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alya Nov 5th, 2005 10:42 PM

Author: Scarlett
Date: 11/04/2005, 05:38 pm

"Tips for a Happy Marriage..
Get married when you are too young to know better.
Have children right away.
Grow up together..
Pick the right one...( that is the hard part- some poeple have to try a couple of times to get that one right)"

_______________________________________

Boy oh boy do I agree with this one!

We married on my 18th birthday and 23 anniversaries years later we have a 23, 22 and a 16 yr old (he was a bit of a hiccup - my 'baby' hormones went into overdrive) now in our early 40's we have the whole world ahead of us.

It wasn't easy and I wouldn't recommend it for everyone - but for us it worked!

Hope you had a wonderful anniversary Scarlett, best wishes to you and The Yankee.

X X X



iceeu2 Nov 6th, 2005 04:05 AM

Congratulations Scarlett and the Yankee!

I didn't get it right first time, but 2nd time around was the right one.((L)) We will celebrate our 18th in 2 weeks.


AnnMarie_C Nov 6th, 2005 04:44 AM

((L)) Happy Anniversary, Scarlett!!! ((L))

P_M--beware the feral cats! Apparently, they're everywhere!! ((@))

OneWanderingJew Nov 6th, 2005 05:42 AM

I met OWJ2 on a blinddate that I really, really didn't want to go. I had been on a bazillion and was over the whole concept. The only reason I even went is because my coworker taught across the hall from me was giving me a hard time. She insisted he was a super nice, funny guy who even if I didn't like him, I would have fun with. I did have a great time that night but told a friend on my way home that I'd love to keep him around as a friend--hoping OWJ2 had other nice friends :D

About 2-3wks later was my birthday and OWJ2 came over with a really nice silver bracelet. I was all prepared to have the friend talk that night but put it off. It's 3yrs. and I'm still putting off the friend's talk!

OneWanderingJew Nov 6th, 2005 05:45 AM

Oh--and we've travelled lots in a pretty short period of time. Many trips to NY, to CA, Washington DC, Italy not to mention long weekends to places w/in driving distance.

kopp Nov 6th, 2005 06:11 AM

Best wishes, Scarlett, on your anniversary. Here's to many, many more!


Marianna Nov 6th, 2005 06:25 AM

My husband and I met over 40 years ago when we were both college students attending different colleges in Boston. Last May, we celebrated our 35th anniversary, but we find ways to celebrate simple things all year long. Yesterday, we had an early dinner outside on our porch since it was so lovely here in the Boston area. We toasted the day and felt so lucky to be able to enjoy the beautiful weather together.

As for the travel, we travel as often as we can - usually 3 times a year - a sunny, warm place for the holidays (usually the Caribbean), a sunny, warm place in February or April (Florida, Sante Fe, California, Hawaii, etc), and Europe in July. We have been very fortunate in many ways, but especially to have been able to take our mothers with us on many of our trips.

Thirty-five years and still counting...must be because we both love to travel!

Happy anniversary to you and your husband, Scarlett!

hdm Nov 6th, 2005 06:42 AM

For us, 35 years in December of incredibly happy unwedded bliss! That's the reason for the upcoming trip to NYC. Of course, we've got a ways to go before we reach that 200 mark!

Cheers and happy anniversary, Scarlett!

Cassandra Nov 6th, 2005 07:00 AM

Happy Anniversary, Scarlett!

DH and I each travelled to meet each other, he from Iowa and me from Massachusetts, up to New Hampshire, where we were working in a big ole summer resort-hotel (think Dirty Dancing). I was desk clerk, he was bellhop.

We had no money for a honeymoon (took 1 night at Letchworth State Park in NY), but eventually we've travelled many many places together in the US, Canada, Caribbean, and Europe; and we always refer to the trips as "Honeymoon, part 3," or "Honeymoon, part 18."

We're probably spending a little too much money travelling now -- 36 yrs. later -- that should go toward retirement travel, but we've seen too many cases where the retirement travel couldn't happen because of illness or death. So we've racked up some really nice memories, and just have to hope that we'll still be "Two for the Road" for at least another decade, or two, or...

Enjoy your "Honeymoon, Part 19," Scarlett! ((f))((f))((f))((f))


PS: Alice Roosevelt Longworth: "If you can't say anything good about someone, sit right here by me." ;-)

BuffaloGirl Nov 6th, 2005 07:55 AM

((8)) HAPPY ANNIVERSARY....
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY....
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY....
HAAAAAAAAAAPY ANNIVERSARY!((8))

((F))((F))((F))((F))((F))((F))




Scarlett Nov 6th, 2005 08:00 AM

Thank you Thank you!!!!

The sun came out!!

Buffal Girl, bless your heart, get off that leg and get well!!

annesherrod Nov 6th, 2005 08:15 AM

Scarlett,
Happy Anniversary to you.....and to all the other fodorites who are celebrating an anniversary this year!!:)
Isn't it funny how fast time flies!!!

I met my DH the summer before Sr.year of HS. We got married the year after we graduated college - still babies!!!

Our dream trip is to sail around the world and hit all the exciting ports of call.He wants to retire at 50- that is only 6 years away. I can't imagine.......

gyppielou Nov 6th, 2005 08:22 AM

Scarlett who???

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO THE YANK!!!!!!!!!!

Mrlou and I got engaged in Montreal!

cigalechanta Nov 6th, 2005 08:39 AM

Happy Day Scarlett, rain here another DP for you.
"There's a hell of a difference between wise cracking and wit.
Wit has truth in it.
Wisecracking is simply Calisthenics with words."
"It serves me right for putting my eggs in one bastard."
and especially for you,
"Take care of the luxuries and the necessities will take care of themselves." :)

mermaid_ Nov 6th, 2005 10:09 AM

Happy Anniversary dear Scarlett! How exciting to celebrate this one in a new city. It's the start of a new tradition for you and the Yankee, and here's wishing many more happy years ahead of you. Enjoy!

PamSF Nov 6th, 2005 10:26 AM

And one of my personal favorites:
Deep down inside of her, she's really very shallow.

indie Nov 6th, 2005 10:27 AM

Happy anniversary Scarlett. Have a wonderful day.

Scarlett Nov 6th, 2005 10:29 AM

I am so touched!!
(I know, you are saying , Touched in the head!! lol)
but this is really so sweet and I thank you all.
Especially those who rarely post and have come in to send good wishes..thank you ((L))
Pam, I loooove that one! :D

kureiff Nov 6th, 2005 03:23 PM

Happy Anniversary! :)

elaine Nov 6th, 2005 03:50 PM

Have a wonderful dinner at one of Portland's top spots, and report back.
Tomorrow.
:)


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