ITALY, without a doubt!

Hawaii is wonderful and I would like to go back soon but Italy is special and I would like to go back again and again. Since you have been to Kauai and know you love it, try something else this time. Go to Italy - Kauai is always there for the next trip.

Why don't you do one this year and then save up some money to do the other the next or year after that? Seems silly to go on two big trips one year and none the next (if that is the case). The trip can be in both your honors even if it doesn't fall over one of your birthdays.