| Nancy |
Dec 4th, 2002 04:07 PM |
Andrea if you don't understand how similar teaching is to social work you are out of the loop. Now I have the very extreme stories as I worked in the ghetto in NYC. Still teachers in more affluent areas deal with similar problems at some level. Let me see one year teaching a child was removed from my room and his home because another teacher had discovered and reported abuse (sibling)(different school). All the kids from the family including my student were pulled from the home on this report. <BR><BR>My principal thought a lot of white social workers were pulling black kids from abusive families unnecessarily. Thought the state had no rights over most abuse cases. That put me in a difficult spot as I was required by law to go over her head if she did not respond to my reports. We were threatened by Jail time as a possibility for a teacher that ignores this. This principal would tell me, we knew how to scream really loud when our parents were hitting us. These kids have to learn that. Well guess what That crack smoking mother was allowed in my room when I was alone to plead for her son once he was removed. I had nothing to do with the removal but the mother did not know that. I was lucky she was only pleading and not threatening me. Her 5year old son in my class had also first shown me a swollen hand, he told me that his mother hit him with a baseball bat because he was not moving quick enough in the morning. I reported it to my principal who did not act, this was only one of many incidents. <BR><BR>My second year teaching was my worst, it was a first grade class. I had a kid who was fondling boys in the bathroom (He was 6-7) his parents revealed to the school psychologist that he threatened suicide at home. I had a girl who never ever spoke, a crack offspring, a boy who stole, a girl that was just sadly crazy. Also had other kids that were emotionally suffering but this was the group that stands out in my memory. Ups I also had a kid whos grand mother picked him up stinking drunk on a regular basis. She attacked me on Martin Luther King holiday one year or a day near it. This was a few weeks after I refused to let her grandson go home with her. Her lipstick was smeared all down her face and she looked scary, very drunk. Principal told me there are no rules against inebriation I had to let him go. Other parents told me they saw her knock the kid down in traffic crossing the street. I was thought of as a young naive that did not understand the pressures of ghetto or African American life.<BR><BR>Stealing no big problem right, not something I even reported, the very next year in the second grade he was caught on the play ground having sex with another 2nd grader. Remember this was not the bathroom fondler. Not linking the stealing with the sexual behavior. What I am trying to get across to you here is that I was thrown into a social workers job. The kid that had the drunk GrandMa was known in later years to talk to people who werent there. Most public schools dont have any of the professional talent they need to understand what is happening in their student body. Our school psychologist told me he had never seen the abuse that was alleged in the suicidal kid. HE SIMPLY WAS IGNORING WHAT HE SAW. The man had worked in this school for 20 years and I had only been for one. All of the kids I mentioned were placed in special Ed for behavioral problems, at the advice of 3-4 grade teachers. And I still have more students more stories. <BR><BR>Yes it is clear I was in the Ghetto but teachers all around the country have to deal with these issues that are more of what a social worker expects. We are not trained for this but we have to rise to occasion at the moment. I am leaving out hostile threatening parents. I watch that show Boston Public and I know it is more reality than sensationalism.<BR><BR>I agree it something I should be WELL paid for. <BR><BR><BR> <BR>
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