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starrs Sep 3rd, 2019 10:13 AM

Hotel preference? "Just a place to sleep" or "like to stay in a nice place"?
 
Or other variations in between?

What's most important to you? Does location matter? Does budget reign? Whether "traveling" or on "vacation", what's the most important to you and does it vary?

curiousgeo Sep 3rd, 2019 10:20 AM

Just a place to sleep in my younger days. Now comfort and location matter much more. I’ve turned into my parents haha.

ibobi Sep 3rd, 2019 10:25 AM

  1. Location
  2. Price
  3. See 1&2 above.
I want to be walking distance to what I want to see/do in the area. If it's too expensive to be that close, I go somewhere else.

Couldn't care less how big or small or luxurious the property or room are. As long as it meets a minimum standard of safety and cleanliness, I'm fine with it. Never spend much time in the room anyway.

marvelousmouse Sep 3rd, 2019 10:27 AM

Location, definitely, is number 1.

I guess the rest is sort of a sliding scale. I try to get the best bang for my buck. I’ll spend a little extra to stay somewhere interesting. I love unique places. But if I’m staying somewhere luxurious, which is rare, it’s because of a specific amenity and I can’t see that changing. Hotels really aren’t where I want to spend my money.

My parents are polar opposites. Dad likes comfort but he always lets mom trip plan. Mom is a budget fiend. I know she sees it as just a place to sleep but I’ve stayed at some seriously awful places because of her. That’s the first thing I ask now when she asks if I’d like to go somewhere.

suze Sep 3rd, 2019 11:07 AM

Neither one.

It is definitely not just a place to sleep. I like to feel at home and comfortable. But I don't need a "nice place" by most people's standards.

Location and budget both matter to me. I don't differentiate between "vacation" and "traveling".

hetismij2 Sep 3rd, 2019 11:09 AM

A place to sleep. As long as it is clean and not ridiculously expensive then it will do.

tom42 Sep 3rd, 2019 11:11 AM

If it's a beach trip, I definitely want it to be four stars or higher. Has to be right on the ocean and should be walking distance or a reasonable cab ride to restaurants, etc. If it's a city trip, still want it to be nice but more concerned about location. And location for me means I can walk out of my hotel and have restaurants and shops within walking distance.

danon Sep 3rd, 2019 11:12 AM

The best hotel we can afford ...not a place to just sleep, but also relax, have a drink etc

maitaitom Sep 3rd, 2019 11:12 AM

Location
Price
Walk-In Shower ... I'm not getting any younger, so I try to stay away from the Fall of Death Showers.

((H))

gardendiva Sep 3rd, 2019 11:15 AM

Location and price are my main criteria. I rarely spend much time in a hotel room but I do want to feel safe and it has to be clean. Depending on where I am going, I may splurge for a unique hotel. Walking distance to attractions may be a concern if there is not easy transportation.

suze Sep 3rd, 2019 11:23 AM

Hmmm... reading others I guess budget is my number one. If I needed a 4/5-star beach-front hotel I would not be able to afford to go anywhere.

kureiff Sep 3rd, 2019 11:28 AM

It really depends on the trip. Location is important.

What I mostly don't like is feeling like I'm not getting good value for the money I'm spending. Hotels get expensive around here in the summer, and I hate spending $200 or more a night for a not very nice Days Inn kind of place. If I'm staying at a Days Inn then I want to pay Days Inn prices and not the price that I would pay for a nicer hotel.

There's a place in Montana that is always booked, and the restaurant is great, and they have a range of accommodations. You can stay in the newer section of the motel for $200 a night, but the sheets suck and the rooms are always a little dirty. Or you can stay in the old section of the motel for $50 with a shared bathroom. I'd rather spend the $50 for crappy accommodations than spend the $200 for accommodations that are still pretty crappy.

If we're going to a city for two or three days, we usually stay in a Kimpton or something similar. If we're staying longer than three nights, I prefer an apartment.

Beach vacations: always a condo.

Florida1 Sep 3rd, 2019 11:33 AM

Clean and safe are not negotiable. After those criteria are filled, in most places, I mainly consider location and price. There are some exceptions, where we will go over budget, like getting overwater bungalows in Tahiti, or the chateau we stayed at in the Loire Valley.

I love staying in hotels. Any kind. The rooms are always tidy (because I don’t have too much stuff with me) and someone else cleans for me!

tom42 Sep 3rd, 2019 11:42 AM


Originally Posted by danon (Post 16980219)
The best hotel we can afford ...not a place to just sleep, but also relax, have a drink etc

Yes. This is exactly how I feel. I do spend a considerable amount of time in my hotel room - beyond sleeping in it, I relax in the morning with a cup of coffee, take a shower and in the afternoon, I will use it to take a nap and to have a drink before dinner. I want it to feel very comfortable.

Value is important though too. I won't go to a mediocre hotel that is very pricey because it's high season. If that's all that is available, I won't go to that place at that time.

gruezi Sep 3rd, 2019 11:51 AM

I like it to have a certain je ne sais quoi. But, I’ll settle for safe, clean and good location.

xcountry Sep 3rd, 2019 11:53 AM


Originally Posted by tom42 (Post 16980247)
I do spend a considerable amount of time in my hotel room - beyond sleeping in it, I relax in the morning with a cup of coffee, take a shower and in the afternoon, I will use it to take a nap and to have a drink before dinner..

Maybe a snooze just after dinner too?

starrs Sep 3rd, 2019 11:54 AM


Originally Posted by danon (Post 16980219)
The best hotel we can afford ...not a place to just sleep, but also relax, have a drink etc

I feel the same.

On the way to somewhere, I'll settle for nice basic but clean, along the lines of Hampton Inns, but I hate Fairfield Inns. When I'm there, I want something nice.

It's been a very long time since I've stayed at a Days Inn. Even the Days don't stay there (sold it long ago). I've never stayed in a Motel 6 or Red Roof Inn. I stay at LaQuintas when traveling with pets.

tom42 Sep 3rd, 2019 11:55 AM


Originally Posted by xcountry (Post 16980256)


Maybe a snooze just after dinner too?

If I was going to take a snooze after dinner, it would be called good night. We tend to eat around 8:00 on vacation.

suze Sep 3rd, 2019 11:56 AM

I feel the same. I get the best hotel I can afford. But that does not cover a 4 or 5 star one.

jubilada Sep 3rd, 2019 11:57 AM

I rarely choose hotels over apartments or houses, so if I do it’s usually because I’m there for a night or two. I require a comfortable bed. I prefer a comfortable chair in the room, and a pool, whether inside or outside depends on what is seasonally appropriate.

goddesstogo Sep 3rd, 2019 12:11 PM


Originally Posted by danon (Post 16980219)
The best hotel we can afford ...not a place to just sleep, but also relax, have a drink etc

This for me too. I like a good bargain at a great hotel. I don't need a gym or pool but in the good weather a rooftop bar is nice. For me, the hotel is part of the enjoyment of the trip. Of course, it has to be in a good location.
It's like this:
For a few days' trip in another city (e.g. recent trip to NY) I want a good hotel in a good location.
For an overnight on the way to somewhere, I want a nice, clean, well-priced hotel on the highway. For example, on driving trips we often stay in Drury Inns.
For a long-term vacation in one place, either a rental or a VERY well-priced hotel with some kitchen amenities.
But yes, for me a hotel isn't just a place to sleep.

Macross Sep 3rd, 2019 12:14 PM

Location
LaQuinta if we have pets with us
I will go with Ibis many times or Premier Inn since I know they are less expensive but fine for sleeping.
Munich is the next hotel stay and that was all about location and good reviews.

I love unique apartments and houses. I have found some great places over the years and makes staying in a hotel second best now.

kureiff Sep 3rd, 2019 12:16 PM


Originally Posted by starrs (Post 16980257)
I've never stayed in a Motel 6 or Red Roof Inn.

I procrastinated booking a hotel for a friend's wedding and we ended up staying at Motel 6. It was not very nice!

Off-topic: an acquaintance got caught soliciting a prostitute at the local Motel 6 a couple weeks ago. Apparently, a hotel employee was tipped off to the suspicious activity due to a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the room door. Motel 6 doesn't allow Do Not Disturb signs due to concerns for human trafficking. I didn't know that until this story broke.


tom42 Sep 3rd, 2019 12:19 PM


Originally Posted by kureiff (Post 16980278)
I procrastinated booking a hotel for a friend's wedding and we ended up staying at Motel 6. It was not very nice!

Off-topic: an acquaintance got caught soliciting a prostitute at the local Motel 6 a couple weeks ago. Apparently, a hotel employee was tipped off to the suspicious activity due to a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the room door. Motel 6 doesn't allow Do Not Disturb signs due to concerns for human trafficking. I didn't know that until this story broke.

If they don't allow Do Not Disturb signs where did he get it from? Btw - was this the wedding from last weekend? If so, you looked great! : )

starrs Sep 3rd, 2019 12:20 PM


Originally Posted by goddesstogo (Post 16980275)
For me, the hotel is part of the enjoyment of the trip. Of course, it has to be in a good location.

Me too.

kureiff Sep 3rd, 2019 12:21 PM


Originally Posted by tom42 (Post 16980279)
If they don't allow Do Not Disturb signs where did he get it from? Btw - was this the wedding from last weekend? If so, you looked great! : )

The pimp and prostitute had the Do Not Disturb sign. I just thought that was interesting that Motel 6 doesn't allow them. Who knew?

Nope, we stayed in a camper at my grandmother's house (fancy, huh?). Closest hotel is 25 miles away. And thanks! Big family wedding, and we got to catch up with most of my first cousins. It was fun.

tom42 Sep 3rd, 2019 12:26 PM


Originally Posted by kureiff (Post 16980283)
The pimp and prostitute had the Do Not Disturb sign

that's hysterical.

sludick Sep 3rd, 2019 12:38 PM

Depends whether it's a longer vacation or just a quick trip to see family or some such. Always clean and safe, though.

For the vacation, I do like to find interesting places as well as something more upscale than just those trips, business or personal. For our upcoming vacation, we are staying in a caboose, in a lighthouse, in a cabin, on a riverboat, in two historic upscale hotels, and in an Embassy Suites.

starrs Sep 3rd, 2019 12:51 PM


Originally Posted by sludick (Post 16980294)
. For our upcoming vacation, we are staying in a caboose, in a lighthouse, in a cabin, on a riverboat, in two historic upscale hotels, and in an Embassy Suites.

Those sound great! I'd love to stay in the lighthouse!

sugarmaple Sep 3rd, 2019 12:51 PM

Just a place to stay. The criteria is location and cleanliness followed closely by price.

I look for a 2* in Europe, I'm not interested in amenities or even an elevator. I always, always look for good value for my money.

We used to stay in a budget Paris hotel in a fantastic location, but the cleanliness slipped the last time we were there, so we won’t be going back here.

If it’s Cuba we spring for an ocean front room, and we go to a place that’s low on bells and whistles but it’s clean. We go for the beach, everything else is gravy.









goddesstogo Sep 3rd, 2019 01:06 PM

The kind of lodging I really don't like, though, and will only do as a last resort, is the bed & breakfast. Too much like staying in somebody's home.
I like the anonymity of a hotel.

Dukey1 Sep 3rd, 2019 01:11 PM

Folks often spend fully one third of their day inside lodgings. We usually stay in what seems like a convenient location and in the best hotel we feel we want to afford.

schlegal1 Sep 3rd, 2019 01:12 PM

I mix it up. I love to add a wonderful splurge accommodation for about 2 nights of a trip. The splurge will not be solely for luxury, though--there has to be some other amenity like special location or activity. I won't just book a Ritz to have a luxurious room because I don't care about the actual room or the toiletries or whatever. But a Ritz-level price that offers access to beautiful hiking trails or has monkeys hanging around my window?--sure.

A fancy place we stayed in Belize had a butterfly chrysalis in our room on arrival and the butterfly emerged during our stay. That was cool. But I have also stayed in a $9/night place in Vietnam. And we camp, too.

I like finding cool/silly memorable places, too, in a variety of price ranges. So far we have stayed in a tipi (authentic and Native American owned), a covered wagon, a restored fire tower, a riad, a tent in the Sahara, a retro Airstream, and a "tree house". I have a "cave" saved in AirBNB for possible future stay as well as some other cool little cabins and such. I'd love to stay in an ice hotel, a yurt, a boat, a castle, and any other interesting dwelling anyone wants to allow me to rent.

xcountry Sep 3rd, 2019 01:18 PM

Schlegal we stay here once a winter. Right in front of a frozen lake. You don't have to be a great skier to get there.

Camping and accommodations in Gatineau Park - National Capital Commission

starrs Sep 3rd, 2019 01:19 PM


Originally Posted by goddesstogo (Post 16980313)
The kind of lodging I really don't like, though, and will only do as a last resort, is the bed & breakfast. Too much like staying in somebody's home.
I like the anonymity of a hotel.

I booked one recently in Florida. My usual hotels were booked and I was surprised that a B&B was an option on our corporate booking system. I arrived after a long work day and a drive of a couple of hours, and the owner was impatiently waiting for me and said something about my arriving "late". I looked at her blankly. It honestly didn't occur to me I had to be there at a particular time. My fault. She was lucky I got there 20 minutes before the end of the registration window (2 hours). My work appointment changed for the next day so I had to miss breakfast. She promised to leave out some yogurt for me. She forgot. It was a nice room but no more, unless I am traveling for leisure. But probably not then either. I was a little put off by her irritation at my "late" although not late arrival.

semiramis Sep 3rd, 2019 01:29 PM


Originally Posted by curiousgeo (Post 16980186)
Just a place to sleep in my younger days. Now comfort and location matter much more. I’ve turned into my parents haha.

Alas I am getting the same way...

schlegal1 Sep 3rd, 2019 01:29 PM

xcountry, but are there monkeys outside the yurt? Do they do ok on the skis?

mlgb Sep 3rd, 2019 01:34 PM

I don't have brand favorites and look around. I generally like La Quinta Inn and Suites which I recently used instead of a conference hotel in midtown Albuquerque. I often leave the room too early to take advantage of hotel breakfasts so really coffee, a refrigerator and microwave are more important than the usual awful ones in the typical American hotels and motels (if even included).

I try not to generalize and dismiss hotels just because they are a certain brand. For example, rather than sleeping in my car at a campground in Portal, I stayed at the Motel 6 in Lordsburg that is converted from a Best Western, apparently. They even had all-day espresso shots in the lobby. One of the two Motel 6 locations in Williams used to be a Holiday Inn, with interior corridors. If going to the Grand Canyon and the historic cabins are full, I'll book the first night in Williams.

As far as Day's Inn, there is a great one near the airport in Albuquerque which had a green chili chicken soup offered free during happy hour, and the friendliest desk staff I've run into in the States. There are a lot of chains where the owner/manager makes huge difference in quality. Usually that shows up in the reviews (for which I still find TA useful). They even have an elevator. I'll admit that as I age, an elevator or a ground floor room next to a parking space is also getting more important.

OTOH not unusual that a supposedly nice chain has a bad location or lots of isssues. E.g., I was just at a Hyatt Place in a business park in N. Phoenix that had a sort of nice breakfast, although it didn't start til 7am which is really ridiculous for Phoenix. The room was nice, but neither the hair dryer nor the HBO channel worked. The parking lot was jacked up, the hotel was too close to the Freeway (even earplugs or the noisy a/c unit didn't help). Had a similar experience last year in Chandler (can't remember which hotel it was) but thought, I should have just stayed at the Motel 6 next door.

So I would go back to the Lordsburg Motel 6 and the Abq Day's Inn, but not the lovely Hyatt Place in Phoenix (North).

For the most part, I don't vacation at hotels, and don't need business services, I pack my own shampoo and Kleenex, and look mainly for inroom refrigerator, microwave and coffee. Avoid the hotels that charge extra for everything, too.

I also look for unique places that have something special, like the historic cabins at GC, or Santa Rita Lodge inside Madera Canyon, where I was able to book a room an hour before they were due to close last Thursday.

bilboburgler Sep 3rd, 2019 01:34 PM

I pay £75 a night.

In Rumania I take the penthouse, in Italy I take a room. All the same to me. Clean sheet and shower.

Adelaidean Sep 3rd, 2019 01:38 PM

I spend ages planning my accommodation. Location and price are key. But it is not just a place to sleep. We like a drink on the balcony or comfy chair, if possible.

We use public transport, so when hubby picked this Welcome to Villa Tres Jolie - luxury bed and breakfast on the shores of lake Como Italy it was fabulous, but I’d never have chosen somewhere that was better suited to those travelling by car. He did no research on practicalities, so I had to make it work ;)

Had a great €40 a night single room in Garmisch Partenkirchen last year https://www.alpenkranz.net/en/rooms/ simple, clean, perfect location, bargain. I love that kind of place.

Our splurge type hotel was this, in Wengen Hotel Alpenrose Wengen Switzerland - Welcome at Wengen
which was CHF300 per night with breakfast and dinner, fabulous location, views, meals, shared lounges. That’s pretty extravagant for us. But we have stayed twice now, (and most others there were repeat, older travellers) so I guess reflective of its’ quality and our changing preferences.

I don’t get those rooms with architect styled not opaque (!) glass bathrooms, nowhere to sit or store luggage, no shelf in bathroom for aesthetics. Not staying there. I do look at the photos on reviews.

I agree, goddesstogo, sometimes those bnb’s can feel a bit awkward, but sometimes they’re great. Always read reviews to get other perspectives on that type of accommodation.


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