Will these shoes work for Rome?
 

Ok, so it's Venice, Florence & Rome....and my first trip. I've read thru many "shoe" posts and would like to get an opinion on my proposed shoe choices. Sounds quite silly actually, however I leave next weekend and am tired of shopping. With the advice found here, I've purchased.....

Merrell Jungle Mocs in the brownish shade & also Ecco X-treme Mary Janes in the black/grey. I also have several other pairs of shoes that will probably be returned as these seem the most comfortable. I thought these 2 pairs would offer some flexibility.

Comments?

You must try out you shoe purchases before going. It is really critical, since you know how it works: you try the shoes on in the store, they fit great, you walk for half-hour and they kill your feet. Hence, do the half-hour and lots more ahead of time, break the shoes in and see whether your feet can be happy wearing them for 10-12 hours a day touring Italy.

Anna Roz

I have a pair of the Merrills and they are fairly comfortable. I looked up the Mary Jane's on zappos and they look a little hideous in my opinion.

I was in Rome a couple of weeks ago and wore a pair of Liz Claiborne Sport black loafers (that I bought at Macy's). They were perfect even on the cobblestones.

Good morning tamtravels,

I've just returned from my Italy trip of almost 6 weeks, wearing nothing on my feet except my Merrell Primo Patch shoes with a pair of socks. They were extremely comfortable, had good arch support, were lightweight, and the soles were thick enough so there was absolutely no problem with all the cobblestoned streets.

Money well spent.

Happy travels!

Look - the best advice I can give you is never, never, ever, travel with a pair of new shoes. Not unless, that is, you want to spend precious time finding an alternative in a strange city.

Take the most comfy shoes you have if you are going to be pavement tramping. You don't know anyone there, so what does it matter if they are not the latest fashion? Hmm?

If you don't have a pair of shoes like that already - then what sort of lifestyle do you live?

Absolutely, never travel with untested shooes. Try them first at home, on different terrains and with different socks/stockings/whatever.
On the other hand I would disagree about not caring what they look like. Hey! we are talking of Rome, the city of "la figura" (promise me that you will leave the Mary Janes at home, unless you are less than sixteen years old)., and where (most) people wear the most beautiful shoes on the planet. My choice would be good looking loafers with a slightly thick sole. Suggest you briing two pairs, each of a slighly different hight; This will give you some slack for your feet and legs..

Fit and comfort are essential. As for style, you can't please everyone so I wouldn't worry too much about what anyone thinks about your shoes. You'll be walking miles over cobblestones so get the best fit and comfort that you can find. Good shoes should not require much "breaking in."

I looked at the Ecco Xtreme Janes on Zappos.com First of all,this shoe is not leather, but synthetic and I would be wary of that. Some customers love it but others have problems.

Two customer comments from Z's:

"Style trumps comfort - These shoes are not as comfortable as they look, but they're so attractive that I'm working with them instead of sending them back. ... They rubbed lots of places in the beginning. Now I wear them looser. Not much cushion in the footbed, so not comfortable for long walks. Fine for everyday activity. The mesh inserts are NOT soft material. Probably very durable, but irritating if my toes rub against it. Still, I'm thinking about buying another pair. Wish they had more neutral color choices."

<<I am breaking them in and I find that this shoe makes my foot sweat and I had to buy the small peds so I wouldn't be uncomfortable. This has never happened with any other shoe, so I am assuming it is particular to this brand. My physical therapist told me that she had the same problem with this shoe as well.>>

I think you can find something better for that price.

For each pair of shoes you are considering taking, I would wear them each for 8-hours straight this next week & do as much walking as possible.

How do you feel at the end of a full day in them?

I think the two shoes you mention sound like they are a reasonable choice for a trip, but I would also add a pair of sneakers. I know some people think this is dopey but for days where I walk a LOT they are by far the best for me personally.

I do have a pair of Merrell mocs that I use for travel and they are pretty good too.

Yesterday I made the mistake of wearing some new Dansko--excellent walking shoes--into Boston on the T. I had been wearing them for an hour or so before getting on the train and then I walked about 1 mile to the Public Garden. Lo and behold I began to notice a strange pain. The shoes were rubbing blisters on the backs of both feet!! This was even through trouser socks. They were extremely comfortable Mary Janes and the pain and blisters seemed to appear from one minute to the next. If I had been in Europe, I would have been seriously up a creek. Listen to the posters above, and to my sad experience. :)

Tam

I cant stress enough that comfort should be your priority over fashion, you will be so so sorry if you take new shoes that havent been broken in.

O.K. One more little point re Mary Janes or other less than attractive shoes. While I would not consider wearing totally unattractive shoes with a skirt or one of those capri-style pants, it is o.k. if your pants are long enough to cover the top of for comfort-only shoe. I own a pair of wide, black, lace up, nun-style Mephisto shoes, a very well-made and comfortable walking shoe, but I would not be caught dead wearing them in full view anywhere in LA, let alone in Europe. Only with sufficiently long jeans or pants. Someone mentioned taking a pair of sneakers along and I would strongly second it, again, with pants of an appropriate length.

Anna Roz

Well, I was not going to address the "style" issue, but here in (stodgy, some might say) Boston, shoes like these are not considered to be only for 16 year-olds. In fact, no 16 year-old would probably buy them. They are more appropriate to the post-35 crowd and are not considered unstylish. The last time I went to the American Repertory Theater, it seemed that every other woman in line for the ladies' room was wearing some approximation of them. These are the attractive (IMO) shoes that gave me blisters yesterday, but that were it not for the blisters, I would not hesitate to wear them in Europe w/pants or skirts.


http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/23804318.html

Thank you everyone for your comments, I really appreciate it!

Ok, probably will return the x-treme mary janes. Still love the mocs, but will start wearing them daily and see what happens. Now I have my sights on a Merrell Overdrive athletic shoe in brown. I usually wear tennies although I've been saying for years that I want to start wearing something else. But most of my current ones are pretty worn and not that comfortable right now.

I thought athletic shoes were a no-no in Europe, but perhaps it's just the blinding white ones.

"were it not for the blisters"
:-)
says it all!

Nike has sleek looking "sneakers".

Actually suze, I was making the point, not that the shoes were necessarily bad, but rather, that they were not broken in when I wore them for a long walk, i.e. it was my very first wearing of them under those conditoins that was the blunder. They may turn out to be fine in time.....It was just a cautionary tale against wearing non-broken in shoes.

I bought the Merrell Jungle Mocs and the Polar Tech Mocs about 2 months ago. I've been wearing the Polar Techs everyday for this entire time and they are extremely comfortable. They are very cushy and don't rub on my feet at all. The Jungle Mocs are very similar - I will begin wearing them in July as I plan on taking them with me on my August vacation.

As my second pair of shoes for travel, I wear the Cobbie Cuddler lace up sandal (Kmart carries them). They are a bit dressier than most comfort sandals, but are extremely comfortable. I've gone through about 3 pairs so far. I am able to walk all day in them without any problem and they look nice with casual skirts, shorts and pants.

you didnt say when you are going - if its in summer, sandals are definitely a good thing. There are lots of fine (mostly european) sandals that are great for walking on those cobblestones, sufficiently protective and cool. whatever shoes you take you may wind up with blisters since you will probably be walking much more than normal. Do carry some bandaids or moleskin along with you and put it on as soon as the blister becomes evident - that way you avoid some of the unpleasantness.

I never travel with shoes I haven't had and worn for about 6 months to a year; otherwise, there's no guarantee they'll be broken in enough to be comfortable for the sometimes 10+ miles a day I walk when in Europe. Your mileage may vary.

I also assume that I'll be buying at least one pair of shoes on every trip (would that I could always limit it to one pair - Imelda marcos redux here!),so I almost never take more than one or two pairs with me. That said, I like to be able to get dressed up and wear heels for a night out, so I've got a closet full of Unisa sexy but unbelievably comfortable shoes to choose from for travels abroad these days.

Your feet will vary...

I'm going next weekend and I've been shopping for shoes for awhile. I have to make up my mind this weekend so I can start living in them. Today I went ahead and tried on the Mephisto Allrounder in black, fabulous but quite pricey. I also like the Merrell Siren tennie type shoe in either blue or tan. They may make a good duo for Italy. I'm not big on sandals but plan to take a slipon of some type for shoe breaks.

Whatever I do, I'm definitely packing bandaids and moleskin. Been to Disneyworld for days on end, I know what to do in that regard. There are no cobblestones there tho!

I cannot say enough about Keen shoes. I love the Sofia style, kind of an "athleticky" ballet slipper. And the Seattle Mary Janes are perfect for lots of walking. They have great insoles and sturdy soles.

<<I thought athletic shoes were a no-no in Europe, but perhaps it's just the blinding white ones.>>

Then you'll be surprised how many you'll see there, even white.

I recommend Allrounders highly, they are exp. but worth it.

I really recommend trying to get something together so you'll be able to avoid blisters, bandaids & moleskin! It really puts a damper on the trip (been there done that).
:-)

I actually did pick up the Mephisto All-Rounder Niro in black today. Soooo expensive, but not so bad when you think how shoes can make or break a trip. Still thinking of getting the Merrell Siren tennies and haven't returned the Merrell jungle mocs yet. Just not sure about them. The suede looks like it might be warm, but everyone claims that the pigskin isn't bad...and they feel wonderful.

Thanks for the help!

Shoes you KNOW your feet love are all that matters. More money doesn't always equal more comfort, either, and the shoe should breathe and feel great the moment you put it on.

I'm a big fan of Cole Haan Nike Air and wear the sneaker style (black suede with patent detail) working at a physical job for 12 hours or more, same thing with Privo (Firebolt style) and Mary Jane Crocs. I cannot be uncomfortable as it will translate into poor work. I've worn Merrells in the past and found after about 5 hours the comfort factor dropped.

Took the Cole Haans and Privo to Italy but left the Crocs home in consideration of fashion. Very sorry I did; they would have been perfectly appropriate and oh-so-comfortable. Saw several Italians in matte gold not-as-cute clog-style Crocs. Learned a fine lesson to wear what my feet want and not worry about what "they" would approve of!

The crocs are really that comfortable? Wearing them for hours walking on cobblestones? Sounds interesting.

I love the Cole Haan nikes too, so comfortable and sleek.

My husband is an athletic man with foot and knee injuries. He wanted to pack Crocs, claiming he would wear them indoors only, as slippers, and thus not risk Fashion Polic arrest. Since they weigh nothing and squash flat, I couldn't say no.

However, after the second Crocs sighting he took them out and wore them all over Rome and was amazed to find that, unlike his Merrells and Adidas, nothing hurt at the end of the day. Wore them all day every day after that, except for a dinner.

I don't think the ballerina-style Croc flat could make this claim. It's still more cushiony than any other flat out there, but not nearly so much as the Mary Jane or clog styles.

Hmm, thanks. I must try on the wrong size in the stores, they flip flop and wobble and seem unsteady. But if they are that good I will try them again. I wish they had a deep gold, that should set me apart, lol.

Hmmm...I've seen the Crocs, tried on the Crocs and can't imagine wearing the Crocs. They remind me of the "jelly" shoes my daughter used to wear as a small child. I just bought a pair of Joseph Seibel "Tanya" shoes and will be taking them to France in a week. They look good with jeans and although pricey I think they are comfortable. Can't wear them with much else though. Still looking for another pair of shoes that are a bit more feminine. And unfortunately I don't have much time to break them in but I have packed moleskin and bandaids. Hope I won't need them!

I love my lime green Crocs. In fact, they're on my feet as I type this. But I just don't think they'd stand up to all the wear and tear you'd put on them walking on concrete and cobblestones on your trip.

Ok, now I have a silly sub-question to the original. For touring - if you wear a mary jane style shoe, what kind of socks do you wear? Do you wear those ped type things, otherwise known as little boats? Those leave the top of your foot exposed to the sun. Or do you wear a fuller sock that matches the color of the shoe? Told you it was a silly question.

I don't wear Mary Janes, and I don't think they're very common in Europe anyway. The only time I'd wear socks would be with boots, loafers or trainers - any open type shoe or sandal = no socks.

Do people really worry about things like this though? Unless I'm going somewhere culturally very different to the west (eg somewhere Islamic where I might need to keep more covered up) I would never obsess about clothes, shoes, levels of smartness or casualness, acessories etc. All I'd do is look up the weather and pack something appropriate.

Is all this worrying an American thing? 8-)

<<Shoes you KNOW your feet love are all that matters. More money doesn't always equal more comfort, either, and the shoe should breathe and feel great the moment you put it on.

I'm a big fan of Cole Haan Nike Air and wear the sneaker style>>

So TRUE! My Cole Haan, Nike Air's are the most comfortable shoes I've ever had and they've taken me through several countries the past few years.

In my search for comfort I've bought Mephisto, Arche, Munro, Stonefly, Volkswalkers, Theresia (both German made), Rangoni and Sesto Meucci (my favorites for dress shoes). The Cole Haan with Nike Air heel (the thicker rubber sole style) were not the most expensive but are absolutely the most comfortable of all.

"Is all this worrying an American thing"
I think so.
The question is : why?

I cannot imagine some Italian woman worrying about what to wear in Paris or New York.

<<Do people really worry about things like this though? Unless I'm going somewhere culturally very different to the west (eg somewhere Islamic where I might need to keep more covered up) I would never obsess about clothes, shoes, levels of smartness or casualness, acessories etc. All I'd do is look up the weather and pack something appropriate.>>

My logic has always been to find the most comfortable shoe that I like the look of. I don't worry if someone else thinks it's ugly. The same thing goes with clothing - if I think it's ugly, I don't take it; if I think it's cute and someone else thinks it's ugly, I do take it.

Comfort, comfort! But that is common sense, I guess.
We always travel in the late fall or early spring so I wear black pants AND ALL black "athletic" shoes. Nike makes a "trailrunner"...and others if you search. (and that has taken me to the opera in Vienna!)...no one looks if you are in all black...including an all purpose black coat if it is cold)
IF your feet and arches are good then you have a wider choice,,,,and if you are going in the summer then I'm not sure about the all black shoe with lighter pants.
If you have high endurance for walking..then you will know which of your shoes is the best. AND since you are leaving next weekend you might be sorry you didn't take some "old timers" (before they have broken down)

Mari offers good advice to take an older, proven pair of shoes with you. If you are wearing trousers or jeans, probably only the top of the shoe will be visible, anyway.

Don't be a goof like me and listen to people who proclaim "such and such isn't popular over there" because you are going to see some of the craziest shoes ever on THEIR feet. And yes, this DOES include flats or pumps with a strap across the instep (aka Mary Janes).

SeaUrchin, here's the trick for getting Crocs to fit how you like, because I don't like the looser fit, either, but I do want the comfort:

If you are an in-betweenie size like me and want a 7.5 US, buy the 8's. Just always go up a bit size-wise. Then put them in the dryer with a few towels and run on high for about 3 minutes. Take them out and try them on while hot. Repeat until they are exactly the fit you want, then wear them around until cool. Now they won't slip around and are perfectly custom-molded to your soles.

Here's a link where you can see/purchase the gold ones we saw most often. I have seven pair, but no crazy colors except the silver ballet flats. http://comfortableshoes.com/item_preview.cfm?ID=2632

Of course no one is going to stop you from entering a restaurant or the Opera because of your shoes or outfit, but..
I was in Paris one summer, , did not have the time to go to the hotel to change( I was wearing a linen shorts and shirt), and ended up at the Opera ( the new one ) in the same outfit.
Sure I got in, but I also got a lot
looks like " what the hell...