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Bonnie Aug 15th, 1999 09:56 AM

Why No "Go Backs" to Germany?
 
I noticed recently, in the "Why Go Back?" thread, that I constantly saw Paris, London, Italy and Hawaii mentioned but nothing about Germany. Since I am being pressured to go to Germany by family who loved it and have friends over there, is it a place that's interesting but doesn't grab your soul? Is that why I heard no rhapsodies about it? Thank you, Fodorites!

kay Aug 15th, 1999 11:31 AM

Germany was one of five countries I said I want to go back to repeatedly. And, in fact, I have. My last three trips to Europe were to Germany. And I've only scratched the surface! Believe me, it resonates with me and I would go back yearly if I could, or even live there for two years.

Bonnie Aug 15th, 1999 11:41 AM

My apologies, Kay. I re-read your post on that thread, and you did mention Germany, but I believe yours was about the only reference on that whole thread to Germany. Thank you for your response!

toom Aug 15th, 1999 01:58 PM

I didn't read that post (go back), but i really enjoy visiting my friend and his family there. I have been there twice, and have already booked and paid for the air-ticket for my third trip in a month time.

Baba Zeba Aug 15th, 1999 03:15 PM

Bonnie: <BR> <BR>Germany is a fine travel destination. Been there 3 times and we are headed back next week. The south is filled with fun loving people and great places to stay and explore. The east is filled with all kinds of interesting historical content, and Berlin is one of my favorite cities in the world. Do go and enjoy the richness that is Germany! <BR>

Mary Aug 15th, 1999 03:40 PM

I cannot wait to go back to Germany, although our travel plans are for France this year. I love the Black Forest, Heidelberg, and Bavaria. I will never forget the looks we got when my husband drove down the pedestrian zone in Heidelberg. Maybe we'll get back next year.

tom Aug 15th, 1999 05:03 PM

Bonnie, <BR> <BR>Been there five times, and that was before I went to work for a German company. <BR> <BR>Go back...of course, but only if you love beautiful scenery, some of the best beer in the world, history in great portions, friendly people, particularly in Bavaria, a magnificent sense of history from Rothenburg to Munich, great countryside picnics, "fat" laden food that tastes very, very good...and of course did I mention great beer!!!

Kim Aug 16th, 1999 09:13 AM

Bonnie, <BR> <BR>I went to Germany several years ago and would love to go back. I didn't respond to the previous post. Germany is beautiful and the food is wonderful. I also met very nice people there. A train ride along the Rhine is not to be missed! Remember to look up to see the castles.

raeona Aug 16th, 1999 03:25 PM

About a month or six weeks ago, there was a loooong thread on here about Germany -- and the fervor of most of the posters made me think that Germany should be boosted way higher on my priority list! Perhaps you can find that discussion with a search.

Lori Aug 16th, 1999 06:43 PM

My husband and I got hooked on germany a few years ago and I can't quit going back. Every time he asks where I want to go I remember another castle I want to stay in or another area I want to visit! We have made great friends there and find it an easy country to drive in and I just love it. Whether it's standing on our friends' deck high up on the top of the Alps or driving along the Mosel or Rhine rivers, Germany is the place I always return to. It always feels like we are returning to an old friend....

noname Dec 13th, 1999 04:26 PM

i am going anon on this one,b/c i am about to disagree with all of you and not looking forward to the fall out....i went to germany once, to munich, and as i rode the train out to dachau and realized that dachau is as close to downtown munich as queens is to NYC, and as easily accessible, i got a really bad feeling about a country full of people who could pretend they didn't know about the holocaust when nazi's were burning people within 20 minutes of a major city. growing up, i always figured the camps were in remote areas, and the lack of people living around them helped with the secrecy. and another thing i have never been able to understand is how americans of jewish descent can and do willingly travel to germany, and support german companies by buying german cars. recently a jewish friend of mine went to gemany and came back raving about the ease of use and efficiency of the auto-bahn( she drove it in her rented volkswagon) i was amazed that she didn;t make the connection that the autobahn was developed specifically to help the third reich!

also Dec 13th, 1999 06:20 PM

When we visited Germany and went into Poland with a youd german lady, we asked the same question. Her response: were you responsible for the slavery in america ]? Good question.

Al Dec 13th, 1999 08:06 PM

You should have asked that young lady if she knew that America fought a war that ended slavery; Nazi Germany fought a war so that it could continue to kill its victims.

JMGarrison Dec 13th, 1999 08:11 PM

I can't understand why anyone would not want to return to Germany. Especallly at this time of year when all of the towns have a great Christmas Market. They have gifts to offer plus most of them have food locally cooked to offer. Especially, fish type things to go. They are not pushing thier wates but do make them available for you to buy. Germany is my favorite place to visit close to Christmas.

FrankR Dec 14th, 1999 01:09 AM

Al, check your history, "America" fought <BR>no such war.What country did they fight? <BR>The message of the holocaust is that if it can happen in a highly civilised place like Germany it can happen anywhere, including your home.In fact the sort of activities right wing groups get up to in the US are banned in Germany, where you can be prosecuted for denying the holocaust.

Al Dec 14th, 1999 04:07 AM

FrankR: one of the issues decided by the Civil War was the freedom of the slaves held by the states that had seceded. One of the freedoms Americans enjoy -- and sometimes abuse -- is the freedom of expression, odious as some of our nut groups behave. Germany's treatment of its "guest workers" -- especially those of Turkish blood -- is just plain awful. <BR>Even children born in Germany of Turkish parents have no rights to become German citizens. Compare that with America!

ilisa Dec 14th, 1999 04:17 AM

Noname, very ignorant of you. I am a Jewish woman who lost many relatives in Auschwitz. Yet, I am married to a man of German descent whose father came to the United States in the 1950s. Why? Because I am intelligent enough to realize that not all Germans were aligned with the Nazi party. My father-in-law and his family spent World War II trying to flee the Nazis. I also learned through my husband's family what beauty Germany has to offer. Would I visit it? Yes. I can't penalize a whole country and its people for Adolph Hitler and the Third Reich, which, in case you haven't noticed, no longer exists.

Rex Dec 14th, 1999 04:41 AM

You think there is a good general awareness of what's going on Queens by Manhattanites? <BR> <BR>"pretend THEY didn't know"? - who is this THEY? The average German living in Munich? - - under war time conditions, I would have not have expected most people to have much of an idea what's going on outside a one-mile circle of where they lived. <BR> <BR>If you mean that the "press" should have done a better job of informing the German people - - well, I am not a student of the history of journalism in Europe during the war, but I believe that the press - - as in any war - - was as much a prisoner as any of those held hostage in the camps. <BR> <BR>This is not news: "In war, the first casualty is truth" - - Herodotus

Russ Dec 14th, 1999 05:11 AM

I think Frank had it right. The Germans are not much different from us, culturally speaking, yet certain elements in their culture -- a need for conformity/uniformity, pride in country, and the belief that God was behind them, among others -- combined to create the holocaust. We can easily see that what happened there was wrong. But can we say it happened because the Germans are an evil people? Their culture isn't that different today from what it was before, nor from our own. I say it could happen here too unless we understand and remember those events. THAT is one very important reason to visit Germany! Go to Dachau. Visit the WW II sites where the Allies sacrificed to put an end to the greatest threat to the world ever. Then, get to know the charming, civilized German people; if your experience is like mine, you'll find great similarities betwn our cultures and many things to admire. Then, realize that we, too must "never forget" and always be watchful that our culture doesn't commit similiar acts. <BR> <BR>By the way, modern Germans visiting here can hardly believe that we allow the proliferation of guns to kill people at a rate 10 times higher than in Europe,or that we go about our own business while the insane and the drunks lie about on our streets, or that we salute the flag and say a pledge in schools everyday, then complain that there isn't enough prayer in schools (the Nazis were famous for such activities.) Then I remind them that this is the land that also sent thousands to die and murder innocent people in Vietnam and that became the cradle of slavery. We definitely have our faults. Let's keep an eye on our own problems, too.

nickie Dec 14th, 1999 09:06 AM

Hi Bonnie! I don't usually respond to long threads, so I guess I was one of those that didn't say how much I love Germany. I've lived there, and gone back there. There's so much history, and so much unspoiled beautiful scenery, especially in Bavaria. <BR>As for anonymous, I really dislike that some people can't stand up for what they believe by using their own name. I lost relatives in the Holocaust, but they were gypsies not Jews, of which you generally here very little. Still, I don't blame the German people today for what happened then. Just as I do not blame myself for what happened to the native americans. They are the most ignored people in our country, and among the poorest - if we follow your train of thought, how can you stand to live in America?

Kevin Dec 14th, 1999 12:05 PM

Felt the need to clear up a misconception. Dachau was NOT a death camp, and people were not burned there. This was a political camp. This does not lessen the creepy idea of this being "in their backyard". I visited Sachsenhausen, outside Berlin, in Oct, and that feeling was overwhelming. That said, I too would, and frequently do, go back. It is a wonderful country!

markizzy Dec 14th, 1999 12:10 PM

I feel compelled to answer this. I too am an observent Jewish, lost relatives in the Holocaust and have been to Germany. I cannot blame the entire German people of 1999 just as I do not blame today's Spanish for the Inquisition, the English for the Crusades, etc. We must "never forget" in order that we remember what our ancestors sacrificed for their Judaism and that it does not happen again. Frankly, I have encountered more anti-Semitism in the US than I ever have in Europe, and find most younger Germans more tolerable to different ethnicities, religions, etc. than Americans of the same age. That being said, other than Munich, I never have found Germany particularly interesting. I would go back if necessary but would rather see Austria or Switzerland for the natural beauty, and Paris/Florence/Venice/Brussels for cities.

miriam Dec 14th, 1999 01:49 PM

Hallo, <BR>being German I must say that Iīve gone through a mixture of feelings while reading these posts. I was glad that a lot of people understand the role we Germans of the second or third generation are put into. And I was very sad to read was Al, who I always found very wise and wonderful helping people, is thinking of German people and therefore of me as well. Iīve never killed anybody nor was anybody I know or of my family involved in the crimes of the Hitler area, in fact my grandfather was in a political concentration camp, as well. We donīt want to forget what has happened. Iīm one among a lot of people who is not only ashamed but want to put all force into not letting things like the Third Reich happen again. <BR> <BR>Regards <BR> <BR>Miriam

Russ Dec 14th, 1999 02:11 PM

Kevin, your facts are not in order. There were probably some political prisoners in Dachau, but many were POW's from Russia and other various undesirables who were subjected to torture and death, -- 30,000 registered deaths in Dachau alone. Please refer yourself to the official Dachau web page if you wish to be informed. <BR> <BR>http://www.infospace.de/gedenkstaett...ish/index.html

russ Dec 14th, 1999 02:18 PM

I'm sorry, that link seems to be bad. Try <BR> <BR>www.infospace.de/gedenkstaette <BR> <BR>then click on the english version.

Richard Dec 14th, 1999 02:23 PM

Alas, homo sapiens is a species of tribal morons.

Al Dec 14th, 1999 04:50 PM

Miriam, at no time did I suggest that you or any other Germans of the younger generation have any direct connection with what was done by the Nazis. I am of German descent. We must never forget that the first nation conquered by the Nazis was...Germany. The record is clear about who went into the camps first or were killed because they were in mental institutions. Those first victims were Germans, whether they were Jews or were not. Trade unionists, Socialists, Communists, gypsies, homosexuals, Catholic and Protestant clerics, anti-Nazis of many kinds. Unlike many who visit Germany today and see only a lovely landscape, people in lederhosen, or cuckoo clocks, I carry with me the mental baggage of being a veteran of the second World War, with friends still buried on Omaha Beach, at Margraten, and at Metz. They never had the chance to grow old as I have, to see Germany become the nation it is today. I am glad to hear that you are dedicated to the preservation of your freedoms. I only wish that others in Germany were equally alert.

noname11 Dec 14th, 1999 08:59 PM

The original intent of this thread has been unwound into a discussion of why visit Germany in the first place. I am of the mind set that I wouldn't necessarily rule out a visit; but because I cannot ignore what has recently befallen my people, it is not some place I desire to go and because of limited travel opportunities would not go there. As a child in the States, everyone around me had numbers burned into their forearms. As the years went by, I listened to the noxious sound of German as it was shouted in newsfilm. To this day, the sound of the German language being spoken, even by the most genteel person, causes a pained reaction. So, in a way I am another "victim" of the 3rd Reich (although I hesitate to even associate my ideas with the real victimization that occurred). The Nazis and their German supporters took away my ability to want to explore and experience the country that they ruled. Since I don't have such feelings for Spain and other similar countries, I assume that future generations will not be "victimized" in this same way. <BR>I too will use a "noname" appelation as I too know the extent of anti semitism.

ilisa Dec 15th, 1999 04:17 AM

Noname11, you are aware of Spain's persecution of the Jews, aren't you?

Danny Dec 15th, 1999 12:38 PM

Al: Your remark about Turkish children born in Germany not having the right to German citizenship is quite interesting. There are precious few countries in the world that give citizenship based on place of birth. I live in Luxembourg and my children, born here, have no right to citizenship. If their children are born here, they have no right to citizenship. For some countries, these children would not have a right to citizenship in their countries. If their children are born here, then they have no right to citizenship in any country in the world. This is the norm in the world and the US Congress has discussed several times switching to this standard.

turnip Dec 15th, 1999 12:51 PM

Hi Bonnie, <BR> <BR>First let me apologize for the ugly discussion thread on the Fodor's forum. It's usually a great place for travel info. but every once a great while it ends up in "flame" wars. <BR> <BR>Second let me urge you to go to Germany, especially Bavaria. While not a seasoned world traveller, I have been to Europe 5 times in my tender 33 years, and absolutely love Germany. We have traveled Bavaria quite a bit and I would be happy to bore you with suggestions of what to see and what to pass over if you wish. <BR> <BR>Best regards, Todd "tpr" Repke aka the turnip

Al Dec 15th, 1999 01:00 PM

Danny, this right of citizenship is guaranteed under the Constitution. To remove this right, a Consitutional amendment would be required, and this would call for a vote by both houses of Congress, ratification by the states, and the signature of the President. You and I would be long gone from this earth for such a travesty to occur. Germany, on the other hand, has had (and may still have, for all I know) laws that require both parents to be German citizens. Inasmuch as barriers are placed in the way of German residents of Turkish descent ever becoming citizens, some are well into their third generation of living, working, and paying taxes in Germany with no opportunity to become citizens. Recent discussions within the German parliament have touched on this sore spot, but it's a toss-up if this statute will be changed. In the meantime, huge districts of major cities in Germany are "Little Istanbuls." Racism and bigotry are alive and well in Germany. The more things change, the more they are the same.

miriam Dec 15th, 1999 03:24 PM

Hallo Al, <BR>I donīt want to go into that point of the discussion too much, but you are not right. Everybody born in Germany has a right to become German Citizen. For sure thereīs a lot of paperwork to do-but it is possible. We have a lot of Turkish people with both the German and the Turkish Citizenship. Fact is that those people will have a REALLY big problem when returning to the country of their fathers even when it is only for vacation. Like everywhere in big cities we have a problem with masses of people from abroad without a job, any knowledge of the language etc. I donīt deny that. But I donīt think that it is necessarily a hint for Racism. <BR> <BR>Miriam

fred Dec 15th, 1999 03:53 PM

Hey enough is enough. I come to this forum to relax and enjoy peoples experiences. I have been to Germany several times and enjoyed it each time. Also other European countries, Let us not get political.There is enough negative stories on tv or newspapers. keep those goooood experiences coming.

noname11 Dec 15th, 1999 04:38 PM

Ilisa: of course I am aware of the inquisition; that was my point in referring to Spain and similar countries; namely, that although I have read about it I don't have first hand association with it, therefore I dont have the same visceral feelings that I have about Germany, although Spanish atrocities are on an equal footing. <BR> <BR>As to the others who think this has no place on a travel forum, I would respecfully disagree.Travel is a matter of choice and perspective and whether or not a locale is worth going to or returning to, as the thread inquires, is a matter of personal opinion; this is MY opinion and I have given reasons for why I have it. If those of you who think that my opinion is an act of flame throwing or negativity, I am sorry. So, go look at your coo coo clocks and beer halls and and feel good about everything you see and hear. Sorry to advise you that for some people there are some countries that this is not enough. <BR> <BR>

harzer Dec 16th, 1999 03:54 AM

I read the replies of those respondents to the original question with some interest. While I was happy to find quite a number of travellers who share my own love of Germany, there still seems virtually no-one who experiences the country north and east of the so-called 'Weisswurstequator'. This is an imaginary line dividing veal-sausage country from pork-sausage country and runs from roughly west of Frankfurt through Nuremberg to the border with the Czech Republic, and coincides quite closely with the areas under Roman domination 2000 years ago, which even today tend to be Catholic while the remaining parts of the country are more Protestant. There is a hell of a lot more to Germany than castles, Romantic Road, Rhine and Moselle, Heidelberg and Black Forest, attractive as these destinations are.

russ Dec 16th, 1999 04:17 AM

Harzer: <BR> <BR>I've been trying to keep Northern Germany a secret for several years, and now you blurt out its charms on the Fodor's board! I thought guys like you and me were trying to keep out the teal-garbed, Rick-Steves-guidebook-toting North Americans so we could have a bit of peace and quiet up there and keep the prices down! <BR> <BR>Seriously, there are many relatively unexplored and unheralded spots in the north and the east that are worthy of travel time.

Alice Dec 16th, 1999 05:48 AM

This has been the most political thread I have EVER read on this travel forum, and I must say, I truly enjoyed reading others feelings, histories, opinions, etc., whether I agreed with them or not. I do agree that traveling to foreign countries is or should be more than simply a visual experience. <BR> <BR>But now, as God forgives us of our sins, let us also forgive others of theirs so that there can be <BR> <BR>PEACE ON EARTH, GOOD WILL TO ALL.


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