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Makkks Jan 23rd, 2023 03:18 PM

3 weeks in West coast (December'23)
 
Hi All, Thanks everyone for amazing work here on the forum.I am planning my trip from Melbourne to west coast this December( haven't booked tickets or accomodation yet)​​​​​​​. I need some help with my itinerary as it's my first time visit US.​​​​​​​after reading through the fourm and suggestions I understand it's not worth driving from SF to Vegas via Yosemite due to tough winter conditions at that time specially cuz I will be with 6 and 2 years old kids.so I m planning to miss Yosemite completely ​​​​​​​my current itinerary is:​​​​​​​6/12 - Melb to SF​​​​​​​6/12- 11/12 : travel around SF12/12-13/12- driving SF to LA stopping for a night somewhere (suggestions??)14/12-19/12 : visit LA20/12: drive to Vegas20/12- 23/12: stay in vegas24/12- 26/12: drive and stay at Grand canyon27/12-28/12 return to Vegas 29/12: fly from Vegas to hawaii29/12-2/01- stay in hawaii3/01- fly hawaii to SF or if tickets are not expensive fly directly to melbourne04/01- fly SF to melb
this is just rough itinerary I have made and would love to have comments and suggestions if it looks okay or I need to remove/add destinations in it.
any accomodation suggestion for the above destinations also welcome.

thanks for your help

cheers
​​​​​​​Mak

suze Jan 23rd, 2023 07:59 PM

Welcome to the forums!

Between SF and LA you could overnight in: Santa Cruz, Carmel, Santa Barbara?

Where are you going in Hawaii? Which island?

Makkks Jan 23rd, 2023 08:45 PM


Originally Posted by suze (Post 17431842)
Welcome to the forums! Between SF and LA you could overnight in: Santa Cruz, Carmel, Santa Barbara? Where are you going in Hawaii? Which island?

Oahu and maui cuz I read best place for new years is oahu

Gretchen Jan 24th, 2023 04:50 AM

It's a glitzy trip for sure. Urban.

tomfuller Jan 24th, 2023 08:04 AM

You do not need a rental car in San Francisco. Be aware of the car seat laws for your young children when you do rent a car. For travel between San Francisco and Los Angeles, I like the Amtrak Coast Starlight from Emeryville to Santa Barbara. The train arrives in Santa Barbara about 6PM PT. You could fly to Las Vegas from Santa Barbara and skip Los Angeles. Rent a car in Las Vegas for your trip to the Grand Canyon (south rim). In late December there might be snow at the Grand Canyon which might keep you from getting there. If that happens, try to visit the town of Sedona. Flagstaff also has the Lowell Observatory which would be interesting for all ages.

Gardyloo Jan 24th, 2023 08:39 AM

No criticism intended, but some paragraph breaks would help avoid confusion over which nights you plan to be in which places.

I think traveling with small children makes this trip quite a bit more challenging than it would otherwise. A few things...

The Grand Canyon south rim is at 7000 feet (2159m) elevation and icy roads in late December, on top of short daylight hours, can make for a treacherous ride.

There are a number of things to see and places to visit between San Francisco and LA, that might be enjoyable for your kids as well as you. Google the following to start:

- Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park
- Monterey Bay Aquarium
- Pacific Grove Monarch Butterfly Sanctuary
- Point Lobos State Natural Reserve
- Piedras Blancas elephant seal colony
- Hearst Castle, San Simeon

Think about changing your schedule to swap Joshua Tree National Park for the Grand Canyon. There are lots of accommodation options in Palm Springs (very nearby) and in December you and the kids might get a kick out of the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway, a gondola that goes from the desert floor up to (almost) the rop of Mt. San Jacinto, where in December there's usually snow for the kids to play in (not something all that common in Oz.)


suze Jan 26th, 2023 06:33 PM

So 6 days in Hawaii, and you are doing both Oahu and Maui?

janisj Jan 26th, 2023 07:57 PM

Welcome to fodors. I had a hard time following (between the run on paragraph and using day/month format my head was spinning a bit ;) ) So I reformatted - for my own benefit.

This is what you are planning:

6 Dec fly Melbourne to SF
6 - 11 Dec tour around SF
12 - 13 Dec drive SF to LA stopping for a night somewhere
14 - 19 Dec tour around LA
20 - 23 Dec Las Vegas
24 - 26 Dec: Grand Canyon
27 - 28 Dec Las Vegas
29 Dec fly from Vegas to Hawaii
30 Dec - 2 Jan Hawaii
3 Jan fly from Hawaii back to SF (or if tickets are not expensive fly directly from Hawaii to Melbourne)
4 Jan fly SF to Melb


The main problems I see 1) this is not really a child/toddler-friendly itinerary. Gardyloo's suggestions for family sites/activities are great but you'd need several more days to fit them in on the dive south. 2) that is a very expensive time of year in Las Vegas, and 3) Four days is not enough time for two islands

Since you plan on being at the Grand Canyon Christmas Eve/Christmas Day/Boxing Day so you will want to book far ahead. And you may need a Plan B if there are winter storms, especially along the California coast.

suze Jan 27th, 2023 09:57 AM

Oh dear, only 4 days for Hawaii??? And 2 islands? That doesn't work really. That's a long way to go and will not be inexpensive for such a short time! Plus by changing islands means you basically have a single day each for Oahu and Maui. I'd rethink that part :-) aloha...

MikeS Jan 27th, 2023 11:14 AM

I assume you really want to see the Grand Canyon. We just got 60" of snow in Flagstaff for this January but this is unusual placing this January as #3 in snowfall for the month since records were kept. You might not see any snow. When the canyon gets snow the road from the Grand Canyon Village to Desert Watchtower is usually closed for one or two days. Same for Hermits Rest. This is because the snow plows are kept at Grand Canyon Village so that is the first area to have the roads plowed. Plus the Grand Canyon with snow is something special.

There are a number of viewpoints near Grand Canyon Village so even it the road to Hermits Rest or Desert Watchtower is closed you should get a wonderful experience.

MichelleY Jan 27th, 2023 11:25 AM


Originally Posted by Makkks (Post 17431792)
Hi All, Thanks everyone for amazing work here on the forum.I am planning my trip from Melbourne to west coast this December( haven't booked tickets or accomodation yet). I need some help with my itinerary as it's my first time visit US.​​​​​​​after reading through the fourm and suggestions I understand it's not worth driving from SF to Vegas via Yosemite due to tough winter conditions at that time specially

Not exactly true. One can still visit Yosemite in December and go on to LV, but one would be using a different, longer route.

Your trip seems very hectic, especially with such young children. LV isn’t really child friendly. That time of the year will be much too cold for pool use in LV plus many places close pools that time of year for maintenance.

Perhaps concentrate on California, SF, Monterey, LA and Southern California? Or LV, CG and So Cal? I’d only go to Hawaii as a stop over on the way home.

bluegrass1 Jan 28th, 2023 08:40 AM

This itinerary, with a 6 year old and 2 year old in tow, feels like a nightmare.

I'm counting at least 9 separate overnight locations.
You should calculate the amount of time spent in airports/flying/ubering/driving/packing & unpacking.
A great deal of your time will be spent on nothing more than travelling to and getting settled into all these different locations.

Why dedicate so much time to these three large crime-ridden, drug infested cities?
I would skip one or more (or all) of these cities, in favor of spending more time in places like Hawaii, Yosemite, Grand Canyon and others mentioned above.

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 05:28 PM


Originally Posted by tomfuller (Post 17431960)
You do not need a rental car in San Francisco. Be aware of the car seat laws for your young children when you do rent a car. For travel between San Francisco and Los Angeles, I like the Amtrak Coast Starlight from Emeryville to Santa Barbara. The train arrives in Santa Barbara about 6PM PT. You could fly to Las Vegas from Santa Barbara and skip Los Angeles. Rent a car in Las Vegas for your trip to the Grand Canyon (south rim). In late December there might be snow at the Grand Canyon which might keep you from getting there. If that happens, try to visit the town of Sedona. Flagstaff also has the Lowell Observatory which would be interesting for all ages.

Thanks for suggestion Tom,
I wanted to take kids to disneyland and universal studio so LA is on the chart. Reason I was planning was to stop and enjoy the little towns on the way (loads of threads talk about how beautiful the drive is). If it snows hard in december and GC in not accessible then I need to look at other plan after vegas like you suggested

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 05:32 PM

[QUOTE=Gardyloo;17431982]No criticism intended, but some paragraph breaks would help avoid confusion over which nights you plan to be in which places.

I think traveling with small children makes this trip quite a bit more challenging than it would otherwise. A few things...

The Grand Canyon south rim is at 7000 feet (2159m) elevation and icy roads in late December, on top of short daylight hours, can make for a treacherous ride.

There are a number of things to see and places to visit between San Francisco and LA, that might be enjoyable for your kids as well as you. Google the following to start:

- Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park
- Monterey Bay Aquarium
- Pacific Grove Monarch Butterfly Sanctuary
- Point Lobos State Natural Reserve
- Piedras Blancas elephant seal colony
- Hearst Castle, San Simeon

Think about changing your schedule to swap Joshua Tree National Park for the Grand Canyon. There are lots of accommodation options in Palm Springs (very nearby) and in December you and the kids might get a kick out of the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway, a gondola that goes from the desert floor up to (almost) the rop of Mt. San Jacinto, where in December there's usually snow for the kids to play in (not something all that common in Oz.)


Hi Mate,
Thanks heaps for your suggestion.
I used my phone to post the thread and it looked alright on phone but not on the thread somehow :lol:
Thanks for those solid options for stopover on the way to LA :tu:
I mite have to skip GC completely unless I can do like helicopter ride in december over GC from Vegas and visit Joshua Tree national park instead. Kids are making it hard to plan this itinerary haha.
I also need to pack my bag with snow gear to rugg up the kids.

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 05:40 PM


Originally Posted by suze (Post 17432911)
Oh dear, only 4 days for Hawaii??? And 2 islands? That doesn't work really. That's a long way to go and will not be inexpensive for such a short time! Plus by changing islands means you basically have a single day each for Oahu and Maui. I'd rethink that part :-) aloha...

Woops!!
Yes I have only planned for 4 days and I will be in Hawaii during peak season and celebrate new years there. Would you suggest to stay in Oahu or Maui for 4 days then and which place is better for new year celeb?
I would love to do whale watching with kids and rest up.

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 05:46 PM


Originally Posted by janisj (Post 17432739)
Welcome to fodors. I had a hard time following (between the run on paragraph and using day/month format my head was spinning a bit ;) ) So I reformatted - for my own benefit.

This is what you are planning:

6 Dec fly Melbourne to SF
6 - 11 Dec tour around SF
12 - 13 Dec drive SF to LA stopping for a night somewhere
14 - 19 Dec tour around LA
20 - 23 Dec Las Vegas
24 - 26 Dec: Grand Canyon
27 - 28 Dec Las Vegas
29 Dec fly from Vegas to Hawaii
30 Dec - 2 Jan Hawaii
3 Jan fly from Hawaii back to SF (or if tickets are not expensive fly directly from Hawaii to Melbourne)
4 Jan fly SF to Melb


The main problems I see 1) this is not really a child/toddler-friendly itinerary. Gardyloo's suggestions for family sites/activities are great but you'd need several more days to fit them in on the dive south. 2) that is a very expensive time of year in Las Vegas, and 3) Four days is not enough time for two islands

Since you plan on being at the Grand Canyon Christmas Eve/Christmas Day/Boxing Day so you will want to book far ahead. And you may need a Plan B if there are winter storms, especially along the California coast.


Thanks for sorting the paragraph mate.
I haven't travelled with 2 kids yet and yes it will be not easy I reckon.
Any suggestion on how my itinerary should be with kids, what to skip or add?
I will stay in 1 island either Oahu or Maui for 4 days
I will book accommodation as soon as I finalize my itinerary so it doesnt cost me a bomb to stay in vegas and Hawaii.

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 05:49 PM


Originally Posted by MikeS (Post 17432931)
I assume you really want to see the Grand Canyon. We just got 60" of snow in Flagstaff for this January but this is unusual placing this January as #3 in snowfall for the month since records were kept. You might not see any snow. When the canyon gets snow the road from the Grand Canyon Village to Desert Watchtower is usually closed for one or two days. Same for Hermits Rest. This is because the snow plows are kept at Grand Canyon Village so that is the first area to have the roads plowed. Plus the Grand Canyon with snow is something special.

There are a number of viewpoints near Grand Canyon Village so even it the road to Hermits Rest or Desert Watchtower is closed you should get a wonderful experience.

Thanks for your input mate.
I reckon I will go with what Gardyloo suggested and skip GC completely and head to Joshua park instead.
I heard accommodation is a bit of problem otherwise I was planning not to book accommodation and do as the weather permits.

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 09:01 PM

Thanks Sameer,
I have included the places you have mentioned.
Any recommendation on place to stay in these places?
Where to book hire car, accommodation?

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 09:02 PM

need 10 posts to post a image?
okay here is my 10th post.

Makkks Jan 29th, 2023 09:03 PM

https://cimg1.ibsrv.net/gimg/www.fod...d1899c77f7.jpg
How does this look? too hectic?

janisj Jan 29th, 2023 10:16 PM

Just 2 quick comments . . . days 3 and 4 is best combined on the same day. They are all in essentially the same part of town. For example the boats to Alcatraz leave from Pier 33 which is about a 5 minute walk from Pier 39.

Day 6 is a non-starter :( You mention taking he 'scenic route' for the drive. That would be Highway 1 + 101 which (assuming Hwy 1 is open) is a 7 + hour drive without a single stop. You definitely wouldn't have time for any of those great kid-friendly sites along the way.

bluegrass1 Jan 30th, 2023 04:13 AM

How many other adults are you travelling with?
You've definitely planned out an epic bachelor-style vacation, though it translates quite poorly with two very young kids.

What will the kids be doing, and who will be watching them, during the multiple zipline tours?
Who will carry the kids, or push them in strollers, during the multiple back-to-back days of near nonstop walking/standing?

You will be at Disney/Universal during the largest crowds of the year (likely the last several years) = horrible experience.
You plan lots of "walking around" in SF/LA/LV, which have been overrun by crime and drugs in recent years.

tomfuller Jan 30th, 2023 07:21 AM

Where is your first zipline experience? I have seen the one in Las Vegas in action at the Fremont Street Experience in the older section of Las Vegas (north of the "strip"). If you want to be close to the zipline and the overhead light show of Fremont Street, check out the Golden Nugget. They have the worlds largest gold nugget on public display. They also have a swimming pool with a slide that goes through the shark tank.
The Golden Nugget also has a great all you can eat buffet upstairs. You can lead children through the casino as long as they don't touch any of the gaming machines.
A favorite of my son when he took the grand kids to LV was Circus Circus.
While in Santa Barbara, try to visit the great zoo. North of Joshua Tree NP, you can see lots of Joshua trees and some sand dunes in the Mojave National Preserve. Buffalo Bills casino in Primm NV (exit 1) has a big roller coaster. Bonnie & Clyde's shot up car is also in Primm.

AustinTraveler Jan 30th, 2023 09:42 AM

Santa Barbara with kids is great, especially its wonderful zoo. But, going from Monterey to Santa Barbara in one day will be a nightmare. Instead, consider stopping in Morro Bay or Pismo Beach. Take Vegas out of the mix completely and spend more quality time in kid-friendly areas. Santa Cruz and Monterey are great places to see ocean life, big redwood trees, and nature. Much better than Las Vegas.

Jean Jan 30th, 2023 11:02 AM

Sooo much driving with little kids. I mean this in the nicest way, but I feel sorry for them.

I would spend at least two days driving San Francisco to L.A. Your kids would enjoy the Monterey Aquarium and viewing the elephant seals at Piedras Blancas (near San Simeon). Cross your fingers that weather-caused rockslides/landslides don't close Hwy. 1 and make this drive impossible. (The drive wouldn't be possible today because a section is closed due to slides that occurred earlier this month.)

I live in L.A. and never understand the appeal of walking around in Hollywood. Disneyland and Universal, I get. Hollywood, no. It's just not an appealing area of L.A., and the homeless crisis makes it even worse. Your 6 y.o. would likely enjoy the La Brea Tar Pits a whole lot more. A whole lot.

If you keep all of these destinations (which I also don't recommend), you should re-order things. Universal Studios > L.A.> Disneyland > Palm Springs > Joshua Tree > Las Vegas. Stay 2 nights near Disneyland so that you have a full day to visit the park (or at least as long as the kids can handle). Driving back and forth between L.A. to Disneyland would eat time and patience,

Check the overall cost of the one-way car rental (pick-up S.F., drop-off L.V.). Pre-Covid, there were some companies that didn't add a one-way surcharge, but car rental terms and rates may have changed.

Makkks Jan 30th, 2023 02:24 PM


Originally Posted by bluegrass1 (Post 17433686)
How many other adults are you travelling with?
You've definitely planned out an epic bachelor-style vacation, though it translates quite poorly with two very young kids.

What will the kids be doing, and who will be watching them, during the multiple zipline tours?
Who will carry the kids, or push them in strollers, during the multiple back-to-back days of near nonstop walking/standing?

You will be at Disney/Universal during the largest crowds of the year (likely the last several years) = horrible experience.
You plan lots of "walking around" in SF/LA/LV, which have been overrun by crime and drugs in recent years.

Hahaha yea, I have not travelled with 2 kids before and thats why I started this thread to get your experience and suggestions before I book anything.
We are total 4 adults, 5 year old, 6 year old and 2 year old.

I will take stroller for little one and 6 year old can walk with us. I am not going to be walking around 10 hours a day but take it easy and take cabs to different places.
Disneyland and Universal will be hectic thats why I have a day after to rest up or may be I will keep a day in between before I go to another destination.

When you say overrun with crime and drugs, is it not safe to walk around during day time? I wont be going out in the night much anyways. Any suggestion how to avoid any crime or such areas? bluegrass

Makkks Jan 30th, 2023 02:26 PM


Originally Posted by tomfuller (Post 17433740)
Where is your first zipline experience? I have seen the one in Las Vegas in action at the Fremont Street Experience in the older section of Las Vegas (north of the "strip"). If you want to be close to the zipline and the overhead light show of Fremont Street, check out the Golden Nugget. They have the worlds largest gold nugget on public display. They also have a swimming pool with a slide that goes through the shark tank.
The Golden Nugget also has a great all you can eat buffet upstairs. You can lead children through the casino as long as they don't touch any of the gaming machines.
A favorite of my son when he took the grand kids to LV was Circus Circus.
While in Santa Barbara, try to visit the great zoo. North of Joshua Tree NP, you can see lots of Joshua trees and some sand dunes in the Mojave National Preserve. Buffalo Bills casino in Primm NV (exit 1) has a big roller coaster. Bonnie & Clyde's shot up car is also in Primm.

Hi Tomfuller,
I saw zipline and gandola option in Joshua national park and since we dont get snow during christmas in Melbourne, I thought of heading to national park at that time to enjoy some snow.
Thanks for some solid options to look at.

Makkks Jan 30th, 2023 02:35 PM


Originally Posted by Jean (Post 17433806)
Sooo much driving with little kids. I mean this in the nicest way, but I feel sorry for them.

I would spend at least two days driving San Francisco to L.A. Your kids would enjoy the Monterey Aquarium and viewing the elephant seals at Piedras Blancas (near San Simeon). Cross your fingers that weather-caused rockslides/landslides don't close Hwy. 1 and make this drive impossible. (The drive wouldn't be possible today because a section is closed due to slides that occurred earlier this month.)

I live in L.A. and never understand the appeal of walking around in Hollywood. Disneyland and Universal, I get. Hollywood, no. It's just not an appealing area of L.A., and the homeless crisis makes it even worse. Your 6 y.o. would likely enjoy the La Brea Tar Pits a whole lot more. A whole lot.

If you keep all of these destinations (which I also don't recommend), you should re-order things. Universal Studios > L.A.> Disneyland > Palm Springs > Joshua Tree > Las Vegas. Stay 2 nights near Disneyland so that you have a full day to visit the park (or at least as long as the kids can handle). Driving back and forth between L.A. to Disneyland would eat time and patience,

Check the overall cost of the one-way car rental (pick-up S.F., drop-off L.V.). Pre-Covid, there were some companies that didn't add a one-way surcharge, but car rental terms and rates may have changed.


Thats a great option Jean, I mite break the SF to LA in 2 breaks and visit more places.
Disneyland is only an hour away from LA which isnt a lot and we are used to driving an hour to get anywhere.
The trip is not only for kids but us too and since its our first time, I would love to walk around hollywood.
I will look into reordering things as you suggested, could you suggest a good location to stay where there is no crime and child friendly?

So I will rent a car from SF to LA, should i keep the car to visit around LA (universal/disneyland) or leave the car?
Is it not worth having own car to go to Joshua and Vegas and drop the car in vegas?
I dont know how it works out there but here we can pick up and drop off any city.

Barbara Jan 30th, 2023 04:29 PM

This is really not a child-friendly trip. If I were you (!), I would have a day less in SF, skip Universal which is not a small-kid place, spend no more than two nights in Las Vegas, if you really have to go, skip Palm Springs, Joshua Tree NP. Do visit the Monterey Aquarium which the kids will love, especially the 6-yr-old. Do drive down to San Diego where you can take the kids to Legoland in Carlsbad and the San Diego Zoo. Spend more days in Hawaii. I'm not sure about whale watching with such young kids.

I understand that you want adult things as it's your first trip, but if the kids are miserable, you will be too.

Be prepared for all kinds of weather. This year is much colder and wetter than average. Who knows what it will be like next year!

Jean Jan 30th, 2023 07:23 PM

Makkks, I live in L.A. Depending on where and when you start your drive to Disneyland, esp. if it's a weekday, it could easily take 90 minutes. It could take longer than 90 minutes if there is a traffic "event" (or two) along the way or if it's raining. If this drive ends up happening on Friday, Dec. 22nd, there will be heavier traffic as people leave town for the holidays. You would be able to use the high occupancy vehicle (HOV) lane (farthest left), but this will still be a long, patience-testing slog.

You need the car in L.A. and Anaheim. I like Barbara's suggestion of going south after Disneyland rather than east to P.S., J.T. and L.V. Lots to see/do.

If your primary interest in L.A. is Universal, you might want to stay nearby in order to get an early start in the morning. Universal is on the San Fernando Valley side of the Santa Monica Mountains, not the city side. But if you identify other things you want to do in L.A., another area could be more central. Driving across the city (say, from Universal to the Santa Monica Pier, not that I'm recommending S.M.) could easily take an hour on a mid-week day.

As I said, you should check the current car rental terms and rates of a few companies. Lots of things changed during Covid, and I don't know if everything is back to the before-times. Also, unless you bring them from home, you need to check the rental cost of the two child seats you'll need (by law in California). The younger one will have to face the rear unless he/she exceeds 39 pounds/39 inches (18kg./100 cm.), and some kids don't like being unable to see or interact with the adults. Neither child can sit in the front passenger seat.

sameer_kr Jan 31st, 2023 03:14 AM


Originally Posted by Makkks (Post 17433636)
Thanks Sameer,
I have included the places you have mentioned.
Any recommendation on place to stay in these places?
Where to book hire car, accommodation?

The West Coast of the United States offers a wide range of options for car rental and accommodations. Here are some popular websites that you can use to rent a car and book accommodation:

car rental:
  • Hertz
  • Avis
  • Enterprise
  • Budget Car Rental
Accommodation:
  • Booking com
  • Airbnb
  • Hotels com
  • Expedia
These websites offer a variety of options for car rental and accommodations ranging from budget to luxury in various locations along the West Coast. You can compare prices, read reviews from previous customers, and book online, making it easy to find the right car and accommodation for your journey.

bluegrass1 Jan 31st, 2023 04:12 AM


Originally Posted by Makkks (Post 17433871)
Hahaha yea, I have not travelled with 2 kids before and thats why I started this thread to get your experience and suggestions before I book anything.
We are total 4 adults, 5 year old, 6 year old and 2 year old.
I will take stroller for little one and 6 year old can walk with us. I am not going to be walking around 10 hours a day but take it easy and take cabs to different places.
Disneyland and Universal will be hectic thats why I have a day after to rest up or may be I will keep a day in between before I go to another destination.
When you say overrun with crime and drugs, is it not safe to walk around during day time? I wont be going out in the night much anyways. Any suggestion how to avoid any crime or such areas?

I'm not trying to burst your bubble, but I would carefully consider all the feedback you've received, and completely rework your itinerary.
I don't see this trip being enjoyable for anyone, adults or kids. With so many separate stops, the amount of time you'll spend getting to/from airports, getting to/from rental car agencies, sitting in airports, flying, checking in/out of hotels, driving from destination to destination, finding parking, ect is staggering.

And doing this all with THREE kids age 2-6?
You mention taking cabs, but how will that work transporting 4 adults and 3 kids that need to be in carseats?
And you think the 5 year old and 6 year old have enough stamina to spend two full straight days walking/standing in crowds at amusement parks, then walking around Hollywood?

The way to avoid the crime/drugs/homelessness in these cities is to avoid them. I personally would not vacation in any of these cities with my family at this time. Not trying to fear monger, I just think you should know what the realities are in these cities.

Gretchen Jan 31st, 2023 05:58 AM

The car you will need to rent is a big van. Someone mentioned one way rental. I have read here that one way rentals may be available for renters outside the US so that may work for you.
Yes, you want this to be your trip also but things done for and with the kids becomes a great time for the adults too. You are traveling at a peak time. California traffic is something to be considered--in all the places you will be--as has been pointed out by people who experience it daily.
You talk about "walking around". You REALLY want to research what you want to see when you are walking around or it will be a valuable vacation day wasted. La Brea Tar Pits is mentioned. Don't miss. Art museums. Children's museums?



MichelleY Jan 31st, 2023 06:56 AM

I agree with Barbara and Jean. SanDiego is a great option particularly with kids.

I would spend a night or 2 near Disneyland to take full advantage of it.

Once one has kids, vacations become about them. Happy kids, happy parents.

mlgb Jan 31st, 2023 07:10 AM

There is far too much to unpack here including some revisions to your itinerary which I wouldn't make such as Palm Springs/Joshua Tree instead of the Grand Canyon for example. If there is snow, you do not have to pay an arm and a leg for snowplay and not everyone enjoys the vertigo-inducing tram ride (Tram tickets are $30 adult, $18 child). I would suggest following the website momsla.com for local kid stuff. For example
https://momsla.com/best-places-for-s...r-los-angeles/

For Disneyland I do agree with relocating to stay near the theme parks. Lots of family-friendly hotels within a short walk to the parks (handy for a mid day nap). And that you may find San Diego a better place to spend time, versus Northern California, especially in December. The weather often is significantly different south of Point Conception. There is also LEGOLAND in Carlsbad (north County).

As mentioned by others you may not be able to drive Hwy 1 Big Sur although December is USUALLY drier than January-February.

I think you will be shocked at the quantity of homeless encampments and panhandlers "living rough" in some places including the Walk of Fame in Hollywood.

suze Jan 31st, 2023 09:28 AM

I'm still trying to wrap my brain around going to Hawaii for only 4 days! But spending so much times in other way less interesting places.

Also there is so much car time and miles on this trip. I know thinking back to my own family vacations (I grew up in California) us kids would have been absolutely miserable. I hate to even bring this up, but do you know if any of the kids get car-sick?!?

Barbara Jan 31st, 2023 09:41 AM

Did you have any particular type of vehicle in mind to rent? Don't forget that you'll have quite a bit of luggage as well as people and car seats. Car seats, even booster seats, significantly reduce the amount of seating space.

Makkks Jan 31st, 2023 02:24 PM


Originally Posted by Barbara (Post 17433895)
This is really not a child-friendly trip. If I were you (!), I would have a day less in SF, skip Universal which is not a small-kid place, spend no more than two nights in Las Vegas, if you really have to go, skip Palm Springs, Joshua Tree NP. Do visit the Monterey Aquarium which the kids will love, especially the 6-yr-old. Do drive down to San Diego where you can take the kids to Legoland in Carlsbad and the San Diego Zoo. Spend more days in Hawaii. I'm not sure about whale watching with such young kids.

I understand that you want adult things as it's your first trip, but if the kids are miserable, you will be too.

Be prepared for all kinds of weather. This year is much colder and wetter than average. Who knows what it will be like next year!

Duly noted Barbara, I will plan accordingly. Mite skip vegas this time and head to san diego instead

Makkks Jan 31st, 2023 02:27 PM


Originally Posted by Jean (Post 17433926)
Makkks, I live in L.A. Depending on where and when you start your drive to Disneyland, esp. if it's a weekday, it could easily take 90 minutes. It could take longer than 90 minutes if there is a traffic "event" (or two) along the way or if it's raining. If this drive ends up happening on Friday, Dec. 22nd, there will be heavier traffic as people leave town for the holidays. You would be able to use the high occupancy vehicle (HOV) lane (farthest left), but this will still be a long, patience-testing slog.

You need the car in L.A. and Anaheim. I like Barbara's suggestion of going south after Disneyland rather than east to P.S., J.T. and L.V. Lots to see/do.

If your primary interest in L.A. is Universal, you might want to stay nearby in order to get an early start in the morning. Universal is on the San Fernando Valley side of the Santa Monica Mountains, not the city side. But if you identify other things you want to do in L.A., another area could be more central. Driving across the city (say, from Universal to the Santa Monica Pier, not that I'm recommending S.M.) could easily take an hour on a mid-week day.

As I said, you should check the current car rental terms and rates of a few companies. Lots of things changed during Covid, and I don't know if everything is back to the before-times. Also, unless you bring them from home, you need to check the rental cost of the two child seats you'll need (by law in California). The younger one will have to face the rear unless he/she exceeds 39 pounds/39 inches (18kg./100 cm.), and some kids don't like being unable to see or interact with the adults. Neither child can sit in the front passenger seat.


Thanks for the information Jean, very handy.
I will rent a car after I am done with SF and keep it till I fly to Hawaii.
I have been reading about car rentals and yes child seats are required same as in Melbourne.

Makkks Jan 31st, 2023 02:28 PM


Originally Posted by sameer_kr (Post 17433979)
The West Coast of the United States offers a wide range of options for car rental and accommodations. Here are some popular websites that you can use to rent a car and book accommodation:

car rental:
  • Hertz
  • Avis
  • Enterprise
  • Budget Car Rental
Accommodation:
  • Booking com
  • Airbnb
  • Hotels com
  • Expedia
These websites offer a variety of options for car rental and accommodations ranging from budget to luxury in various locations along the West Coast. You can compare prices, read reviews from previous customers, and book online, making it easy to find the right car and accommodation for your journey.


perfect mate, I do get company discount with hertz and avis so mite try them.
Any specific location in SF and LA where there are no crimes and all? Also close to attractions?


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