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Apr 10th, 2006, 04:14 PM
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Oh gosh, Bonnie. I'm so.....sorry seems so lame. I just don't know what to say....I think Trissie will let you know what's best. I don't really know you but am broken hearted for you. With much love to you all. 
I wish you strength and wisdom.
I wish you strength and wisdom.
Apr 10th, 2006, 04:22 PM
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I'm so sad to hear this news -- certainly not what we all hoped for. The hardest decision I ever made was to have our 17+ dear sweet terrier mix put down after he'd had a stroke. But like many others here -- I took some comfort in knowing what a good life we'd given him and how much joy he had brought to my children and us.
Sending warm thoughts to you, Trissie and your family.
Sending warm thoughts to you, Trissie and your family.
Apr 10th, 2006, 04:39 PM
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Very, very sorry to hear this news. As others have said, Trissie will let you know when he's ready. Whatever the outcome, don't forget your dog loves you. And he knows that you love him. Remember that.
Apr 10th, 2006, 05:07 PM
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Bonniebroad,
We lost our boxer, Murphy Brown in january just four days after she was diagnosed with cancer. Making the decision to let her go was the hardest thing I had to do, but it was the best decision for her. As I'm typing this, I have Asia, a 10 week old boxer puppy snuggling on my lap, and our hearts are whole again.
You will know when it is time, and you can't let your sadness allow you to let him suffer longer. I know how you must feel. There was a weight on my heart that was heavier than I thought possible, but time really does heal, and we knew that we would have to have another boxer in our home as soon as possible.
I hope the following poem and song will help you through this very difficult time. Cheers, Al
Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
Klaatu Lyrics - All Good Things
I never had a closer friend than you
I never had such good times
As the ones we used to have together
You're the one I told my problems to
Who through the years remained true blue
No I never had a closer friend than you
But all good things must end
No use trying to pretend it isn't so
When it's time you gotta go
But I never had a better friend than you
I know it sounds a trifle odd
To those who've never had a dog
But I never had a closer friend than you
But all good things must end
No use crying for the dead
And that's a fact
All my tears won't bring you back
And I never had a better friend than you
No I'll never have a better friend than you
We lost our boxer, Murphy Brown in january just four days after she was diagnosed with cancer. Making the decision to let her go was the hardest thing I had to do, but it was the best decision for her. As I'm typing this, I have Asia, a 10 week old boxer puppy snuggling on my lap, and our hearts are whole again.
You will know when it is time, and you can't let your sadness allow you to let him suffer longer. I know how you must feel. There was a weight on my heart that was heavier than I thought possible, but time really does heal, and we knew that we would have to have another boxer in our home as soon as possible.
I hope the following poem and song will help you through this very difficult time. Cheers, Al
Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
Klaatu Lyrics - All Good Things
I never had a closer friend than you
I never had such good times
As the ones we used to have together
You're the one I told my problems to
Who through the years remained true blue
No I never had a closer friend than you
But all good things must end
No use trying to pretend it isn't so
When it's time you gotta go
But I never had a better friend than you
I know it sounds a trifle odd
To those who've never had a dog
But I never had a closer friend than you
But all good things must end
No use crying for the dead
And that's a fact
All my tears won't bring you back
And I never had a better friend than you
No I'll never have a better friend than you
Apr 10th, 2006, 05:10 PM
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Bonnie, I'm so sorry to hear about Trissie.
I know that you have tough decisions ahead of you, but you've given him a wonderful life for 16 1/2 years.....I hope that thought gives you comfort no matter what you decide to do.
Sending best wishes and positive thoughts your way.
I know that you have tough decisions ahead of you, but you've given him a wonderful life for 16 1/2 years.....I hope that thought gives you comfort no matter what you decide to do.
Sending best wishes and positive thoughts your way.
Apr 10th, 2006, 06:00 PM
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Bonnie,
I was really hoping to read good news about Trissie tonight and I'm so sorry things turned out the way they did. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult your decision must be. I think the other posters are right when they say Trissie will let you know what to do - just trust your instincts. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Trissie and the rest of your family. Take care.
Al - I love the Rainbow Bridge poem - that's beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Heidi
I was really hoping to read good news about Trissie tonight and I'm so sorry things turned out the way they did. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult your decision must be. I think the other posters are right when they say Trissie will let you know what to do - just trust your instincts. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Trissie and the rest of your family. Take care.
Al - I love the Rainbow Bridge poem - that's beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Heidi
Apr 10th, 2006, 06:13 PM
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Ahh, Bonnie, I am sorry. I too, sadly, know what it is like to lose a beloved pet and how heartbreaking it is.
When my 18 year old Abbyssinian cat died, he had been fine, then started failing quickly, I took him to the vet and they said I could pick him up the next morning. They called the next morning to tell me he had died in the night.
The worst thing next to losing him was to not have him at home when he died.
Someone reminded me that cats and dogs have no fear or dread of the future or what will happen to them. I was comforted by the thought that that little cat just went to sleep, thinking he would be home soon.
Your little Trissie is not worried or fearful of dying. He only knows about the love he gets from you all the time. I know you will make the decision based on the way you feel about him and how he is, but try to remember that all he knows is that you love him.
Best wishes to you all, Scarlett
When my 18 year old Abbyssinian cat died, he had been fine, then started failing quickly, I took him to the vet and they said I could pick him up the next morning. They called the next morning to tell me he had died in the night.
The worst thing next to losing him was to not have him at home when he died.
Someone reminded me that cats and dogs have no fear or dread of the future or what will happen to them. I was comforted by the thought that that little cat just went to sleep, thinking he would be home soon.
Your little Trissie is not worried or fearful of dying. He only knows about the love he gets from you all the time. I know you will make the decision based on the way you feel about him and how he is, but try to remember that all he knows is that you love him.
Best wishes to you all, Scarlett
Apr 10th, 2006, 06:37 PM
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Oh bonnie, I too am sitting here with tears. Losing our best little buddy hurts so much. I still miss my little pup, although I think she is in a wonderful field chasing butterflies and feeling the cool breeze on her face. Maybe even taking a boat ride..how she loved to go boating with us. Thank you for your post Whistler Al.
Dear one, I truly believe you will know what to do and when. I am sure your Trissie and you have been communicating for all these years.
My prayers to all of you. And don't ever forget how fortunate you were to have Trissie in your life and how fortunate he was to have your family and home. And I am sure Trissie knew that. Cyberhugs bonnie.
Dear one, I truly believe you will know what to do and when. I am sure your Trissie and you have been communicating for all these years.
My prayers to all of you. And don't ever forget how fortunate you were to have Trissie in your life and how fortunate he was to have your family and home. And I am sure Trissie knew that. Cyberhugs bonnie.
Apr 10th, 2006, 06:51 PM
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Bonnie, having been through making this agonizing decision several times over the last 10 years, I understand that it is the hardest decision perhaps, that one has to make. And even once it's made, there's still an uneasy, terrible guilt feeling that seems to take a long time to go away--"Could I have done more? Did I make the right decision? Should I have explored another possibility?" etc. You start second-guessing yourself. One web site that has helped me more than once after that difficult decision was made, is Petloss.com. If you scroll down to the "Healing and Inspirational Poems" link, you'll find many beautiful, touching poems, some of which I'm sure will reflect exactly what you're feeling. And all very reassuring that you've made the right decision for your pet. My best wishes to you as you wrestle with this decision--It's never easy, but I hope it helps to know that there are many others who care.
Apr 10th, 2006, 08:40 PM
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Bonnie, I have tears in my eyes as I write this. We had a beloved cat that had cancer, with internal bleeding, and we had to make the tough decision to put him to sleep. I still miss him terribly. I still miss my dog that had to be put to sleep 20 years ago. If only our animals could live longer.... My heart goes out to you in this difficult time, but it is obvious that Trissie has had a wonderful life with you and has been so loved. Take comfort in that, and you will know the right thing to do for your friend.
Apr 11th, 2006, 02:41 AM
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hi bonnie, i have been reading along since sunday unable to post as i have been through your dilemna too recently. i know how devasted you feel right now. please let us know if you have decided to opt for the surgery.
i think everyone here is hopeful that you might have a few more months with your beloved trissie. it was that way with my trout, we went through every option, until one morning when we both knew it was time for her to go. my vet was very gentle with us both and encouraged me to stay with her until i knew she was had gone peacefully and comfortably. my heart is with you and trissie and your family today.
whistlerai your story of rainbow bridge is very beautiful. trout had lost a leg and the image of her whole again and running is a beautiful sight in my minds eye now. thank you
i think everyone here is hopeful that you might have a few more months with your beloved trissie. it was that way with my trout, we went through every option, until one morning when we both knew it was time for her to go. my vet was very gentle with us both and encouraged me to stay with her until i knew she was had gone peacefully and comfortably. my heart is with you and trissie and your family today.
whistlerai your story of rainbow bridge is very beautiful. trout had lost a leg and the image of her whole again and running is a beautiful sight in my minds eye now. thank you
Apr 11th, 2006, 03:53 AM
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Bonnie, I am so sorry about your beloved Trissie. Our cat turned 19 also on Friday and I don't want to even imagine how we'll react one day when that moment comes. Take care of yourself and your long time companion
Apr 11th, 2006, 05:21 AM
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bonnie, I am so sorry. I, too, am crying as I type. I've lost two terriers. Jake lasted less than a month after diagnosis and poor Gracie less than 48 hours. Jake's passing was an amazingly peaceful experience. I have no doubts that I did the right thing in bringing an end to his pain. It was wonderful holding him as he made his transition. Gracie was hooked up to all sorts of medical equipment, but when I told her it was okay to stop fighting, she passed before the dear vet could get the shot ready. You are truly blessed to have had 16+ years with your Cairn. Know that whatever decision you make will be the right one for both of you. God bless. Your heart will heal some in time. Trissie will always be in your heart. Let him go when it is time. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Apr 11th, 2006, 06:16 AM
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My eyes are full of tears. OUr beloved late pup had a ruptured spleen when he was just a few years old. The ER vet though it might have been from mistreatment at the kennel we had just picked him up from after a trip, but it was a benign tumor which caused it. He recovered from the surgery just fine and was with us for several years after that. He was plagued with weird health issues (the tumor, chronic ear infections, and bloat) for most of his life, but he never complained and loved and was loved. Your heart will point you in the right direction for you and your dog. Your pet loving friends will support you to the end.
Apr 11th, 2006, 07:23 AM
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I am soooo sorry about your news! We have a 14 year old beloved pup who is also failing in health.....meds for allergies, arthritis, wetting accidents and she eats hamburger and pasta twice a day heated up for one minute at 80% power! Dogs and or pets, are like children, IMHO....they become one of the family that can't be replaced! After I read the messages on this post this am, my basset put her head under mine and snuggled. I think she could tell that I was so sad over your news....could it have been my tears? So, best wishes from Karen (person) and Ellie (spoiled pup)!
