NeilofOz-RIP

Old Sep 5th, 2010 | 11:29 PM
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NeilofOz-RIP

With permission of NeilofOz's son I am heartbroken to tell you that Neil died yesterday. He fought the good fight against the cancer that he had but he lost the battle.

Thanks to your palliative and community care services he was kept comfortable thankfully. His four children and son-in-law were with him during his last days which was such a comfort to him and his loving wife.

I last spoke to Neil some days ago and he still had his good spirit. I will always remember the wonderful day the three of us spent in San Francisco and I will always keep him in my thoughts and in my heart. He was truly a loving friend.

Rest In Peace, dear Neil.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 12:03 AM
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Hello Love,
thank you for letting us know this terrible news. I cannot tell you how sad this makes me feel. Oh so sad. Neil was such a respected contributor on this site. Oh we are so going to miss him.

If you are able to pass on my sincerest sympathies to Neils family I'd be very grateful Love.

This is a sad day.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 12:16 AM
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That's very sad news, LoveItaly. Thanks for letting us know. We emailed a bit and I had a great night with him & Robyn in Canberra earlier in the year. I knew he wasn't at all well, but am shocked and greatly saddened at his passing.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 12:39 AM
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Dear Stormbird, I certainly will for sure. A sad day indeed. My heart is breaking so I can only imagine how his wife and family are feeling. His son, when I talked to him a bit ago, reminded me so much of his dad as he also sounded strong and loving.

And you are most welcome, Bokhara, although it was with a broken heart I posted this thread. Sad, yes, I am too as he was too young and if he hadn't been ill he and and his wife would have been in Italy at this time. I can imagine your lovely evening together in Canberra as I will always cherish our time together in San Francisco.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 02:49 AM
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What awful news. We will miss him and his contributions on this board. Strangely I was only thinking of him today.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 02:49 AM
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Fodor's won't be the same without the wit and clever repartee of our much loved Neil.

I'm really going to miss him.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 03:05 AM
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I am so sad. He was such a knowledgeable poster, and a great loss to this board.

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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 04:39 AM
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I am truly saddened to hear this. Neil was always so helpful and willing to share good sound advice and information.

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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 02:04 PM
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Neil will be missed as not only was he knowledgeable but able to disagree wholly without malice. I loved his sense of humour.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 03:34 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this news. Thanks for letting us know.

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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 03:50 PM
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Thanks for letting us know this very sad news, Love Italy.

Neil's erudite and humourus posts will be much missed here, as well as the kindness and hospitality he showed to those visiting Canberra.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 04:26 PM
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nancy, this i very sad news . neil and robyn stayed in my apartment in oakland and then we met up here in victoria. do you have an e mail address for robyn or a phone #. i would like to send my condolences. he was such a giving, funny person

sadly Andrew
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 04:30 PM
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ps nancy: adbeck@ shaw.ca
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 04:58 PM
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This is sad. I never met Neil, and I so enjoyed his wit and view of the world. I’ve been thinking, “How come Neil has not responded to this or that topic. He’d insert a bit of wisdom into the discussion”.

And now he’s gone.

Sad.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 06:14 PM
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LoveItaly, would it be a nice idea to post this news on the Asia Board?

Neil was a contributor there and as we know, had a very keen interest in Asia. I have a feeling a lot of the regulars there would probably not visit the Lounge or the Australian Board regularly, and would also want to add their memories & tributes for our friend.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 06:22 PM
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Dear AndrewDavid, I am so glad to have your correct email address as I wasn't sure that I did. I will immediately email you the contact information. I so wanted to make sure you that you knew the sad news about our Neil.

Your kindness in offering your condo in Oakland when Neil and his wife were in the SF/Bay Area was so appreciated and enjoyed as I am sure you know. And we spent hours at the MonaLisa Restaurant in North Beach as you and I did also. Best regards dear friend.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 06:29 PM
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Hello Bokhara, I was so sad and brokenhearted last evening that I didn't think to post on the Asia Forum but our dear bookchick did so for me.

After a bit I will send all the beautiful posts on the various threads to Neil's family. I was told we gave him so much joy but I hope that Neil and his loving family truly knows how much joy he gave all of us. When they read all the wonderful tributes I am sure that they will understand how much Neil meant to all of us.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 06:40 PM
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Thanks LI, I'd like to send Robyn some flowers - could you possibly let me have their address too, please? bokhara 77 at hotmail dot com (omitting the spaces).

I have his mobile & email, but don't want to disturb them at this time.

Many thanks
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 07:46 PM
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What a sad day! I too will miss Neil's wonderful contributions to this site. His knowledge, wit and sense of humour have enriched my travels with Fodor's immensely. My condolences to his family.

May you rest in peace, Neil.
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Old Sep 6th, 2010 | 09:11 PM
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I am very sorry to hear of Neil's passing. We'll all miss him here as a member of the "Fodor's family". He has always helped make this a fun site to visit.

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