month phone, £25 a month broad band internet access, £25 a week cleaner, £30 a month gas, £30 a momth elctricity, £30 a month water.
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