| just thinking, too |
May 17th, 2001 09:20 PM |
JKL, your comments struck a chord inside me. I met a woman on a trip last year who may be a little like your friend. She's retired and loves to travel. She takes at least 8 foreign trips a year plus many domestic trips to ski or visit friends. When I first met her I thought she was extremely irritating and vain and i couldn't stand her, but she grew on me. We became e-mail buddies for a few months after meeting on the tour. She was an intelligent, very kind person, but emotionally very superficial on the surface, which is not to say that she was genuinely unfeeling. She was perhaps the wealthiest almost-friend I've ever had, had fascinating travel experiences, talked about having many friends, talked constantly (too, too much), but I had the impression that she did wonderful things with her friends but didn't reveal much even to them. She had experiences that I'd love to have, and I guess it would've made sense to be jealous of her, but instead I always felt a little sad for her. She has stopped e-mailing. I'm probably being foolish to be worried about her, but I find something sad about her perpetual-motion style of life. This is one time I'd be really happy to be wrong. <BR> <BR>P.S. To "Chantal": StCirq's posts on substantive topics are solid, detailed, informative, helpful. Her family life is none of your business. Nor is the amount of time she chooses to spend playing on the internet. Just didn't want to leave you with the impression than people agreed with you just because they might not respond to your sniper attacks.
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