How to say hello in the USA
 

In the south of Europe, when you want to say hello to a person( different gender), you always give a kiss or two.Even if that's the first time that you meet that person.<BR>In the US,in general, people don't kiss, they just shake hands...Even if it is the 10.000 time that they meet...<BR>Well, this was back in the 90's, what about 2002?<BR>Can I kiss my NYC friends or should I stay with the cold hand shake...<BR>Thanks<BR>

Kiss your friends,<BR> shake hands with an acquaintance,<BR>kiss both cheeks if you are(1)European (2) pretentious <BR>Kiss the mouth if it is your lover*

It's time you realized that there's no one "right" way for Americans. We're a pluralistic society that contains a lot of cultures. <BR><BR>For instance, my wife, though born in the USA, is of Italian heritage, so she thinks it's OK to hug and kiss just about anyone. However, there are others who are horrified at the idea of hugging and kissing anyone, even family members. So there's no one right answer or group of answers.<BR><BR>And to further illustrate: My sons are in their 20s and take after their mother. When one of them comes to our house for a visit, they usually give me a kiss when they leave. Some outsiders who've witnessed that can't believe their eyes.

As an Italian born father with a good looking son in his 20's, I've experienced it all. We sometimes stroll down the street with our arms around each other's shoulders just as would be common in Italy. We've had other men come up to us and almost whisper, "can you tell me where the gay bars are?"<BR>Men kissing in the US will get you stares at least, maybe even beat up.

I came to NY from the West Coast and my husband was horrified when I touched other people...oh well, I learned to keep my hands to myself in the Big City.

This depends on where you are. Kissing is very prevalent in the urban northeast, much less so elsewhere. My girlfriend moved from Denver to Boston, and finds the kissing thing totally confusing. Its quite funny to watch her running around saying "don't kiss me, don't kiss me! I don't know what I'm doing!"

The double air-kiss thing is such a load of pretentious crap. Please don't bore us with that garbage. A handshake is fine, if you washed after your last visit to the WC. Or should I say "latrine?"<BR><BR><BR><BR>

Whoa-Hannah, relax! either you need kissing or you got kissed and didn't like it...but don't bring so much bitterness with you, it is a major turn-off,babe.

How to say hello......just say "hey" or "hi"

Hannah,<BR>Its not pretentious unless its done by pretentious people. Work on that inferiority complex.

Hannah, I find it quite charming. What I hate are limp-wristed "cold fish" handshakes that so many women give. Yuck!!!

OOOOOooh me too! when women hand you this dead hand to hold the fingertips of....shudder....I just reach out and hold the other persons hand..easy and a lot more pleasant than the dead hand shake.

If you be in the hood, you jus say Yo-Yo-Yo. What's be happenin?

Kissing is preferred, but in one of the three recommended styles: there's peaches positioning of the lips - or the prunes method - or if you know the person well, or would like to, there's the ever popular alfalfa technique. Give it a try - you'll see!

I say- pucker up and kiss kiss,<BR>you know how to pucker don't you?

Just say "hiya doin". The "doin" should have just a little nasal tone.

Shake hands if you can,<BR>kiss if you must,<BR>but whatever you do<BR>NO TONGUES!

I like the 'pluralistic' post. I have been hugged by people I have met for the first time and handshaked by family! You never know here in the U.S. <BR><BR>Nowadays, people don't even say Hi they say, Hey. What's next? Just the 'H' sound. To be safe if you are meeting them for the first time, shake hands and say whatever comes naturally to you ("it's nice to meet you" is always good and universally accepted) depending on the circumstances: business, friendship, future lover,etc.<BR>

O.K., I've got one for you -- if you say "HI" to a Japanese person, are they hearing "hello" or "yes"?

"'sup dog" (followed by a chest bump) This works especially for meeting people for the first time.