Hey all of you~
Thanks for the great ideas(tips seems like a poor word in this instance, especially if we incorporate the male dancers)- listen, I guess anything with "strippers" is tacky, but it did get your attention, right? And we all have opinions, so I'm thanking you all again for the help. As long as my husband enjoys himself, that's what counts.. I'm getting too old to retrain a new model!!(Impatient Aries, but trying). J.:)

Topper-i'm with you on this one!

Good grief.. I didn't mean to excite the moral police in cyberville. After all, a word is just a word. Be kind.