Dear yyy: <BR>Why is it a secret? Tell someone, if it was you than there usually are others! <BR> <BR> <BR>The Comptons: <BR>How do the grandchildren feel about this situation? If they are uncomfortable about it, there is your answer.

point 1: grandparents should know their own grandkids well enough to know the answer to this <BR> <BR>point 2: grandkids that age will definitely voice their opinions about it (my guess they will NOT want to share a bed OR sleep in the same bed with either grandparent) <BR> <BR>point 3: i think this is a troll <BR> <BR>point 4: common sense answer is pay for a rollaway bed and have grandparents in one bed, and grandkids each in their own bed