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Jill Jun 14th, 2000 01:30 PM

What's with all the raping going on in Central Park?
 
I have read in the paper that gangs are attacking young women in central park and raping and/or robbing them. Is NYC reverting back to its old ways? Is it safe? Some of my girlfriends and I are traveling there in July and have become a little concerned for our safety. Can someone reassure us out there?

graziella Jun 14th, 2000 01:59 PM

HI Jill , I do not live in NY so I cannot give you a full answer the matter in fact I would like to know too. <BR>What I believe from reading the NYTImes is that these inexcusable and terrible incidents happended at the same time that there was some kind of parade or something like that, things obviously went out of hand. It is a sign of the difficul times we live in. <BR>However I do not think this is a trend and I am sure that Mayor Giuliani and the Police Department will continue working towards a safe NY, for those who live there, and for us mere tourists ( although some tourists like me are also former Newyorkers....)I for one have tickets and reservation for September and of course will be there , ...my heart goes to the people that were attacked specially to the women, <BR>and if I lived there I would know exactly how to vote. Best wishes.have a safe and great stay in the most exciting city in the world. <BR>

Christina Jun 14th, 2000 02:08 PM

What paper is that exactly that you're reading? That has been in the news regarding rowdy gangs of men attacking women (minor assault and some robbery) after the Puerto Rican Day parade in Central Park South but I've seen no account anywhere of rapes, and I read some of the better national newspapers (NYTimes, etc) so that's why I was wondering what news sources said there were rapes. I would suggest you not hang out in Central Park, I'd think that should be sufficient. I wouldn't ever do that anyway, although as an out-of-towner, I realize we may have more fear of Central Park than some New Yorkers do. I finally conquered my fear of the NY subway on my last visit and am glad I did as it was a lot more convenient for off-Broadway, etc, and wasn't bad, however I still wouldn't take it at unpopulated times or late at night. And I must say, Mr. Giuliani ought to do something to improve the subways; they are really not very good for safety reasons in terms of their lighting, etc. I've never seen one in any major city as unprotected and dark as some of the entrances to them. That made me very uncomfortable (I'm thinking of particular one near Times Square, probably about 56th St and Broadway where you have to go down in a very dark small courtyard type area that isn't exposed to view much before going into the stairs. They're pretty dirty and decrepit, also, but I wasn't scared on them except for some of those entrances. At least given the press this has received, police surveillance will probably be beefed-up, so perhaps you can look at it that way.

Ruth Jun 14th, 2000 02:12 PM

There was a single incident of a couple women being molested after the Puerto Rican Day Parade. However, I allowed my 16 year old daughter to go to that parade with her friends and they all came back unscathed; I will let her go next year, too. NY City will never be fully safe, nor will any other big city. You have to be on your guard and take appropriate precautions.

howard Jun 14th, 2000 03:54 PM

Some of the above reports are wrong in both directions. There were no rapes. There were some sexual attacks, fondling, etc. On the other side of the reports, it was more than two. As of 6 this evening about 24 women reported being attacked. <BR>Speaking as a New Yorker, this unfortunate incident--and it indeed was unfortunate--is/was an aberration. However, I'm sure I speak for most New Yorkers (at least I hope I do!) when I say we are embarrassed about it. <BR>But, at the same time, please don't let it color your opinion of our great city! It's still a great place to visit...and to live!

Mimi Jun 14th, 2000 06:19 PM

Bobby Knight was quoted, a few years ago, as saying "if you're getting raped, you might as well just lay back and enjoy it". <BR>Maybe once he's finally tossed out of Indiana he can move to New York and run against Hillary. I'd pay admission to watch that debate.

dumb Jun 14th, 2000 06:26 PM

Lady, what's your point? You've pick a wrong place to attempt (and I do mean attempt) humor. What happened in New York really isn't funny!

Caitlin Jun 14th, 2000 08:45 PM

Howard is right, this unfortunate incident was a complete abberation. The fallout will likely include a stepped-up and more cooperative police presence at the park during and after future parades. Speaking as a woman who lives in NYC, I won't stay out of the park during the day, and neither should visitors. Central Park is a great part of the city, especially in the summer, and has been quite safe in recent years; it would be a shame for you to miss out on it.

Ann Jun 14th, 2000 11:46 PM

I've worked in the anti-rape movement for nearly 20 years. (Unfortunately, I still have a very busy job.) <BR> <BR>Sexual assaults happen in Central Park and big cities and they happen in sleepy little towns. And, the reality is that about 75% of the time, women are assaulted by someone with whom they are acquainted. This doesn't mean you don't to have to worry about sexual violence in Central Park, or anywhere else for that matter. But being aware and trusting your instincts about people and places is a good place to start. <BR> <BR>I strongly urge you to call your local rape crisis center to get accurate information about sexual assault, safety and self-defense information, and support for you and your friends so you can all enjoy your trip to New York. <BR> <BR>For resources in California, you can call toll-free 1-888-CALCASA and be directed to the rape crisis center nearest you. <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR>

Mad Jun 15th, 2000 07:01 AM

A Couple of women???? About 25 at last count. <BR> <BR>This parade has got to stop. Peurto Ricans are all a bunch of animals. They cry dicrimination at the drop of a hat. I say if you act like a jungle animal, you should be treated like one. That means shot and hung out to dry!! Message here, if you are a white law abiding citizen, stay out of the city when the trash takes over. <BR> <BR>I say ship them all back to their damn third world island. We don't want them here.

igor Jun 15th, 2000 07:11 AM

I have heard that there were no rapes <BR>at the Puerto Rican day parade. A few <BR>women were asked to remove their clothing and were sprayed by the water <BR>but nothing serious, just Puerto Ricans <BR>having fun. I would stay out of the city on that day though.

Ozzie Jun 15th, 2000 07:16 AM

Darling "Mad": <BR> <BR>Misspelling Puerto Rico twice within the span of two sentences says a lot about your intelligence, wit, and worthless "opinion".

Mad Jun 15th, 2000 07:31 AM

Oh!!! The ever so effective "you can't spell" routine. Give it up darling...I was not the one harassing innocent white women, one as young as 17. <BR> <BR>In my book the only appropriate spelling for these animals is D-E-A-D

i Jun 15th, 2000 07:45 AM

What normal white woman would go near <BR>the Puerto Rican day parade?

reality Jun 15th, 2000 07:57 AM

So this is the first time you have heard about rapes in NYC, specifically Central Park? It happens all the time, day and night, not just during parades. Unfortunetly, woman in NYC should not venture alone especially if you are new to the city, during parades I have always chosen to stay home because it is usually a bunch of drunk men (including cops) causing all sorts or problems. <BR> <BR>I lived in NYC for over two years and never had a problem, but that doesn't mean they don't exist and I took precautions in most instances. Just be on your toes and be safe.

Can'tSay Jun 15th, 2000 08:13 AM

"Just Puerto Ricans having a little fun? Women were ASKED to remove their clothes?" <BR> <BR>Please! And certain minorities wonder why an average American doesn't want them living next door - this incident would certainly fall into the realm of what I wouldn't want happening in my neighborhood!

Jeanette Jun 15th, 2000 09:43 AM

Having just returned last month from NYC, I was shocked to read about this. We spent hours walking everywhere in Central Park. This was a ghastly business and NOT FUN. Two french tourists and lots of misc. women got terrorized. I was stranger raped on public transportation many years ago when I was very young. (See the BOYCOTT gas thread if you are interested.)Don't like to hear about anyone going through this - it changes your whole mind set for most of your life.I took the subway to the Bronx and all over just last month. It was a bit confusing but people were helpful and there were crowds everywhere that behaved in a peaceable manner. I have seen crowd <BR>terror in my youth in Chicago and have also been caught in a stampede at a sporting event. Because I love to travel and always give people a chance until I see them "doing me wrong"- I can understand how some people might think this is "prankful" if no one is actually raped or hurt. NOT NOT NOT. The verbal assault / threat and group intimidation (as on Chicago buses in my youth also) leaves a lifetime memory that is NEVER forgotten. Don't let anyone get turned "off" from doing NYC over this, please. Manhattan was as fine as any major city can be. FINER. But one last comment--- someone expressed great anger about another poster commenting in a Chicago thread about not going into a "bad neighborhood"- for a blues band /jazz evening. Called that person a bigot and a lot more. RUDENESS This is the truth. THERE ARE BAD NEIGHBORHOODS. This is not a perfect world. Even in large groups- racial incidents HAPPEN. We who have witnessed things are not going to pretend that we didn't see what we have seen (or have seen destroyed what was once beautiful.) Chicago is much better than it was 20 years ago. Thank you, Mayor Daley for Navy Pier and lots and lots of other good things. Hope this nasty group stuff doesn't catch on here.

Helen Jun 16th, 2000 12:02 AM

"A few women were asked to remove their clothing"..ASKED? More like had all their clothing RIPPED off their bodies by mobs of men. In front of witnesses and I have read policemen who did NOTHING. To me that is the shocking thing...that the police did nothing even though they knew these attacks were happening right near them. That's NYC for you.

Cindy Jun 16th, 2000 05:31 AM

So, we have a bigot in our midst, and an uneducated one at that. Well, I'll just assume that you are white and not, say, Puerto Rican. If that is the case, you should recall that "your kind" is responsible for a good deal of the mass murder, assasination and serial killing in this country. When was the last time the "lone gunman" had brown skin? A few times(Sirhan Sirhan, Colin Ferguson, World Trade Center, that guy in Pennsylvania recently)? On the other hand, white males seem quite willing to spray a crowd with bullets. It's really a who's who of high-profile death and destruction: Tim McVeigh and his buddies, John Hinkley, George Wallace's assasin, MLK's assasin, Harvey Milk's assasin, JFK's assassin, Ted Bundy, Luby's gunman, McDonald's gunman, day trading center killing, Pettit and Martin law firm massacre, Columbine and every other school shooting save one. Get the point? Look in the mirror, please. <BR> <BR>I think we all feel a loss of personal security in this country due to all of the violence. It is a tragedy. To pin it on one group is unfair and factually incorrect. So the next time you feel the need to avoid a brown-skinned person because of your biases, be careful that you don't walk into the path of some guy who had a fight with his wife and has decided to end it all and take you out with him. <BR> <BR>I hope no one was offended by this post, but it was the best way I could figure out to take on an outrageous bigot. Besides, some of my best friends are white. :)

igor Jun 16th, 2000 05:40 AM

This is certainly not a "black and white" issue. I think most of the people posting to this topic are racist <BR>(black and white as well). To pinpoint <BR>a racial group and say that they are <BR>the cause of all the problems is certainly a racist statement. It is a shame that we make a black and white issue out of it so quickly.


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