| Yagmur |
Jun 4th, 2002 06:14 AM |
Marhaba Fatih - I am a Canadian woman married to a Turkish man here in Toronto. Obviously you need to contact the Canadian Embassy in Ankara to apply for immigration. I am not sure if they will accept you both as Enlgish teachers, as most English teachers (or ESL Teachers = English as a Second Language Teachers) tend to have English as their mother tonge (first language).<BR><BR>Okay - I am not going to candy coat this, because this is a very big decision that you will have to make and really think about it. I have watched my own husband adapt to the culture here in Canada (and many other Turks as well). You will need to realize that there is defineitly a period of adjustment - excitement, generally followed by culture shock, sometimes anger and disapointment as you are often unable to obtain the same kind of quality job that you would in Turkey in the beginning years at least (my husband finally has a good job, but it has taken him 8 yrs, including getting his MBA - that's where we met).<BR><BR>My husband and many of our Turkish friends are now well adjusted to the country. Although one thing I have noticed in some of them is a complete rejection of Turkey - everything in the country is bad/wrong, etc. - I believe that this is a way for them to justify living here (for them everything must be black or white). I am afraid this may sound a little too negative or philisophical, but I really want you and your wife to think about such a move. Plus there will be an adjustment period for your children - the younger the better, but their adjustment will depend in part on your own adjustment, stress level, etc.<BR><BR>For work I am really not sure how to advise you. To teach any subject you will probably need to be certified here, but I don't know who you can contact about that, or what the proceedures are (the Canadian Embassy should be able to help you there - or search the web for teaching in Canada - maybe there is an exchange program you come here for a bit and some one from Canada goes to Turkey). <BR><BR>I hope this helps you a bit, please post if you want to discuss further. Good luck.<BR><BR>(P.S. Yagmur is my daughter's Turkish name).
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