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humanone Oct 17th, 2006 12:28 PM

good manners on Malta-Gozo
 
Many posters have complained about rude people on Malta, and it has occurred to me that we travelers may be overlooking some rule of good manners that might make the difference. I am thinking about reports of rude Frenchpeople, but I recently realized that we foreigners do not know that it is imperitive to start every interaction with "bon jour"; having learned this, I have not had even one rude reaction from a Frenchperson. Perhaps there is a similiar convention on Malta and Gozo. Any ideas?

elina Oct 18th, 2006 06:55 AM

I have never heard that Maltese would be rude. At least they were not rude to me, quite the contrary. I have a special talent to get royally lost no matter where I am, and in Malta people more than once walked with me long stretches to get me where I wanted to go, just to make sure that I donīt get lost again.

I think it is a rule to greet people before you start talking to them or enter their establishment. At least I do it everywhere, no matter what country.

logos999 Oct 18th, 2006 07:45 AM

I also never had any problems in Malta. In respect to how I was treated in Gozo it was very much like in rural Bavaria, (and most places except Brunei in that respect) polite and respectful. :-).

AnselmAdorne Oct 18th, 2006 08:11 AM

"Many posters have complained about rude people on Malta ..."

Many? I haven't read one post complaining about the Maltese. Generalizations are risky, so I'll simply say that all the people I met there were reserved, warm, and cordial.

Anselm

JP Oct 18th, 2006 09:37 AM

I don't remember meeting any rude people in Malta.

Debs Oct 18th, 2006 03:32 PM

Never encountered any problems in Malta/Gozo during our visit-we found everyone to be very friendly and quite helpful, especially on the bus as we were making our way to the Hypogeum and having difficulty in determining which stop to get off at. With help, we (barely) made our ticket time, but we made it none-the-less.

Don't recall any specific posts about 'rude people on Malta'- which ones are you refering to?

Amy Oct 19th, 2006 02:04 AM

I encountered many polite, helpful, and friendly people in Malta. Some of them were not gregarious, but that makes me happy rather than the reverse.

humanone Oct 20th, 2006 05:15 PM

I'm so glad to read all your responses! The negative comments I read were in hotel reviews on tripadvisor.com. Thanks for your responses.

NeoPatrick Oct 20th, 2006 09:05 PM

Thanks for clarifying that humanone. I thought at first your post was a joke as I can't imagine people talking about rude Maltese. That just wasn't my experience at all -- but then I'm always at a loss when people talk about the rude French also.


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