I thought the two luaus we went to were fun for our family! It was entertaining and the food was fine.
We did both on the big island at the Hilton and at the Marriott, two different trips many years apart. The Hilton had a better show.

The Hale Koa i believe is the one next to the big Hilton on Oahu. Is that right mms? I heard they have a good show. It iw a military base group hotel and they supposedly have a nice show. At 60 dollars a person, they isn't bad for entertainment and food in my opinion.

Girlonthego--yes the Hale Koa is next to the Hilton. We very much enjoyed the luau there. For some reason I am thinking they sell tickets to non military if a show is not sold out, but one would definitely want to call and verify that.