<<I told my husband he HAD to talk with me about this for a while this weekend. He's very good at not spending any time in the planning, but then having all sorts of other ideas after it's too late!>>

hey, alice, that's MY husband - give him back.

My husband generally first opens a guide book on the plane over (drives me nuts). I do count on him to deal with logistics - how do we get from the airport to the hotel, where do we rent a car, what's the ferry schedule. He LIKES that kind of thing. I generally do the airfare because it drives him crazy (it drives me crazy too, but I also enjoy the thrill of the chase!).

And after many years of traveling together I know he has only so much tolerance for churches and museums, REALLY likes having a balcony or terrace, loves driving almost anywhere, wants to be able to do some hiking/walking in beautiful surroundings. And after all these years he knows better than to complain about ANYTHING if he's chosen not to participate in the planning!

Alice

My husband generally first opens a guide book on the plane over (drives me nuts). I do count on him to deal with logistics - how do we get from the airport to the hotel, where do we rent a car, what's the ferry schedule. He LIKES that kind of thing. I generally do the airfare because it drives him crazy (it drives me crazy too, but I also enjoy the thrill of the chase!). >>

it's definitely him - how is this happening?

It's obvious - bigamy.