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nytraveler Nov 11th, 2015 04:22 AM

No tipping in restaurants!
 
Heard on the news this am that Lobster Shack is joining Danny Myers in making all of their restaurants no tipping. The waitstaff in the former will now be earning $15 per hour (not bad for a chain place I guess). Menu prices will increase 12 to 15% to cover the staff's increased salary.

So - to all of those who say they hate the practice of tipping - now you can see what the alternative looks like. (Thinking the owners would pull the increased salaries from their own pockets is laughable considering the profit margin for most restaurants).

thursdaysd Nov 11th, 2015 05:00 AM

If the meal winds up costing the same but I don't have to tip I, for one, will be delighted. (Now, if they'd just include the tax in the price as well).

Dukey1 Nov 11th, 2015 05:39 AM

There's some law that says you "have" to tip?

NewbE Nov 11th, 2015 07:28 AM

I'd love to stop tipping, but a two-tiered system seems more confusing.

How do I know what a server is paid in the restaurant I'm in?

How do I know I'm in a Danny Meyer restaurant, lol? (Does the average NYer know this? The average tourist?)

thursdaysd Nov 11th, 2015 07:45 AM

@NewbE - no doubt they will say some version of "no tipping" on the menu, just as many European ones say "service included".

nytraveler Nov 11th, 2015 08:26 AM

Tax cannot be included in the price - it has to be a separate item that has to be tracked since it is paid to the state.

One can of course stiff the waitstaff if you want - but IMHO if people don;t have the money to tip they shouldn't be eating in a restaurant. Or expect their servers to work for next to nothing.

november_moon Nov 11th, 2015 09:44 AM

"Tax cannot be included in the price - it has to be a separate item that has to be tracked since it is paid to the state."

Yep, and.. tax rates change over time, so menus would have to be reprinted whenever there is a change. In the case of chains, tax rates are different in different areas, so they'd have to have location-specific menus printed.

Inakauaidavidababy Nov 11th, 2015 09:53 AM

It's ganna be mighty difficult to keep a trained waitstaff at $15 an hour unless it's at Chuckie Cheese. They will run like the wind to work for tips which can mean $50 an hour or more.

jamie99 Nov 11th, 2015 10:56 AM

I agree, $15 per hour is not much for an upscale place and I just do not see this catching on nationwide, maybe a few places in large cities like NY, SF and maybe LA.
And can you imagine how confusing this will make things for visitors from overseas who are already confused about tips?

fdecarlo Nov 11th, 2015 12:00 PM

Don't follow the logic. The new tipping policy results in diners automatically being charged an equivalent tip amount, regardless of the quality of the service received. It also results in restaurant employees who have zero vested interest in doing a good or better than average job.

Geordie Nov 11th, 2015 12:19 PM

Of course tax can be included in the price, it's easy to do, when you get the bill it shows the total price and the tax component

It should be part of the initial set up, including which state you live in, determines the tax rate, that's how it's done all over the world except the US.

Is the chef paid by tips, if not he / she has zero vested interest in producing good food, which is why you go to the place in the first place.

Maybe, the hostess, the person who brings the food,the bus boy and the person pouring the drinks may be consigned to history

thursdaysd Nov 11th, 2015 12:23 PM

"It also results in restaurant employees who have zero vested interest in doing a good or better than average job."

Have you ever traveled outside the US? Wait staff in other countries provide fine service without the US's bizarre tipping culture. You can actually enjoy your meal in peace without the server trying to become your new best friend and interrupting the conversation.

november_moon Nov 11th, 2015 12:57 PM

The US isn't the only country with a tipping culture - biazrre or not ;)

thursdaysd Nov 11th, 2015 01:10 PM

In which other country are you expected to tip 15% - 18% - 20% and up to wait staff? Which other country has a two tier minimum wage system? Which other country expects customers to make up a substantial portion of server's wages instead of having the employer pay a living wage? Not to mention all the other people in the US expecting tips. (I was just in France. I needed a hair cut. I asked my hotel for a recommendation, and then I asked about tipping the stylist. It was clearly a foreign concept to the receptionist, who eventually allowed as how you might round up to the next euro.)

fdecarlo Nov 11th, 2015 01:14 PM

>> thursdaysd on Nov 11, 15 at 1:23pm

>> "It also results in restaurant employees who have zero vested interest in doing a good or better than average job."


> Have you ever traveled outside the US? Wait staff in other countries provide fine service without the US's bizarre tipping culture. You can actually enjoy your meal in peace without the server trying to become your new best friend and interrupting the conversation.

Have you ever traveled inside the US? Nobody cares here, and when they do care it's specifically because it pays more than not caring.

kja Nov 11th, 2015 02:40 PM

I'm another person who would rather pay more for the meal without tipping, and hope to see this movement catch on in the U.S. I'm not convinced it will -- but I'm glad to see that its being given a try!

And FWIW, I find the idea that a server would have no incentive to provide good service without tips offensive. There's plenty of research showing that people prefer to do their jobs well, regardless of how much (or little) they are paid for doing so. And of course, whether tipped or not, servers may choose to pay little attention to those who are rude to them.

IMDonehere Nov 11th, 2015 02:53 PM

In many European countries being a server is a profession. At least in NY, there is just a small percentage of the servers who consider it a career. That is the major difference.

I live downtown Manhattan and there are few people who consider being a sever something nothing more than a way to pay the bills. Some are knowledgeable, some show up on time.

november_moon Nov 11th, 2015 03:27 PM

"In which other country are you expected to tip 15% - 18% - 20% and up to wait staff?..."

Here's a simple infographic showing generally where tipping occurs and where it doesn't.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/0...n_3779911.html

Or if you want more info, here is a link to a CondeNast article with much more info:

http://www.cntraveler.com/stories/20...-tipping-guide

As you can see, the US is clearly not the only country where tipping is expected.

nytraveler Nov 11th, 2015 03:58 PM

Lobster Shack is hardly upscale. I would suggest that some workers might prefer a salary with the accompanying benefits in terms of social security etc - when they aren't making that much anyway.

Obviously in more upscale places the waitstaff would have to make more.

NeoPatrick Nov 11th, 2015 04:02 PM

" no doubt they will say some version of "no tipping" on the menu, just as many European ones say "service included"

Actually in most cases where prices have been raised to cover the tips the general understanding is (and sometimes even suggested on the menu) that for exceptional service tips above those prices will still be appreciated. Like it or not.

NewbE Nov 11th, 2015 07:27 PM

<Wait staff in other countries provide fine service without the US's bizarre tipping culture.>
Uhhh...
I have had good service in Europe; I have also had shockingly bad service, and saw a waiter in Cologne tell a man who complained about waiting 15 minutes for a menu "You don't like it? Go to McDonald's!"

Of course this is anecdotal and my opinion only (and we all know what that's worth) but I think American tipping culture produces better service on the whole. I don't defend it as fair, or sane, but effective? Yes.

I also think that $15/hr is chump change at Lobster Shack, to say nothing of fancier establishments.

Undoing an ingrained cultural habit is going to be tough...

thursdaysd Nov 11th, 2015 07:44 PM

And also:

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/11/12/di...ng-policy.html

NewbE Nov 11th, 2015 07:51 PM

<And FWIW, I find the idea that a server would have no incentive to provide good service without tips offensive. There's plenty of research showing that people prefer to do their jobs well, regardless of how much (or little) they are paid for doing so. >

This is a total mischaracterization--misunderstanding, probably--of the way financial incentives work.

kja Nov 11th, 2015 08:23 PM

@ NewbE -- I would suggest that the use of tips to attempt to sway the behavior of servers is at least as likely to be a misapplication of the ways in which financial incentives work, as a mischaracterization of the way in which they work.

In general, financial incentives work only when they provide incentives that are above and beyond that provided by other incentives and when they are both sufficient to, and capable of, producing a change in behavior. For many servers, doing a good job -- and for that matter, keeping a job -- are more than enough to provide excellent service. In contrast, financial incentives typically undermine other reasons for doing the things to which those incentives apply -- so, for example, they tend to transform a sense of doing a job well for the sake of doing it well to a sense of doing it only if it pays well.

You might want to read up a bit on the research on motivation.....

NewbE Nov 11th, 2015 09:07 PM

OK, I'll play!

Let's consider executive bonuses, or any bonus structure, for that matter. Every company I have ever worked for had one. It went like this:
X are the requirements of your job
Y are the things you can do to get a bonus
Why would I do those extra things? For the money. Would I do them anyway? Maybe, but the company would rather be sure I will.

Now let's say I'm a waitress. The requirements of my job, when met, yield a minuscule wage; in the US, assuming I do a decent job, I can expect tips of 10% (or 15%, this is just an example) of my checks. But if I do extra things to make my customers enjoy their meals, I can expect tips of 20% (or more) of my checks.

I therefore refill water glasses before I am asked to. I circulate to keep an eye on my tables and so customers can see me to flag me down. I pick up my dishes from the kitchen and deliver them promptly. And so on.

Could I do less and keep my job? Sure. Would I do these things anyway? Maybe, but the expectation of a bigger tip makes it more of a certainty.

kja Nov 11th, 2015 09:43 PM

"Why would I do those extra things? For the money"

That's where you went wrong, NewbE. And that's where MANY businesses go wrong. Reducing everything to money is a mistake and can actually reduce the motivation of staff who would otherwise work their proverbial butts off -- at whatever level in an organization.

NeoPatrick Nov 12th, 2015 03:56 AM

kja, I appreciate these wonderful thoughts you express. How great if it were true that in the US today (and other places as well) most employees work hard because it gives them a feeling of well being. Or that earning more money is not really a reason to work even harder. But I honestly believe that it is much more a "theory" than reality. I know of only one or two people who would continue with their current jobs, no matter how happy they are working there, if their salaries were cut. They honestly do NOT work for their pride for the company they work for or because doing a good job gives them a nice warm fuzzy glow. They work to earn money, and their happiness is directly proportionate to the amount of money they earn.

vincenzo32951 Nov 12th, 2015 04:03 AM

I'm betting my next tip that kja doesn't own a business.

thursdaysd Nov 12th, 2015 04:13 AM

I am probably going to get flamed for saying this, but reducing everything to money is very American.

NeoPatrick Nov 12th, 2015 04:21 AM

thursdaysd, I'm not sure why you say "reducing EVERYTHING to money" -- as there are more considerations here. But to suggest that money isn't an important motivator in the workplace in China, or Great Britain, or Germany, or Japan, or just about anywhere you can think of is just plain naive.

tom42 Nov 12th, 2015 05:17 AM

The idea that waitstaff will only do the bare minimum to keep their job if they didn't get tips doesn't make a lot of sense. If that is the case, does it follow that employees in the many jobs that don't involve tips only do the bare minimum necessary to keep their jobs? No one takes pride in doing their job well unless they will be getting extra money?

obxgirl Nov 12th, 2015 05:38 AM

Meyer seems aware that his staff isn't only working for the pride of doing a good job:

<i>Meyer’s experiment is expected to begin in November at The Modern, his fine-dining restaurant at the Museum of Modern Art, and for the first 90 days he has guaranteed that “nobody will make a penny less than they would have made had we kept tipping at a full 21 percent level.”</i>

http://nrn.com/people/danny-meyer-we...t-leaders-here

And that there will be financial incentive for both the front and back of the house to provide good service. Also, patrons will have the opportunity to rate service and food with a star system.

<i>Servers will be paid a guaranteed base wage of $9 an hour, plus a payout from a profit-sharing program that also extends to back-of-the-house employees. Servers in USHG restaurants are currently paid a base wage of $5 an hour.....The profit-sharing program will divide a portion of sales among nonservers in roughly the same way that gratuities have been tipped out in the past.</i>

http://www.restaurantbusinessonline....eliminate-tips

I think it's interesting idea and hope it's a successful one.

NeoPatrick Nov 12th, 2015 06:00 AM

"If that is the case, does it follow that employees in the many jobs that don't involve tips only do the bare minimum necessary to keep their jobs?"

ummmm. Yes. I honestly believe that the bulk of workers only do what is required of them. It's nice tom42, that you and others believe workers go out of their way to do a great job -- without regard to getting paid for the extra work. Sure there are a few of those around, but I sincerely doubt that in today's workplace that is the "norm" -- by a long shot.

IMDonehere Nov 12th, 2015 06:05 AM

Many CEO's get high salaries and bonuses regardless of the performance of the company. In fact many cut staffs in order to improve profits, even if it effects the running of the company.

Using the logic that money equals caring, it implies that chefs would do a terrible job because they are not motivated by tips.

Tom Colicchio says that it will improve lunch service since the better servers want to work dinner when the prices are higher, thus the tips.

One would hope that management would hire, TRAIN, and monitor the servers.

This is all not to say that outstanding servers could get a bonus or higher base pay.

This is a new concept in America and of course, there will be all sorts of problems at first. And like anything new or old, there will be those who want to be obstructionists and those who will try and make it work.

NewbE Nov 12th, 2015 07:43 AM

< If that is the case, does it follow that employees in the many jobs that don't involve tips only do the bare minimum necessary to keep their jobs? No one takes pride in doing their job well unless they will be getting extra money?>

No, that doesn't follow, because in a country where everyone tips 15-20%, a tip isn't really extra money, it's the base pay. A tip over 20% is the extra money.

People take pride in doing a god job everywhere, every day--that's human. But they will look for a different job if they aren't paid enough (whatever "enough" means, in each individual's estimation), because pride doesn't pay the bills or feed the kids.

NewbE Nov 12th, 2015 07:47 AM

In response to kja, the problem with your argument, IMO, is that you seem to see it as all or nothing: give bonuses (or tips), thereby reducing "everything" to money and decreasing motivation; or do various other things to motivate employees to do good work (which I won't go into, but which I know include positive reenforcement, fostering communication, helping employees feel like stakeholders, etc., etc.).

Every company I've ever worked for did both. Saying that money isn't the only answer is a straw man argument.

tom42 Nov 12th, 2015 07:48 AM

<<But they will look for a different job if they aren't paid enough (whatever "enough" means, in each individual's estimation), because pride doesn't pay the bills or feed the kids.>>

No one said they wouldn't. Just like any job. If you aren't happy with the pay, you would look for another job.

NewbE Nov 12th, 2015 07:52 AM

tom42, actually, you implied that instead of looking for another job a worker would simply do "the bare minimum", adjusting his effort down in response to lower pay. That's what I was disagreeing with.

fdecarlo Nov 12th, 2015 08:19 AM

I hope this gets by Fodor's mods, and no hard feelings if it doesn't.

A friend commented this morning: "Do away with tipping? There goes my sex life."

tom42 Nov 12th, 2015 08:55 AM

<<you implied that instead of looking for another job a worker would simply do "the bare minimum", adjusting his effort down in response to lower pay. That's what I was disagreeing with.>>

I think you are mistaking me for NeoPatrick. He's the one who says that the bulk of workers do only the minimum amount required. I was disagreeing with that because it is much more complex than how Neo thinks about it - there are many reasons why an employee might want to do a good job and not just the bare minimum, regardless of additional immediate financial reward. But yes, I agree with you that if the job isn't paying a salary which the employee finds acceptable, the employee will likely look for another job.


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