Does anyone tip at Bed & Breakfast Inns?
 

I usually leave a tip for houskeeping at hotels. Would you tip at a small family run bed & breakfast Inn?

If a B&B has one or two rooms and clearly no employees, I would be disinclined to tip unless the housekeeping was so fastidious that I felt constrained to show my appreciation with a tip.

If the staff consists of the owners/family - then you don't tip.

How is a B&B different from other places in that respect? Is it an exception, like the one where it may be an insult to tip the owner of a hair salon? Are there other exceptions?

I rarely stay in B&Bs. I have a couple of times and tipped.

We stayed in a family owned and run B&B several years ago where we ate supper served by the husband/owner. They added a service gratuity to the meal which just seemed wrong.

I do not normally tip an owner of a business (hair salon, b and b). I was very taken aback by my experience at a Jasper, Alberta b and b which was family owned. There was a note in my room they were planning a holiday and would use whatever gratuity I left to build that fund.

I own a b&b and have a very hard working Independent Contractor cleaning girl. I do not expect tips for myself ever, but do appreciate when people leave something for her. I do not have tip envelpes in the rooms!

I don't understand why those who clean rooms in B&Bs are less worthy of tips than those who do the same at other hostelries.

I agree with whoever wrote: <i>They added a service gratuity to the meal which just seemed wrong.</i> To add an unstated charge is, IMO, unethical and wrong-headed.

if the staff is family, it is the same as tipping the owner. thurstonbb's situation is the exception - they have hired staff and a tip would be customary. But if it is the owner doing the cleaning/serving - no you wouldn't tip.

I stay in B&amp;B's all the time - here is my opinion:

If it is a family run B&amp;B and the owners/family clean your rooms, then it is included in the price you pay for the room.

If it is one of those large fancy resort type B&amp;Bs/&quot;Inns&quot; (I hardly ever stay at these) they usually hire maid service. You may want to leave a tip in this circumstance.

arriba's experience of having the owner add a gratuity is disgusting. I don't know if you had to pay extra for dinner, but if they wanted a tip they should have just included it in the price for dinner!

Even more appalling is cmcfong's experience! When you stay at a B&amp;B you expect a clean room. That is part of the price. To make someone feel guilty if they don't leave a tip is just wrong.

So to answer plantlady's question : No. Service is included in the price.

I found this advice by Googling &quot;tipping at bed and breakfast&quot;:

<i>Many, if not most B&amp;Bs have a no-tipping policy in the US and Canada. In other countries it varies. It never hurts to tip, but it is definitely not expected, and many B&amp;Bs specifically ask that you do not. Most are family owned and the price they charge covers everything.

The safest bet is to inquire at the specific Bed and Breakfast where you plan to stay before you arrive.

If there is hired housekeeping staff, then tip the same as at a hotel.</i>

I posted this on another thread; like Thurston, I won a B&amp;B and have cleaning staff. Unlike Thurston, we have tip envelopes and information in the room that clearly state who the tips go to.
'as the owner of a B&amp;B I would say that most owners do not expect $$ tips but nice gestures are always appreciated. Leaving some dollar bills on the table after breakfast is not the way to go. We have housekeeping staff at my B&amp;B and any monies left as tips get distributed to them. We do have tip envelopes in the rooms for the housekeepers.'

I meant I own a B&amp;B, not that I won it. What a poker game that would be!

I also own a B&amp;B. We have a small notecard stating it is acceptable, but not required to tip our housekeeper.

Even though we are a small B&amp;B, we do have help.

Our B&amp;B has 7 rooms and it's not my life's work to clean 7 rooms, 7 days a week! I'd rather be able to chat with guests than be hustling them out the door so I can clean. So, we hire help.

She appreciates the tips.

Tips range from $0-$20/day depending on the guest. We do not mention a standard tip, guests leave what they want. If I have to state a price (some guests are adamant I tell them the exact tip to leave), I say the average is $5/day.

When it is just myself doing the cleaning, I do not expect a guest to leave a tip. Although a tip is NOT included in the price of the room, it's always been my understanding that you do not tip the owner of the business.

Hope this helps!

I also own a B &amp; B, 3 guestrooms in a very small town and am reservations/chef/laundry/housekeeping. I do not expect tips, do not put out envelopes of any kind. IF a guest leaves a tip (rare) I take it that they felt they had extraordinary service and appreciated what I did for them. We appreciate it, but in no way expect a tip.

I own a B and B. Yes many times I am the maid, the chef, the gardener, etc. Do I expect tips, no but if I should get one I am not at all upset. I regard the tip as previously noted that I have done an especially great job. I do not think there should be a hard fast rule either way.

Thanks to everyone for their input, I found the reponses from the B&amp;B owners very helpful. We love to stay in B&amp;B's.

Just one more thought on tipping at B&amp;Bs, again as an owner. For whatever reason, U.S. practice is not to tip owners. That's okay with me - if guests asked me, I'd say leave a tip for my staff, but if you want to do something nice for me, write a glowing tripadvisor review, or send my free postcards to your friend that loves to go to B&amp;Bs, or buy a gift certificate at Christmas for your spouse because you had a great time. Those things make me happy!

I do those things, Thomas. When I find a great place I try to share the news. I was very glad to see your post.

I'm not sure if I'd know if it was the owner/family that cleaned my room unless I asked which I haven't up to now.

I'd leave a tip at a B&amp;B for great service anyway regardless of whom the money goes to and I'd write the rave review too.

I completely disagree with Janis' &quot;rule&quot; about not tipping the staff depending on who they are.

Why? Simply because of regardless of who they are they are providing a service. If you are very pleased with that service and feel it deserves a tip then I think you should do so.

Do you think someone who works in a place is going to be insulted by being tipped? If so, then go ahead and leave the tip and wait and see if they try to give it back!

Dukey, what the others are referring to is the custom, which I remember as: &quot;you don't tip Joe at Joe's Bar&quot;.

Yes, Joe might very well be insulted by it. He might not give it back since that might be taken as an insult, but would probably just add it to the tip pool for his employees.

not &quot;my&quot; rule. - from 4 different business and travel websites from the NYT quoting Fodors to MSNBC:

&gt;&gt;The Fodor's guidebook says it's O.K. to skip the tip if you're only staying one night, and most sources agree it is not necessary to tip in a bed-and-breakfast.&lt;&lt;
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&gt;&gt;Tipping at a Bed and Breakfast (B&amp;B)

Many, if not most B&amp;Bs have a no-tipping policy in the US and Canada. In other countries it varies. It never hurts to tip, but it is definitely not expected, and many B&amp;Bs specifically ask that you do not. Most are family owned and the price they charge covers everything.

The safest bet is to inquire at the specific Bed and Breakfast where you plan to stay before you arrive.

If there is hired housekeeping staff, then tip the same as at a hotel.&lt;&lt;
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&gt;&gt;Bed and Breakfast Tipping Etiquette
In general, tipping etiquette dictates that business owners are not given tips. Most B&amp;Bs fall under that category, and indeed, most have &quot;no tipping&quot; policies in place. If you are in doubt, ask about their tipping policy when you book your room. (If the housekeeping staff is not part of the family, do tip them as you would in a hotel.)&lt;&lt;
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&gt;&gt;At B&amp;B’s with a few rooms that are run solely by the proprietor, owners do not expect to be tipped. But at larger B&amp;Bs that hire outside housekeeping staff, tipping is appreciated as in any other lodging. For owners of small inns, “in lieu of a cash tip you can give something more valuable: a good referral.&lt;&lt;
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I have heard the 'no-tipping rules at B&amp;Bs' quoted everywhere - I think it is from Fodor's, actually? I do believe that is a significant overstatement - I have stayed in many, many B&amp;Bs over the years and know many, many more B&amp;B owners through industry networking, and can say that I don't know one that has an actual ban on tips. I also don't think it's true that most B&amp;Bs don't have cleaning staff - again, most I have stayed at do have someone, even if it's part-time. We have six rooms - and two part-time cleaners. Thurston with three rooms has a part-time cleaner. We are still a family-run B&amp;B - my husband and I welcome guests, check them in, cook breakast, do the laundry, buy the groceries, market the business and pay the bills. Even small shops hire someone to run the front desk so they have a minute off once in awhile - same with small B&amp;Bs.

Highflyer, at my place, you know we have cleaning staff even if you don't meet them because I mention them by name in our guest information booklet and in general on the tip envelopes. However, I would like to assure cmcfong we do not use the tip envelopes to beg for vacation funds, not even for the housekeepers!!

No one turns down tips, and even though I don't keep the cash, I am gratified when my guests leave tips for my staff. It makes us, and them, feel good! But I appreciate the good feedback more. If you do both, I'm happy and my staff is happy!

I seldom stay at B&amp;B's, but when I do I leave a tip for the housekeeper just like I do at hotels and motels.

I say go ahead and tip. Even a family run b&amp;b will often have someone else that comes in and cleans the rooms during peak times. IMO, tipping never hurts. I've asked owners of salons and b&amp;b's their thoughts and the unanimous answer is that a tip is always appreicated!