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Tansy Feb 12th, 2004 03:45 PM

Why do you travel? No, really, think about it -- why?
 
Why do you travel?

Is it to get away from work, your house, the stresses of daily life?

Is it to see a new place, the good, bad and ugly, learn about a new culture, taste new foods, meet the natives, see things you've never seen before?

Is it to re-connect with your spouse or family members since you don't get quality time together on a day-to-day basis?

So many reasons to travel. But reasons #1 and #3 say more about our current quality of life, not the need to leave our homes and go somewhere new . . .

This isn't a judgement of any of these reasons (or others), just something I'm pondering in my ole noggin.

razzledazzle Feb 12th, 2004 04:00 PM

Good question, Tansy!
I travel for the new place, new things reason you stated. The other reason is that we are divers and live in Northen CA where the ocean is much too cold and murky !
We are trying to go to all the interesting/great scuba spots around the world as we can. We also love wine but then we live in the Wine Country-as good as any reason to "vacation' at home! and still try new things!
R5

LisaDee Feb 12th, 2004 04:27 PM

I have two completely opposite reasons for travelling: to spend quality time with my kids, and to get away from them! My husband and I try to take two "big" trips a year. One with the kids and one without.

The trip without the kids is our opportunity to reconnect with eachother as a couple and to relax and recharge without the constant demands of two preschoolers. We like to take this trip when it's cold here in the East. We head to a warm locale with beautiful beaches. Our days include sleeping in, having leisurely meals, and hours of reading, swimming, and snorkelling. Cocktails start well before the traditional cocktail hour.

Our trip with the kids is our chance to spend quality time with our boys without jobs/housework/etc interfering. We are able to completely focus on eachother, have fun, introduce the boys to new places, and make great memories. We usually return from this trip more tired than when we left (think lugging bulging carry-ons and carseats through the airport), but we treasure this special time with the kids.


Janny Feb 12th, 2004 04:42 PM

Right now I feel I need to get away. I'm having vacation relaspes..(ughhh!!) I'm in Michigan where it's cold & cloudy & can be snowy. You can only take so much of this dreary winter weather.

Anyways, I love to travel to see new places. It's funny cause my DH calls me a travel addict. I love looking up trips/destinations online, helping others with there vacations, investigating about different destinations to go. I just love vacationing period. From packing the suitcase to being at the airport watching the airplanes. We don't have any kids so kids are not a factor. We just enjoy being away, around beautiful surroundings, dining at different restaurants, just being somewhere else. Just being away from your normal daily routine,especially work :-) Travel is definitley my passion!!

Kal Feb 12th, 2004 04:43 PM


:-? I travel, therefore I am.

GoTravel Feb 12th, 2004 04:44 PM

We travel to see the world.

mahoneycutt Feb 12th, 2004 05:08 PM


My father died in 1997 without seeing much of the world. I realized then that life is short, and you don't get extra points for having the most money in the bank at the end of your life, so I try to take one nice trip a year.

As for stress, I keep my souvenirs on the wall in front of my desk, and the memories I have of these places always help relieve the stress.

Mike Honeycutt

Birdie Feb 12th, 2004 05:12 PM

I NEED to travel. I was raised as a corporate brat, moving to a new city every few years. I go nuts if I spend to much time at home.

gyppielou Feb 12th, 2004 05:24 PM

I travel to live....to breath. At the end of the year, what are my life memories?...work? sometimes....mostly, however are those magic moments I have created to make life living, the adventures when you embrace each and every moment of each and every day. I travel to embrace living and being.............. when everyday life tries to make me forget why we're here and that we're here.

Tansy Feb 12th, 2004 05:25 PM

Good point, Birdie. I was raised as an Army brat, never in one place more than 3-4 years. Now I've been in the same town for 11 (GASP) years, and I can only handle it because I take SO many trips! Very important to satisfy that wanderlust.

Trisha Feb 12th, 2004 05:32 PM

It gives me something to look forward to and planning gives me something I enjoy doing. I think planning sometimes is the best part of the vacation and the anticipation of the approaching trip. I like going places I have never been and gathering information about the place plus learning about it before I go. I usually start planning my next trip as soon as I get back.

travleis Feb 12th, 2004 05:35 PM

Insatiable curiosity.
I am interested in visiting almost anywhere I've never been....just to see what it's like.
Small towns, empty plains, touristy spots, wherever.
And there aren't too many places I like returning to (never get tired of NYC and Italy).

Tansy said: "But reasons #1 and #3 say more about our current quality of life, not the need to leave our homes and go somewhere new . . . "
To that I say, would you want to wear the same style of clothes and eat the same food every day for the rest of your life?

Tansy Feb 12th, 2004 05:47 PM

travelis, I think you misunderstood me. I simply meant that many people like to travel to get AWAY from stress, or to get in touch with their immediate family -- because we live such busy, stress-filled lives that those things are not possible in our day-to-day lives.
Even if I could reduce my stress level and have quality time with every member of my family on a regular basis, I would still want to travel, for reason #2, among others. But it's sad to think that for many of us, the only way we can truly relax is to physically REMOVE ourselves from the place we live and work!

travleis Feb 12th, 2004 05:55 PM


Agreed.
My spouse would contend that the perfect vacation is a week at home (with no distractions, if that could be arranged).
I think a vacation week at home would actually increase my level of stress (theoretically--it's never happened so I don't know).

highbay Feb 12th, 2004 06:04 PM

We love the adventure of exploring towns, cities, and regions that we have never been before. We also enjoy going back to some of the places we have visited, like New Orleans, and Boston. We try to "get away" once a month. It keeps us planning, which is half the fun.

designmr Feb 12th, 2004 06:38 PM

My favorite day of the year is the first day of my annual half-week vacation, because it's the day when I just walk the streets and explore.

I travel to learn about another place -- everything about it. I want to learn about the food it specializes in, what people are like, how they treat streets and buildings, what locals do to pass the time, how they do things differently. When people say they approach traveling like an anthropologist, I have to say I'm the same way. A lot of it is pure discovery.

I travel to please the senses. I feast on local snacks and dine at fine restaurants. I admire towering buildings and quaint neighborhoods. I soak up majestic mountainscapes and misty waterfronts. I get my fix of live jazz and a feel for the local vernacular through conversation with strangers. I like the challenge of learning the public transportation system, the vindication of picking a great restaurant/nightspot, and the high of taking an awesome picture. I love the smells of a public market.

To learn and enjoy; that's why I travel.

jetset1 Feb 12th, 2004 06:46 PM

I was raised by a mom who loved nothing more than planning adventures. My dad liked domestic travel only, probably from being in Europe during the war. Once school was done for the year, off we'd go. She spoke several languages and covered most of the friendlier countries during her lifetime. She believed that being in one area and becoming provincial was a horrible tragedy. I guess I have some of the same outlook. I love the planning and research before a trip. Before I discovered this site, I could be found hanging out in the travel section at Barnes and Noble. My collection of Fodor's books is quite extensive. Plus, the eye opening quality of seeing life elsewhere, and now, showing the world to my kids. In these days of such poor television programming, I like having the opportunity to see the real world, vs. the stereotyped and oversexed morons from "reality tv". It's funny to think it used to be embarrassing to see commercials for feminine hygiene products. Now we have the 24/7 viagra ads. Even my 14 yr. old asked why so many men had to take that, but it was a good discussion on marketing strategy. Oops, I'm off topic now,lol.

MelissaHI Feb 12th, 2004 11:17 PM

I guess I am #1 and 2, but if I won megabucks tomorrow and could quit my job, I'd be travelling primarily for question #2. You have to travel not just to see the world, but understand your place in it. That, and because the world is my buffet!!

caribtraveler Feb 13th, 2004 04:15 AM

i travel because i love to see the world, learn about other cultures (my parents were big time world travelers).
although lately, my travels have been solely to relax. my hubby and i both have stressful jobs and a cutie 2-year-old. when he's a bit older, we'll start traveling again for the culture.
p.s.: the hubby and i (just the two of us, without cutie pie) travel once a year for our anniversary to reconnect.

Cassandra Feb 13th, 2004 05:12 AM

Aside from obligatory trips to keep connected with family, I travel to wake my brain up, to refresh my spirit from the staleness of same-old same-old.

As much as I love being in new places and seeing things I've never seen before, I also know I need to get the sludge out of my mental "arteries" and get an adjustment not only of attitude but of perspective.

I know I've gone too long without traveling if I find myself getting overwhelmed by the preparations to travel -- the packing, taking care of house- and pet-sitting, etc. When I hear my inner voice saying, "why am I doing this to myself? I could just stay home and relax, do I really need this?"

The answer is yes, I really need that.

And when I get home and no longer get swallowed up by work (at least for a time), or by my reactions to local and national news, local gossip, etc., and find myself looking for sources of international news or news of other parts of the country, new kinds of restaurants, etc. -- then I know I definitely needed to travel.


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